Topic: The Male Ego
angelo54915's photo
Fri 12/04/09 01:45 PM

:banana: :banana: I am glad that I am a little monkey:banana: :banana:

Im a blue banana

XenomorphEyez's photo
Fri 12/04/09 02:25 PM


:banana: :banana: I am glad that I am a little monkey:banana: :banana:

Im a blue banana


For you








angelo54915's photo
Fri 12/04/09 02:27 PM
All these bananas dancing is getting me excited... Anyone wanna pogo stick?

Pickofthelitter's photo
Fri 12/04/09 03:25 PM

lol...the ego...fe or male...

the only freedom from all that pains in life, is for one to kill their own ego themself, seeing it seperates oneself from all happiness, and is the very essence of what create all human emotional pain...

"it", the ego, closes off the brain from hearing "feedback" as accurate,making one live thru emotion alone, instead of by what it know's is BETTER, even in cases denying outside words until one has walked off the cliff of ego manic gone awry, and destroyed itself, even killing a few 4 cops sitting in a coffee shop along the way...

of course, such extremes are only ABLE to be created, when one does not see it's own ego ITSELF must kill, and destroy, by falling on it's own sword, by it's own self accord, and not allowing and falling prey to the notion of the many voices from the outside, that LOVE THEIR EGO, so all too redily are willing to coddle and playcate another, BUT WHAT THEY DEMAND BACK FOR THEMSELF, and the only reason they agree to, and as such then only seek out words that make oneself "feel good", falling into a false sense that it's ego should be "protected"...

to protect the ego is to soon live in a constant feeling of "no one loves me", all people are mean, and to fill the soul with wishes and whims of vengence against anything that say's what might, could, or is true...

ego secures it's own protection, it's own security, it's own good things, it's own good feeling's, soon this making itself blind to how itself is hurting many other's along the way, and then wonder's why no one likes it, lol...

too bad the cards are stacked against anything seeing or learning anything different, since all "outside environment" is using such tactic's more and more each day, witnessed more and more in the media, as grown up's, so called adults, do nothing but respond to outside criticsm with "accusation's and attacks" in return, only using a "denial or rebuttal" logic for every word heard, and soon, each thing heard seems, or "feels" like a possible accusation, and is responded to as such...

where can such lead but to a total breakdown of all logic, as the logic is formed in the brain by what the brain or person "most cares about", so, if one's own 'feeling's' are the "most important, and not other's, well, a very small data bank, actually not based on any logic at all, but rather inconsistent constantly changing "feeling's"...

seems it cannot be missed, that logic MUST OVER RIDE the feeling, or much **** shall rain down within any society...

just one cent






that's some powerful writing, yet very poetic, but I'm afraid I'd have to climb a step stool in order to even relate on your philosophical level.

I actually tried googling some of what you wrote, just to see if it was in deed original, and all I could find was a few spelling errors lol Very creative in deed!

It's much easier just to laugh at the dancing banana's in this thread lol

Can logic override emotoin? I'd like to think so, but like you said the cards seem to be stacked against us.


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Fri 12/04/09 03:56 PM


You know the problem with this is a lot of times they can't change it! So i think thats why people wont say anything! If it's something that can be remedied i will say something, if not forget it i just lie! But you know once you have had awesome sex, it's cery difficult to settle! My biggest issue is with lips! If she has no lips to kiss with it just kills it for me!


You date lipless women?huh


Brilliant.......rofl

davidben1's photo
Fri 12/04/09 04:03 PM
lol...

indeed, it is the human first and natural inclination to "repell away" from what know's "different" than self, but such practice only builds the ego as tower's unto the sky, of futile infinity no solution, but...

to realize to go against self's own grain, against it's own natural nature, to force self to find HOW outside words are accurate, as "different" as they may be, than the brain is literally expanded to greater capacity of knowing what it seek's, the answer to UNKNOWNS, as of course, if it agree's with what self already know, it is not any NEW or MORE KNOWING...

