Topic: Would You Be Jealous?
Shasta1's photo
Sat 11/14/09 08:51 AM
Edited by Shasta1 on Sat 11/14/09 08:53 AM
No. Yet,there's such a thing as 'too many friends/activies'. My ex was addicted to expensive hobbies =2 year stretches at a time and the people that came with them.
He also always was making new woman friends. It annoyed the crap outta me, but I wasn'y jealous.
He'd be so tired from work/fun it created the beginning of the end (plus the unknown money spent).
There. Guess I got that off my chest...need ...coffee....

no photo
Sat 11/14/09 08:52 AM
It depends if they are feeding them a line of crap about me then yes. I had this happen, her friend was BI and yet she was not and I found it wierd considering what she told me about her friend, so yes it depends on who they are and the people they hang out with.

Shasta1's photo
Sat 11/14/09 08:52 AM

being a best friend I prolly wouldn't feel jealous

but I might feel left out and neglected and sit home sulking

addendum
what he said.

msharmony's photo
Sat 11/14/09 08:59 AM
Not jealous,, just single.....he doesnt need a mate if he still is into hanging out more than settling down,,

Gator76's photo
Sat 11/14/09 09:03 AM



:heart: Would you be jealous if your significant other spent more time with their best friend than with you?:heart:


Just a fine point, here, but...if the person is spending more time with THEIR best friend...wouldn't that make them each other's significant other? I don't know what the hell that leaves "you"! laugh


no photo
Sat 11/14/09 02:54 PM

:heart: Would you be jealous if your significant other spent more time with their best friend than with you?:heart:


no problem as long as it's not a booty call

catseyes1's photo
Sat 11/14/09 02:56 PM



:heart: Would you be jealous if your significant other spent more time with their best friend than with you?:heart:



Only if I had a Significant other, seriously not really if he or she finds more fun with the best friend then so be it. :wink:

elephants87's photo
Sat 11/14/09 03:07 PM
hell ya id be jealous when u r with someone u r suposed to be an important part of their life and spend time with u if they want to spend time with their bf maybe u could hang out with them as a group :smile:

Jef1957's photo
Sat 11/14/09 04:19 PM



:heart: Would you be jealous if your significant other spent more time with their best friend than with you?:heart:


Dunno if I'd be jealous but I'd sure want to figure out why the significant other is doing it. I was in that situation once and just decided that she was better off with her BFF than me as all I heard was how tired and cranky she was all the time. I decided that since I wasn't getting anything out of the relationship anyway it was best to just move on. Haven't looked back...

Gossipmpm's photo
Sat 11/14/09 04:21 PM
No way!!

I love the fact he has a best freind and does not need to be with me 24/7!!!:heart:

Jess642's photo
Sat 11/14/09 07:59 PM
I certainly wouldn't get paranoid, and go postal...that's for sure! noway laugh

downhomechik's photo
Sat 11/14/09 08:05 PM



:heart: Would you be jealous if your significant other spent more time with their best friend than with you?:heart:


As long as best friend wasn't female...I'd be okay with it

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 12/07/09 10:23 AM

No way!!

I love the fact he has a best freind and does not need to be with me 24/7!!!:heart:
flowerforyou

msharmony's photo
Mon 12/07/09 11:22 AM
Depends upon how significant they are...

If we are committed to be married,,,it would be a problem. My belief is that man and women are to lessen ties with everyone to strengthen the ties with each other. Their friends should mostly be mutual friends or friends who encourage them to build the relationship with their spouse,, not friends who compete with it.


If we are just testing the waters, I suppose anything goes.

Scott3895's photo
Mon 12/07/09 11:37 AM
No cause that would be a booty call, not a significant other!

Pickofthelitter's photo
Mon 12/07/09 11:37 AM
I am my lovers best friend so it's never an issue


MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 12/07/09 03:05 PM

Depends upon how significant they are...

If we are committed to be married,,,it would be a problem. My belief is that man and women are to lessen ties with everyone to strengthen the ties with each other. Their friends should mostly be mutual friends or friends who encourage them to build the relationship with their spouse,, not friends who compete with it.


If we are just testing the waters, I suppose anything goes.
flowerforyou

Citizen_Joe's photo
Mon 12/07/09 03:10 PM



:heart: Would you be jealous if your significant other spent more time with their best friend than with you?:heart:


Not at all. I am her best friend.

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 12/07/09 04:33 PM




:heart: Would you be jealous if your significant other spent more time with their best friend than with you?:heart:


Not at all. I am her best friend.
:thumbsup:

Updawg's photo
Mon 12/07/09 05:04 PM
Think it depends on the strength of the relationship and the activities involved.