If that seems to be the problem, maybe you need to step back and take a breath. Find out who you are and what you want, before you even try a relationship. You can't find happiness until you are happy with yourself...

Good luck, you seem like such a sweetheart.

what she said...

thanks so much i have got so much good advice on here

I am sorry, but I just read your profile.

You are only seperated? Then why even try to date now? Are you trying to fill a void that has recently appeared? That is not possible. You must first get past what has happened, deal with it, face it, and learn to love yourself as one again....Once that is accomplished, then you will see that the void will disappear on its own...

How can you trust what the guys on here say it true???

I guess that's just the chance we all take. Your judgement, of course, determines that

If you are consistently ending up being dissapointed by the men you date then you might want to step back and look at the people you chose and your vetting process. If you beleive anything someone says when the little facts don't quite fit then you may be deludeing yourself. Two months is a very short length of time to think that someone is going to fall for you and be devoted only to you.

Meeting someone on line does not neccesarily make them a player but like any other risky behavior you have to take your time and verify. Lucky for you your friend busted him.

Wasteing your energy trying to reveal this casanova here and whineing how all guys are louses is pretty much going to scare away anyone nice.

Sorry dissapointing news right before the holidays. Maybe volunteering to help Santa you might find a better quality of people.

"Target Acquired "

Yes, give up. But only on him. Dump him and move on. You deserve better.

I had violins playing and felt really bad of the OP until reading the profile and her still being married.

You are a MARRIED WOMAN on a dating site. Why not finish with the whole marriage first before bringing other people into the situation. I don't blame this guy for not being exclusive. Why should he???

and your still asking questions?....

I don't think you are really "dating" unless you go out on real life physical dates...

Online dating? NO - it's ONLINE MEETING folks!!! *sigh*...

$.02

this has probably been said already...but don't feel like reading the entire thread lol.


Are you just 'dating'?
Because the point of just 'dating' is dating different people seeing if there is someone you want to start a relationship with...

but if you are in a relationship(that has been discussed...not just assumed) then that's a problem...

maybe try talking to him, asking him if he wants to be exclusive with you or if he wants to continue to date other people..

then you know what page he is on, and you might not be there...

But as I said if you have already talked about being exclusive...then he's a loser just my opinion

i'm gonna champion for the guy here, in his defense, COME ON.

Oh! Oh! My turn! My turn! Pick me! Pick me!

Sucks to be you.

Anyway, as has been said...talk to him, he would know. Perhaps he forgot to change his status, or didn't think of it in the first place...or an alien mothership came down and visited him informing he should stay looking for someone or the end of the world would befall mankind. But then again, I'm just a married loser that wants to mess with your mind because obviously I have nothing better to do with my time...

I don't classify all guys here as losers



I'm just not into heavyset cheerleader wannabe's

These girls are pretty hefty for cheerleaders. Hey Mickey!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y4CyNvEfWoE

LMAO!

I'm sure there is at least a fukin loser married dude out there for her.

We always know. It's whether or not we want to know that matters.