Topic: How can you trust what the guys on here say it true | |
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you are right but it be a long letter to tell all about our two months together. but last week we went out and he held my hand the whole time we were out. but then he writes my girlfriend and tries to pick her up sounds like you are answering your own question. What I meant by the entire story was his side of the story. But I think you have already answered your own question Best of luck |
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i changed my profile also
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how have i answered my own question i am confussed
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If he's hitting on other women then what's the question?
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i meet a guy on this site he seemed nice and treats me good. but i just found out he is on here still trying to find someone. we have been dating for two months now. i am a good honest person. so am i just stupid to belive what a man says or what. i am wondering if i should just give up. then you are right but it be a long letter to tell all about our two months together. but last week we went out and he held my hand the whole time we were out. but then he writes my girlfriend and tries to pick her up |
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If he's hitting on other women, he's not trustworthy. It's one thing to be friends with another woman, but if he's flirting and asking them out, that's crossing a line.
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i want to give him a chance nobody has treated me so good as he has. but i can't trust him anymore
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Hitting on other women while being with you is being treated well? I don't think so. I know it is not fun to be alone but I'd rather be alone than miserable and worrying any day of the week.
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i just want to me a honest nice guy who will not hurt me and treat me good. am i asking to much
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IMO if you can't trust him, then it won;y work. I (myself) won't tell you to trust him or not since I don't know the whole story. But even if he is innocent and you still don't trust him, then it won't work
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Hitting on other women while being with you is being treated well? I don't think so. I know it is not fun to be alone but I'd rather be alone than miserable and worrying any day of the week. |
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Mostly all the guys on here are fukin losers that are married or in a relationship they just wana mess wit our minds. well some are. but yea i wouldnt ****ing trust them intill u meet someone thats sweet. Sounds like you have it all figured out......... How's your wife newarkjw? Haven't seen her in a while... she is doing ok and well? Meaner than a snake. I will send her your regards..... |
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Some of the guys don't seem to realize that friendships between women have been established on here. We have a tendency to share information, and watch each other's backs, so the dishonest men get flushed out pretty quickly. Men beware! Be honest and don't try to play us. If you have dishonest intentions, you will be found out eventually.
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..how can anyone trust anybody,be it in real life or a date site,and to label most guys on here as being losers is just wrong..and doubtful you know most of the guys on here... |
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Without trust, you have no relationship. I understand you care about this person, but you need to care about yourself first. He's not the only man in the world, there will be others. You deserve someone who treats you with respect, and it's totally disrespectful to hit on other women, especially if it's a friend of yours, because he knows full well that she will tell you. No one can tell you how to live your life, but you deserve better. People treat us as we allow them to.
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that is so true i know that i was married for five years and the last two years i just wanted him gone because there was nothing there anymore. trust is so important
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Whew huge communication problems here.With in 2 months something should of come up, if you were going to date others.Also that maybe something on your part you left out, you only wanted to date one person.
Now you feel burnt a bit, because you claim he's hitting on one of your friends.(is this hear say, or fact you have seen? But you went out still with him yet , and your getting the warm and fuzzy's? Hun, Ask him point blank,where your relationship is, or are you just friends...Good Luck... if you don't ask questions , you don't get answers, and if you don't get answers... this is where you end up. |
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i want to give him a chance nobody has treated me so good as he has. but i can't trust him anymore how is it treating u good if u can't trust him?now I'm confused. |
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Whew huge communication problems here.With in 2 months something should of come up, if you were going to date others.Also that maybe something on your part you left out, you only wanted to date one person. Now you feel burnt a bit, because you claim he's hitting on one of your friends.(is this hear say, or fact you have seen? But you went out still with him yet , and your getting the warm and fuzzy's? Hun, Ask him point blank,where your relationship is, or are you just friends...Good Luck... if you don't ask questions , you don't get answers, and if you don't get answers... this is where you end up. |
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i have ask him and he told me i could trust him. and yes my friend showed me the letters.
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