ok, this is a dating site correct? why do females get offended when a guy expresses an interet in you? this isnt a problem confined to this site its more a problem with the women, girls, ladies etc. you will henceforth be refered to as 'they'. im not one to stereotype because im mixed and ive been dealing with racism all my life. im refering to you as 'they' 1, to keep me from cursing, and 2, because regardless of size shape color age status situation etc, they have all done the same things. what things? ignore me completely, accuse me of wanting sex money etc. before they have heard anything i have to say, lead me on, stand me up, lie to me, cheat on me, use me for sex money etc., treat me like crap, done things for no other purpoe than to make my life more difficult, and dump me for no reason but its my fault right? WAKE UP CALL - there are guys who want more than sex and money, because a guy is having a difficult time now doesnt mean that it will last forever, if a guy is doing something with his life other than seeing how many yeager bombs he can do before he pukes doesnt mean that he has no sense of humor, im not your ex bf/husband so what ever he did to you isnt my fault, no two people are alike and guys just happen to be people, and last but not least some guys have feelings and care about more than getting in your pants so if you want us to value you then you should value us. isnt that the golden rule? how simple can a problem be? go ahead 'they' i know im gonna get bashed for this so do your worst.

Im sorry that all of that has happened to you- that really is a shame- but you do know that not all women are like that. You are having some bad luck- it happens but its not going to last forever.

Things will work out for you - in the way they are supposed to- in the meantime- good luck to you- and please don't lose hope.


I don't bash people- im not like that- and you seem really down- i truly wish the best for you

feel better now darlin....

Venting always helps. Welcome and good luck.

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I'm sorry

Welcome



Tammy

Sounds like you've been through the ringer!

I'm impressed that you still have the optimism to be out there actively looking for someone after all that. I think that says you're a fighter...so just keep fighting your fight because persistence always wins, right?

I am scared to talk to women. Cause they are evil.

All I can say is that they weren't good enough for you man.

YEAH!!! What he said!!! lol

Take a few deep breaths, dude. LOL

I know huh...

My only advice is to start posting in the threads and let people get to know you.

Wow! I couldn't even read your rant because it was all emotionally slammed together. I hope the vent made you feel better!

You are generalizing about all women. Don't!

We've all had strings of bad luck. Keep smiling and you will get over it -- move on!

If you become disillusioned by a few experiences then you will sabotage any future chances of meeting a great girl. The right girl will see you scowling and say, "That guy looks nice but he is Mr. McBitter Pants!" and then they run away from you.

If that's what you're here for, then yes.

If you're just here for conversation, refusing to buy into the semantics of wording, then no.

A very true point! There are many here for the forums and conversation. This is a social site as much as a dating site.

Take a deep breath, relax and let it go.

Take some time to get to know the people here at Mingle.

"To see a familiar face, you must be a familiar face"

Michiganman3 2003.

Hey, think about it this way...in the wild you could die if a female dislikes you.....or at least come away hurt really badly so look at the good side, you are human and not a leopard???

Anyway, calm down, try to have more fun with the whole experience and don't take it personally if you are not someones cup of tea, you will be someones elses.

Yeah, yeah... just...


be glad your not a leopard.. whatever..


What they said.

Earthy, I was trying to cheer someone up..... you don't think it worked?

I dont know if it worked or not, Im too tired to create a response to this of my own.


Yours works for me. Im cheered if it makes you feel better.

Welcome to the real world Young man. There are some women who are nice and some who are he-l on wheels. Your young and in the military you are probably going to run into more than your fair share that will use and abuse you; it just goes with the territory. Sorry know it hurts, you have a right to be angry, but being smart you can over come this just like other men have.

First thing I have to say is no one can use you unless you let them. You meet a lady you can keep your money in your pocket. If you don't put yourself in risky situationa I don't see how you can get yourself in trouble. If you are having a series of abusive relationships then the common thread is you. You have to improve your selection skills.