Factors in a Relationship.....

How much do the following factors play in a relationship:

1) Race

2) Religion

3) Money

3) Appearance

4) Personality

I believe to men some of this factors dont have much effect but from my own experience RACE, MONEY and personalty and recently religion play a big role in relationship to women.

Are these issues more of a factor for women?

It obviously depends upon the person but,,,my order would be

Religion(must be equally yoked, so to speak)

Personality(must be someone who carries themself in a way that sets a good example for my kids)

Appearance(must care enough about themself to try and be healthy, but not so much that their gym is the center of their life or every morsel that goes into their mouth has to be nutritious)

Money(must not need to be financially supported by me, I have kids to support)

Race(actually a non factor, except where CULTURE is concerned, but that ties more into religious belief than biology)

You make me cry ......how ppl are now days

You have the number 3 up twice.

To answer the question though, who cares?

Sorry :) i met a girl and she got more $ then me not that i care at all and she dont care if i'm poor or not or what ever she just care that i love her for her and thats it i think thats bit hard to find shes a keeper i am going to have fun going to church with her ...


i am the same like her.

congratulations and good luck

ty you "Hugs"

There are so many more things to factor in...if there were only 4 things everybody would be in a relationship.

I don't have a list of factors for relationships. If we get along fine, then fine. If we don't then find someone else.

If you would just wear pants that in itself would prolly help..

those are the facts of life

The only thing on that list that matters to me personally is #2. If a person is gullible enough to be mixed up in that sort of myth based ideology, then another date wouldn't happen.

3 and 4 matter ....

Everything else is negotiable based upon how good she looks in knee-high boots.

All of them since I'm not in a relationship!

I would put personlity as number one otherwise we can stop right there.

I would put religion as a number two factor because I would want them to be able to accept that there could a power greater than themselves. Their choice to whatever that could possibly be.

I would put money as number three because I can barely support me.

I would put appearance as four because if they are uglier than I am then there might be a problem.

I would put race laat because if they run too fast I might not be able to catch them.

Pants wearing does not factor in to the relationship.

For me the follow factors don't mean as much, I think it is what is on the inside of the person that matters the most.

1) Race - Doesn't matter, white, black, asian, latina, native american, arabic, makes no difference to me.

2) Religion- Doesn't matter, as long as she has one.

3) Money - Not really important, but would prefer she had some kind of income.

4) Personality - Very important. As in not a b!tch! And she needs to pay attention to her man instead of taking him for granted. I should be as important to her as she is to me.