the ego indeed prevent such, but to pass beyond it, has no other logical outcome than to INCREASE THE INTELLIGENCE, with more and more real true knowing of what self did not know, and in short time the "body" no longer "feels" offence or "negative" feeling's in when hearing outside words, and the war within the self, self own worst enemey, that KEEP ITSELF FROM ALL IT'S OWN GOOD IT SEEK IN ALL FEEING, is over, that created all misery for one and for mankind, and hate and malice and bitterness and self pity is finally ended, the war won by the strong courageous heart, that seen to put it's ego to death, to bury it six feet under, and one rises from the ashes of itself, and wisdom course thru it's vien's, and solution to all the trouble is now ever present, and no sadness ever cross the threshold of it's own heart again, as the hardest thing in the universe has been accomplished, self pride has been abolished forever more, and love and life as loose electricity pass's thru the human cell's of the body, and the mind know's the feeling of no doubt of itself in all ways, and of all things outside of itself, and the infinity that each has available to itself become's as real, and humanity rise's as the sunken atlantis to the surface, for a new era and dawn of true solution's to what troubleth all, and honor and valor to protect and preserve all is born, and mankind walk into the future hand in hand as true friends, that no words ever spoken from anything, can ever steal away again, and our love one for the other is revealed into the light that was once darkness as the darkest night...

Vietscouty's photo
Fri 12/04/09 07:21 PM
Carlos, its good to know that you're willing to take anything as a grand assault, not grain of salt. WTF is grain of salt? But anyways, I think I have to agree with you when it comes to us guys having some major ego problems. You would probably noticed that majority of guys have this problem and I don't know if it includes you too. I don't know who was your master or life mentor if you even have one but I was taught that sometimes you will learn through defeat. If you know that you don't have such capabilities, just keep your mouth shut and learn. Well, that's what my mentor taught me.

Ladylid2012's photo
Fri 12/04/09 07:26 PM

lol...

indeed, it is the human first and natural inclination to "repell away" from what know's "different" than self, but such practice only builds the ego as tower's unto the sky, of futile infinity no solution, but...

to realize to go against self's own grain, against it's own natural nature, to force self to find HOW outside words are accurate, as "different" as they may be, than the brain is literally expanded to greater capacity of knowing what it seek's, the answer to UNKNOWNS, as of course, if it agree's with what self already know, it is not any NEW or MORE KNOWING...

the ego indeed prevent such, but to pass beyond it, has no other logical outcome than to INCREASE THE INTELLIGENCE, with more and more real true knowing of what self did not know, and in short time the "body" no longer "feels" offence or "negative" feeling's in when hearing outside words, and the war within the self, self own worst enemey, that KEEP ITSELF FROM ALL IT'S OWN GOOD IT SEEK IN ALL FEEING, is over, that created all misery for one and for mankind, and hate and malice and bitterness and self pity is finally ended, the war won by the strong courageous heart, that seen to put it's ego to death, to bury it six feet under, and one rises from the ashes of itself, and wisdom course thru it's vien's, and solution to all the trouble is now ever present, and no sadness ever cross the threshold of it's own heart again, as the hardest thing in the universe has been accomplished, self pride has been abolished forever more, and love and life as loose electricity pass's thru the human cell's of the body, and the mind know's the feeling of no doubt of itself in all ways, and of all things outside of itself, and the infinity that each has available to itself become's as real, and humanity rise's as the sunken atlantis to the surface, for a new era and dawn of true solution's to what troubleth all, and honor and valor to protect and preserve all is born, and mankind walk into the future hand in hand as true friends, that no words ever spoken from anything, can ever steal away again, and our love one for the other is revealed into the light that was once darkness as the darkest night...


brilliant flowerforyou

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Fri 12/04/09 09:14 PM
flattery is as a baseball game, if one hold onto "flattery", most those that seek it thinking it shall make happiness within, and accept it unto self, it shall strive to believe and accept and hold onto the the "baseball", and shall strike itself out each time, and the ball of flattery shall rot the soul unto misery, but that which see such NEVER DID PROVIDE TRUE HAPPINESS, and return's the ball of flattery to it's team mate, keep's like alive, which is "love" in all it's truest essence, and as such, i say unto thee, only brilliance itself which be what look beyond and further than iut's own self pride, can see or find brilliant in total ignorance and unkept for itself knowing...

peace dear friends of the brotherhood of all humanness as equal, for to hear the accuracy in the rap song, in the metal song, in the alternative song, in the religious song, in the hip hop song, create all happiness within...

unpeace to peace only afford the true knowing of unpeace to recognize true peace...

