Hi!
I am just wondering if this has happened to anyone else out there. I am a 54 year old white male who has always dated white females, not really as a preference I guess but that is just the way it has been. But within the last few months, I suddenly realized I have not even been looking much at the white ladies and find myself extremely attracted to black women. I hope no one thinks I am stereo typing but I suddenly realized the things that has always attracted me to certain white women were big kissable lips, nice round bottoms, hour glass figures with a little more sand in the bottom... and so forth. I have also always liked women with strong personalities and passions... It is official I would love to find a woman that could put the SOUL in the soulmate for me...
Im just a simple country boy and these feelings and realizations is something new to me...so thats why I was wondering...is this ordinary, or extraordinary... what ever it is, it makes me extremely happy to suddenly know what I am looking for... Now all I have to do is Find Her! if anyone is interested I am in the KC area!
be gentle, i am new at this! hah

Evolution. You have a different outlook, congratulations...some people die without venturing outside the box.

Hello Roegue to Mingle2.
Join in the discussions in the other forums, get to know some of the other folks and let them get to know you. Good luck in your search.

i got outside of the box once. but they caught me and put me back

Do what I did and become so crazy in the box that they kick you out.

Welcome and good luck with all of that.

My ex-wife is black/hawaiian.... I am as whiteboy as they come I think....lol I never set out with any paticular fancy according to race and it happend. I haven't dated any black women this go around and only one prior to my wife. I have been attracted to women of every race, although there are a couple of accents I just can't get past but barring that i would date a woman of any race!

You're always welcome to play in my box.

Life is ever changing and as we grow so do our choices and preferences of what we like. Tastes and circumstances evolve and we discard what no longer works.

Unfortunately there is a lot of competition by males for the females with hourglass figures, full lips, silky skin and tight buns.

I think you're a better man for realizing what your life goal is, you have a clear vision of your future now.

But please be aware that there will be a lot of women with apple shapes, sandy hair and plump thighs and also an overwhelming amount of young men with six-packs and Ferraris between you and the sharp-minded vivacious women with full lips.

aha! You are indeed wise wux! an ole country boy like me doesnt really have much of a chance anymore...I finally realize who I would love to find and everybody else done found em!
My life in a nutshell..... guess its the nutshell I need to break out of!