How many parents go thru this?


Where are ex/spouses or ex live-ins manipulate your
children just to be jerks?

I am with you

Both my ex and his mother do it and my son clams up and won't tell me
til he is ready to explode he is 9. But my daughter has turned the table
and she asks him how his drug habit is and gives it right back to them,
and if he has any child support for her to give me. I laugh at it now
cuz as they get older as my oldest son did they know who is who.
It does get better Tulip and I hope it will for ya soon.

Before i married my ex, we talked and i told her, "the kids" we were
both previously married, the kids have to feel loved equally,disciplined
equally or this isn't going to work. She dropped the ball on that one
big time. That was the begining of the end.

sorry stayna

my x is/was an expert manipulator

son figured it out

daughter is still under her spell

and they are 27/28

hhhhmmmmmm

maybe someday she will figure it out

my ex is a pro my son is 9 and is starting to figure it out my daughter
however is only two and unfortunatly will never know anything diffrent.

aww sorry ice


best wishes and prayers sent for all of u

I wish parents would realize that the kids did not ask for the divorce.
If parents would just keep the fight between the adults and just
unconditionally love the children, we would be ok..... but some ex's are
completely selfish and do not think of the kids, only themselves.

Been there and wish the best to all parents dealing with this very
important issue!!!

me too pretty sister. BIG SIGH!! having my youngin bawling last night
hearing his dad will never let him call his mommy...i was not real
happy. Must really SUK being that nasty.

I hate parents like this... just cover their faults they do that but in
the process they are spoiling kids mind n life...

argggggggggggggg


diane

luvs ya

When i first divorced last year the kkids looked at me as the bad
guy(cuz iasked for the divorce) Now they c that dispite all my efforts
to keep their dad in their lives, (hardy sees them)
He really dosent care about them or for them at all. He says things to
them like"if mommy does this then i will c u all the time or i dont
have time for you cus i have to work to pay mommies child support" they
both have come to realize that he will never make time for them and he
uses them to hurt me, they are 11 and 13 and anymore if they do have the
chance to spend some time with him, they almost always want to come
home or dont want to go cuz they wld rather play with their friends.

ERIE, Pa. -- A woman used her 4-week-old baby as a weapon in a domestic
dispute, swinging the infant through the air and striking her boyfriend
with the child, authorities said.

Now thats manipulating your child!!!!