Atlantis75's photo
Fri 12/04/09 09:18 PM
Edited by Atlantis75 on Fri 12/04/09 09:18 PM

and the infinity that each has available to itself become's as real, and humanity rise's as the sunken atlantis to the surface, for a new era and dawn of true solution's to what troubleth all, and honor and valor to protect and preserve all is born, and mankind walk into the future hand in hand as true friends, that no words ever spoken from anything, can ever steal away again, and our love one for the other is revealed into the light that was once darkness as the darkest night...


You said "Atlantis" :banana: :banana: :banana:

davidben1's photo
Fri 12/04/09 09:21 PM
atlantis???

indeed, as it shall rise to the surface, and the oceans shall receed, as the universe rights itself to "center" alignement, and the finds and knowing's and happening's shall awaken the asleep spieces called human brains...


Ladylid2012's photo
Fri 12/04/09 09:22 PM

flattery is as a baseball game, if one hold onto "flattery", most those that seek it thinking it shall make happiness within, and accept it unto self, it shall strive to believe and accept and hold onto the the "baseball", and shall strike itself out each time, and the ball of flattery shall rot the soul unto misery, but that which see such NEVER DID PROVIDE TRUE HAPPINESS, and return's the ball of flattery to it's team mate, keep's like alive, which is "love" in all it's truest essence, and as such, i say unto thee, only brilliance itself which be what look beyond and further than iut's own self pride, can see or find brilliant in total ignorance and unkept for itself knowing...

peace dear friends of the brotherhood of all humanness as equal, for to hear the accuracy in the rap song, in the metal song, in the alternative song, in the religious song, in the hip hop song, create all happiness within...

unpeace to peace only afford the true knowing of unpeace to recognize true peace...


I was not using flattery...it was a compliment, for an explanation very well said, well done. Just accept it as that and don't make it out to be more than it is...

davidben1's photo
Fri 12/04/09 09:54 PM


flattery is as a baseball game, if one hold onto "flattery", most those that seek it thinking it shall make happiness within, and accept it unto self, it shall strive to believe and accept and hold onto the the "baseball", and shall strike itself out each time, and the ball of flattery shall rot the soul unto misery, but that which see such NEVER DID PROVIDE TRUE HAPPINESS, and return's the ball of flattery to it's team mate, keep's like alive, which is "love" in all it's truest essence, and as such, i say unto thee, only brilliance itself which be what look beyond and further than iut's own self pride, can see or find brilliant in total ignorance and unkept for itself knowing...

peace dear friends of the brotherhood of all humanness as equal, for to hear the accuracy in the rap song, in the metal song, in the alternative song, in the religious song, in the hip hop song, create all happiness within...

unpeace to peace only afford the true knowing of unpeace to recognize true peace...


I was not using flattery...it was a compliment, for an explanation very well said, well done. Just accept it as that and don't make it out to be more than it is...


awh, precious ladylid, BUT, it COULD HAVE BEEN ACCEPTED AS FLATTERY, as u called the post "brilliant", which simply gave the "opportunity" to tell of one cent, of the game of "wanting flattery", that human's first naturally seek out, for good first reasonm and thrive on for soul food, but alas also telling of what may provide deeper insight into what happen's when one does such things, as what matter's here most, besides how ALL THINGS EFFECT SELF UNTO EITHER TRUE HAPPINESS OR FALSE HAPPINESS WHICH END IN MISERY FOR SELF, and since what end in self misery for anything is most important, i chose to expound upon, for the sake of the happiness of other's fate, and ONLY YOUR RESPONSE COULD AFFORD SUCH OPPORTUNITY, and for that, i thank you, and praise you for finging brillaint in what could ALSO be called easily ignorance, but indeed, the words only came from the want of no other human having to experience the pain fo such, that this one has felt all too much...

it was in no way any insult to what u said, just for the stated record, straight from the one you spoke it to...

peace to you ladylid...




