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 I'd end this relationship the guy is not making it clear you are who he intends to be with
He made it clear that he wants to marry me, but he doesn't want to hurt his grandmother. I wonder if she has actually met Juila, cause if she hasn't, that would explain why she is still alive. We have known each other since we were 14. |
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My fiance's grandmother's last wish before she dies is that she wants her grandson to marry his babies' mother, he doesn't want to hurt her, but he loves me, and I dont think that she has met me yet. His mom and dad are the only ones who actually know me out of his family, and they want him to marry me because according to his mom, I'm more sensible, smarter, caring, kind and sweet and will actually take care of him and the kids, even though he has cancer. but the rest of the family believes that he should marry her because it's the right thing to do, and they dont honestly care who they hurt, even if he gets his heart broken and everything by her, it will be me, Jesse and his mom picking up the pieces if he should go that way. So tell me, should he leave me, and go off and marry someone that he doesn't love and give up his happiness, or should he stay with me, and actually be loved and taken care of like he is suppose to? That is something only he can decide, it is his life. He probably loves his granny a lot but she has to realize he knows what will make him happy. Good Luck. |
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Edited by
PacificStar48
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Sun 12/13/09 08:57 PM
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My fiance's grandmother's last wish before she dies is that she wants her grandson to marry his babies' mother, he doesn't want to hurt her, but he loves me, and I dont think that she has met me yet. His mom and dad are the only ones who actually know me out of his family, and they want him to marry me because according to his mom, I'm more sensible, smarter, caring, kind and sweet and will actually take care of him and the kids, even though he has cancer. but the rest of the family believes that he should marry her because it's the right thing to do, and they dont honestly care who they hurt, even if he gets his heart broken and everything by her, it will be me, Jesse and his mom picking up the pieces if he should go that way. So tell me, should he leave me, and go off and marry someone that he doesn't love and give up his happiness, or should he stay with me, and actually be loved and taken care of like he is suppose to? This plan has disaster written all over it. First off this guy sounds like an emotional trainwreck. Single parent, with a dysfuncional ex-wife, coping with not only a manipulative Grandma but sounds like parents and extended family AND being a Cancer patient. Come on he needs a twenty something high school pal as a wife careing for him and some exwife's kids (don't kid yourself she will stay in theses kids lives no matter what the papers say) like he needs another whole in his head. Why the hell you want to screw your life up with this Drama King who doesn't eveidently take responsibility for a wife, kids, or his own health or tell you the truth I don't know. I think you need your head examined. |
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I agree with PacificStar.
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Whew... I know you care for this man of yours,but it's his responsibility for these children.And this man of your is telling you all this,about his grandmothers wishes?Don't get married you both need to grow up, your not ready.And I question if either of you can take on responsibilities of raising a family yet.Have your boyfriend do what best for his babies, not himself.
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My fiance's grandmother's last wish before she dies is that she wants her grandson to marry his babies' mother, he doesn't want to hurt her, but he loves me, and I dont think that she has met me yet. His mom and dad are the only ones who actually know me out of his family, and they want him to marry me because according to his mom, I'm more sensible, smarter, caring, kind and sweet and will actually take care of him and the kids, even though he has cancer. but the rest of the family believes that he should marry her because it's the right thing to do, and they dont honestly care who they hurt, even if he gets his heart broken and everything by her, it will be me, Jesse and his mom picking up the pieces if he should go that way. So tell me, should he leave me, and go off and marry someone that he doesn't love and give up his happiness, or should he stay with me, and actually be loved and taken care of like he is suppose to? Hmmmm seems like a tough situation. Let me call Maury |
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I guess the Granny excuse is better than no excuse.
wheres the scratching my head smiley ? This guy is a jerk, let him deal with his own screwed up mess and move on, Heck girl, start your life with a clean slate. Not with this guys nightmare. |
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It's a selfish dying wish request. If she told him to break his leg it' be far more reasonable.
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He should be a big boy and make his own decisions
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