Topic: Now What!!!!!!!!??????????
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Mon 11/30/09 10:56 AM


You stood him up twice, call him stupid and yet you're mad he's not answering your emails? I'm so confused!!!!!
I met up with him last night.


And????

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Mon 11/30/09 10:57 AM

He's kind of stupid. He hang's at a place an old gf of mine owns. He knows I want to see her and her sister. I used to work with both of them and.......for their dad. I think I'll stop by tonight.
laugh :tongue:flowerforyou

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Mon 11/30/09 10:57 AM

If you sent him 3 emails... and he hasn't responded... that's 2 emails to many.
I wouldn't contact him anymore.
It's much easier for a guy (coward in the case) to tell someone that they want to take you out again, had a great time, blah blah blah... and then ignore you than just come out and say it's not gonna work.
Move on... if he responds then great. But I don't see the need to keep emailing him if he's not answering. The more you send, the more damage you will do.

Thank you so much. Thus far, you do make the most sense. But, I'm still going tonight. You can call me stupid, that's ok. :)

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Mon 11/30/09 10:58 AM


You stood him up twice, call him stupid and yet you're mad he's not answering your emails? I'm so confused!!!!!
I met up with him last night.
noway you emailed him 3 times since last night???noway

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Mon 11/30/09 10:58 AM


You stood him up twice, call him stupid and yet you're mad he's not answering your emails? I'm so confused!!!!!
I met up with him last night.

So you saw him last night and have sent him 3 emails since then? Maybe he has a life. Or did you sleep with him and now he's not calling you back?

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Mon 11/30/09 10:59 AM



You stood him up twice, call him stupid and yet you're mad he's not answering your emails? I'm so confused!!!!!
I met up with him last night.


And????
The date went very nicely. I tried to buy a round of drink's, he wouldn't let me. It seemed like it went great.

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Mon 11/30/09 11:00 AM



You stood him up twice, call him stupid and yet you're mad he's not answering your emails? I'm so confused!!!!!
I met up with him last night.

So you saw him last night and have sent him 3 emails since then? Maybe he has a life. Or did you sleep with him and now he's not calling you back?
Noooo, I did not sleep with him.

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Mon 11/30/09 11:01 AM



You stood him up twice, call him stupid and yet you're mad he's not answering your emails? I'm so confused!!!!!
I met up with him last night.
noway you emailed him 3 times since last night???noway
Yup.

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Mon 11/30/09 11:01 AM



You stood him up twice, call him stupid and yet you're mad he's not answering your emails? I'm so confused!!!!!
I met up with him last night.

So you saw him last night and have sent him 3 emails since then? Maybe he has a life. Or did you sleep with him and now he's not calling you back?
noway I'm not sure how that's any of our business.

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Mon 11/30/09 11:02 AM
:angel:

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Mon 11/30/09 11:02 AM




You stood him up twice, call him stupid and yet you're mad he's not answering your emails? I'm so confused!!!!!
I met up with him last night.
noway you emailed him 3 times since last night???noway
Yup.
lol maybe he's read them but hasn't had much of a chance to reply...
If it were me, I would be a lil put off by someone emailing me 3 times in less than 24 hours if I haven't had a chance to reply yet. Anymore than that and I might not ever reply. JMO

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Mon 11/30/09 11:02 AM




You stood him up twice, call him stupid and yet you're mad he's not answering your emails? I'm so confused!!!!!
I met up with him last night.

So you saw him last night and have sent him 3 emails since then? Maybe he has a life. Or did you sleep with him and now he's not calling you back?
noway I'm not sure how that's any of our business.

Thank you Jill.

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Mon 11/30/09 11:04 AM

I finally do a meet and greet with this guy. Everything goes great. He want's to take me on a real date. I send him message's, he read's them and, doesn't respond!!!!!!! (yes, this is on another site). What did I do wrong this time??????????


Oh. You were with "that guy"? Yeah....see, he was in the witness protection program, and apparently the midget mob found him. Soooo.....if you get a response from a midget, then just delete. :tongue: laugh laugh

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Mon 11/30/09 11:05 AM





You stood him up twice, call him stupid and yet you're mad he's not answering your emails? I'm so confused!!!!!
I met up with him last night.
noway you emailed him 3 times since last night???noway
Yup.
lol maybe he's read them but hasn't had much of a chance to reply...
If it were me, I would be a lil put off by someone emailing me 3 times in less than 24 hours if I haven't had a chance to reply yet. Anymore than that and I might not ever reply. JMO

You have a point. This banter is helping me think thing's through. Going tonight I think might make me look more the fool.

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Mon 11/30/09 11:06 AM

noway I'm not sure how that's any of our business.

I asked a valid question and she answered it. She put a question out on a public message board, she made it everyone's business when she did so. Or don't you think people have sex?

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Mon 11/30/09 11:08 AM
I learned the hard way that men don't like it when you email them a lot. They think it means you're desperate or clingy or psycho or something. I wouldn't email him anymore if I were you, if he never contacts you again, just chalk it up to experience and a lesson learned.flowerforyou

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Mon 11/30/09 11:08 AM


noway I'm not sure how that's any of our business.

I asked a valid question and she answered it. She put a question out on a public message board, she made it everyone's business when she did so. Or don't you think people have sex?
of course she put it in a public forum. She answered it, it seems to defend herself.
Whether not she had did or didn't have sex with the guy isn't relevant to what she was asking.
I just thought it was an awfully personal question under the circumstances.

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Mon 11/30/09 11:09 AM






You stood him up twice, call him stupid and yet you're mad he's not answering your emails? I'm so confused!!!!!
I met up with him last night.
noway you emailed him 3 times since last night???noway
Yup.
lol maybe he's read them but hasn't had much of a chance to reply...
If it were me, I would be a lil put off by someone emailing me 3 times in less than 24 hours if I haven't had a chance to reply yet. Anymore than that and I might not ever reply. JMO

You have a point. This banter is helping me think thing's through. Going tonight I think might make me look more the fool.
are you supposed to meet him somewhere tonight?

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Mon 11/30/09 11:11 AM







You stood him up twice, call him stupid and yet you're mad he's not answering your emails? I'm so confused!!!!!
I met up with him last night.
noway you emailed him 3 times since last night???noway
Yup.
lol maybe he's read them but hasn't had much of a chance to reply...
If it were me, I would be a lil put off by someone emailing me 3 times in less than 24 hours if I haven't had a chance to reply yet. Anymore than that and I might not ever reply. JMO

You have a point. This banter is helping me think thing's through. Going tonight I think might make me look more the fool.
are you supposed to meet him somewhere tonight?
No. He said he wanted to plan a real date for us. he also KNOWS I want to see my old gf's. That being the case, I have a real reason for wanting to go there again.............aside from him.

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Mon 11/30/09 11:14 AM








You stood him up twice, call him stupid and yet you're mad he's not answering your emails? I'm so confused!!!!!
I met up with him last night.
noway you emailed him 3 times since last night???noway
Yup.
lol maybe he's read them but hasn't had much of a chance to reply...
If it were me, I would be a lil put off by someone emailing me 3 times in less than 24 hours if I haven't had a chance to reply yet. Anymore than that and I might not ever reply. JMO

You have a point. This banter is helping me think thing's through. Going tonight I think might make me look more the fool.
are you supposed to meet him somewhere tonight?
No. He said he wanted to plan a real date for us. he also KNOWS I want to see my old gf's. That being the case, I have a real reason for wanting to go there again.............aside from him.
I'm confused... are you and your girlfriends going to the same place you went last night with this guy?