Ladylid2012's photo
Fri 12/04/09 10:10 PM



flattery is as a baseball game, if one hold onto "flattery", most those that seek it thinking it shall make happiness within, and accept it unto self, it shall strive to believe and accept and hold onto the the "baseball", and shall strike itself out each time, and the ball of flattery shall rot the soul unto misery, but that which see such NEVER DID PROVIDE TRUE HAPPINESS, and return's the ball of flattery to it's team mate, keep's like alive, which is "love" in all it's truest essence, and as such, i say unto thee, only brilliance itself which be what look beyond and further than iut's own self pride, can see or find brilliant in total ignorance and unkept for itself knowing...

peace dear friends of the brotherhood of all humanness as equal, for to hear the accuracy in the rap song, in the metal song, in the alternative song, in the religious song, in the hip hop song, create all happiness within...

unpeace to peace only afford the true knowing of unpeace to recognize true peace...


I was not using flattery...it was a compliment, for an explanation very well said, well done. Just accept it as that and don't make it out to be more than it is...


awh, precious ladylid, BUT, it COULD HAVE BEEN ACCEPTED AS FLATTERY, as u called the post "brilliant", which simply gave the "opportunity" to tell of one cent, of the game of "wanting flattery", that human's first naturally seek out, for good first reasonm and thrive on for soul food, but alas also telling of what may provide deeper insight into what happen's when one does such things, as what matter's here most, besides how ALL THINGS EFFECT SELF UNTO EITHER TRUE HAPPINESS OR FALSE HAPPINESS WHICH END IN MISERY FOR SELF, and since what end in self misery for anything is most important, i chose to expound upon, for the sake of the happiness of other's fate, and ONLY YOUR RESPONSE COULD AFFORD SUCH OPPORTUNITY, and for that, i thank you, and praise you for finging brillaint in what could ALSO be called easily ignorance, but indeed, the words only came from the want of no other human having to experience the pain fo such, that this one has felt all too much...

it was in no way any insult to what u said, just for the stated record, straight from the one you spoke it to...

peace to you ladylid...






I have found being immune to flattery and criticism has been a very effective way to keep the ego in check....

Peace to you davidben flowerforyou

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Fri 12/04/09 11:47 PM
Yes I am very good at flattery! I have a silver tongue a sign of the pitchfork! I have ego issues, always have since i started playing sports as a boy! I try to keep them in check but it's hard sometimes. I'm not so bad though i am pretty humble too, but if the truth be told most people have some type of ego issue. I have always hated losing.....!

davidben1's photo
Sat 12/05/09 12:31 AM
only true honor, and wisdom, and valor, and courage, can admit it's own weakness, and it cannot be missed, that what finds the fortitude to du such, gets wiser and smarter and better, instead of less intelligent, and more weak, and less smart, lol...

peace to all

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Sat 12/05/09 12:21 PM
Ego DEOSNOT have to be a problem! Its really just a frame of mind! If you can think steps ahead of yourself then you will figure out that being egocentric is ultimately self defeating! Once you realize this as a fact, then you can then focus on changing. Its all about changing attitude and being secure that its ok to be wrong or weak in an area. Its ok because once you know your problem then you are empowered to improve them and transform your self! People are critical of me all the time. My ex wife could criticise EVERYTHING about me. And I think I have started to improve myself once I realized that being unreasonably proud was to my detriment and so I changed my attitude. I learned a big life lesson that echoes a biblical proverb "you must first become a fool to become wise". This is very true indeed! When I actually started "listening" to co workers for example regarding my job performance, I could then move forward with improvement and thus move ahead in my career. Oftentimes WE are our biggest obstacle and it usually comes in the form of big ego and false pride. Its also unattractive. If you know deep inside that you have pride issues but look at it as some kind of virtue or a vital function to being a "real man", then assess your problems you may have in personal relationships and see if you can't connect the dots! You most likely will.

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Sat 12/05/09 12:25 PM
Well...

if you want to walk the Freudian path then I would say it is my id and not my ego that gets into troubling situations.

angelo54915's photo
Sat 12/05/09 01:06 PM

Well...

if you want to walk the Freudian path then I would say it is my id and not my ego that gets into troubling situations.

About time someone knows what the hell is going on with ourselves!! I love that little voice in my head.

wux's photo
Sat 12/05/09 02:34 PM

Well...

if you want to walk the Freudian path then I would say it is my id and not my ego that gets into troubling situations.


Yeah, I've seen it. You've gotta get a better fake ID when you go clubbing.