Well, I do try to imitate the humans natural habitat under there...

Exactly....no one can match you in form and style...however, now they have a request, they want internet access so they can send one last letter home. Any thoughts?

I think we should probaly wait that way we are not mistake lust for love but realisticly in today world you would be hard pressed to find someone who would be willing to wait.

Ha! I'm not falling for that one, one last letter home...haha! Right, silly humans, no internet access for you.

They're going to be sooo disappointed....oh well, I'll replace the vanilla candle with a cranberry citrus one and they should feel better....for now....

What??

Do you mean should you have sex before marriage!!

If so......

HELL YEAH!!!

It's 2009

If your adult. You do what you feel is right for you!

And baby......

It's right for me!!!!!

I do not believe in the institution of marriage, so that answers the question unless I swore abstinence I'll have sex way before I ever get married (which is never).

Complex question. First let me validate my answer by saying Im sure we have all done things we SHOULDNT.

To answer your question, I think it is BEST to wait for marriage. Sex is complex and its not like,,lets say, musical talent, where you either have it or you dont. I dont think any of us have gone into our first time being wonderful lovers, it is something that is certainly learned. When you have TWO people who have waited they can learn together and the relationship has a chance to be built upon stronger and more significant things like emotional, intellectual, and moral compatibility. My first marriage, we both waited, and it was an awesome experience,,much more meaningful and solid than any relationship I have had since. But that is when BOTH parties wait(there isnt the added stress of 'comparing'each other when you have nothing to compare to.)


Now, if both parties havent waited previously, I still say the answer is that they should try to with each other. I happen to believe people who can communicate and who take care of each other can teach each other what feels good to them sexually and if they are truly loving each other and in a strong relationship, the rest will just follow naturally. Sex is a great addition to marriage, a nice reward for your committment, but I believe marriage should be built around more substantial qualities, like friendship, communication, common interests and goals, similar values and similar faith. After all, we all grow old and our skills will decline physically, and if you have based your relationship on how 'great' sex is you will find yourself very lonely and unsatisfied in your marriage and your old age.

I think yes and no. I mean, its like buying a car. You want to test drive it before you make a commitment. (Making payments, etc.). So, why wouldnt you want to do that with your gf/bf? On the other hand, no. You should keep it on a suspense level. After y'all get married, and have sex for the first time.. And it suck?!! You see, marriage is a commitment. The sex may suck at first, y'all got your whole lives to figure out what you want and like.... And always try new positions!!

Well if your having to pay for it you shouldn't marry marry it!

Besides I am not marry her based on how she preforms in the bed.

Well, for me....and this is just my personal opinion here. I go out on a couple of dates with a lady, then on about the third or fourth date, something is getting tapped...er, I meant someone....err, some chick. Ok, yes. I am a horndog, but I am a committed one. Oh, and if it happens on the first or second date, then I won't complain.

no personal experience.. first year is nothing but sex... second it calms down a bit to just once a day... and 3rd year she runs off and does everyguy that says hi to her besides you! lol

I always laugh at this kind of argument...how in the hell is sex anything close to buying a car?

Once the warranty expires, everything falls apart.

If everyone bought a warrant for marriage I wouldn't think they would all be so terribly unhappy with it...I mean hell, if I could get a warranty on marriage I would try my hand at it.

Imagine you wait a year or two: the big night is at hand... You ever had that i need to leave right now feeling after sex??? What if that happens.. Marriage should be sacred and forever but hey im divorced what do i know!!! whomp whomp

(Important government official)Hello there sir, here's the warranty you asked for.

(Me) Yayyyyy, now where's the church????

Once a day? Who the hell is having sex everyday????