yeah since i meet a few matches,,i am really wanting to take it to another level,,,when is he ready? why is he keeping this on a slow level... because since i have been having feeling for this person,,,,,,,

First, what? Second will be air, thanks mods. Third, what are these so-called "levels" and what do they represent? If I moved up a level would I get a shiny cool sword like they do in the RPG games?

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Slow is better

Fast is just going to cause a train wreck.

I think Marvin Gaye said it best. "Let's get it on
Please, please, get it on"...........

Something to be said for a guy who thinks through big life decisions and moves with purpose. You don't want to be lied to so enjoy the moments you have and let things happen naturally. It is worth the wait.

Could be many things, he might not be into you the way you're into him (he could just like you as a friend), he might still be caught up in a woman (or women) from his past- nothing worse than the guy who can't or won't get over his ex, he might be shy, could be anything. I'd suggest talking to him about it, but I've learned that's not a good idea because then the guy thinks you're really into him, and he has a tendency to think you're desperate for a relationship and it makes him think he's hot chit, which only makes a bad situation worse.

So I don't really know what to tell you. If you like him, I guess you could stick around and wait to see what happens, if you find someone better, you could go for that. It's up to you. I hope it works out for you since you like him.

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ask him... how would we know when he is ready or if he ever will be? only he knows that

Way to throw it entirely out of context...

Communicate, that is key, but do it properly so you don't run into any miscommunication.

You could of deleted my Snort as well.........

I like to take things slow, a lot of times I move too slow. I just need time to process things. I tend to over think a lot as well. I would rather move too slow than too fast though.

I would say you have a very considerate man, thats using his brain, and being wise.

Like TxsSun says, slower is better. From opposite sides of the fence, I have to say I'm grateful Me and mine haven't rushed into things, in spite of having mutual feelings. I've grown to cherish her in such a way as I've never done before, and really appreciate being a small part of her kids' lives too.