I finally do a meet and greet with this guy. Everything goes great. He want's to take me on a real date. I send him message's, he read's them and, doesn't respond!!!!!!! (yes, this is on another site). What did I do wrong this time??????????

Don't WORRY it has happened to me alot.........I just think it's the guys maybe they are married or something ALOT of guys are flaky most just lookin for that sweet!

He's just an idiot.......or has been busy....or is an idiot. NEXT!!

Maybe this is payback because I stood him up twice?

It is entirely possible that he is extremely busy during this time of year, and further possible that he has not read your responses yet. Do not overreact, try to message one more time, after all, if he was worth the date, he may be worth some patience as well.

Hahaha!!!!! You're too funny!

you didn't do anyting wrong, it sounds like he is not that interested...

sorry this happened to you, I hope I am wrong!



$.02

You stood him up twice?

Oh, I did not see that one, yeah, personally, I do not like to be stood up, and will ignore the advances of a person who I think is stringing me along. Try to explain your situation, especially if you are shy, then give him time to respond.

I sent him 3 email's. He READ them.

This is the problem with the "free" dating sites...I have yet to try the sites you actually pay for..but hey..you get what you pay for?...

...I think?? :p lol

Hey it has happened to me as well. He either is already taken and wanted to see if he could "catch" you....he needs an ego boost...or he is married or in an exclusive relationship with someone.

....or.....who knows...perhaps you thought you hit it off with him...but he was not as into you as you were him...

check this movie out.. www.hesjustnotthatintoyoumovie.com

there are so many variables on this...lol....I am sorry your going through it...but I think we have all been there.

I wish I could be of more help to you....

Uhhh, yeah. I did apologize.

Theres the answer to your question right there

Ego boost you say???? That one might just fit.

He's kind of stupid. He hang's at a place an old gf of mine owns. He knows I want to see her and her sister. I used to work with both of them and.......for their dad. I think I'll stop by tonight.

What's good for the goose and all.

You stood him up twice, call him stupid and yet you're mad he's not answering your emails? I'm so confused!!!!!

I'll put forth some effort and show up tonight.

I met up with him last night.

If you sent him 3 emails... and he hasn't responded... that's 2 emails to many.
I wouldn't contact him anymore.
It's much easier for a guy (coward in the case) to tell someone that they want to take you out again, had a great time, blah blah blah... and then ignore you than just come out and say it's not gonna work.
Move on... if he responds then great. But I don't see the need to keep emailing him if he's not answering. The more you send, the more damage you will do.