I have tried everything and I never can get a date no matter what I do. Not only do I always get rejected, I always get rejected in the meanest ways. Like for example some girl I met at the bar I added on facebook and then after a while deleted me for no reason. What is it about me that is so unattractive? Why can't I ever get a date? I want people to be honest and tell me what is wrong with me. So I can know how to fix it. I am not writing this out of self pitty. I just want to know what is it about me that needs to be fixed. Can it fixed? Would it require plastic surgery? Or is it just my personality? I want honest answers.

well, whining about it certainly aint going to help...lol

Pretty hard to judge your personality when we don't know you. As for your looks, you look like every other guy like you I've seen, so that shouldn't be it. I don't know what to tell you, but about her deleting you from her FB that's a juvenile game and I really wouldn't take it personally. Good luck on your search.

plastic surgery? you are nowhere near what i'd define as ugly.

sometimes it just takes a lot of picking through the merchandise before we find the exact right fit, colour, style, etc.

i always thought the guy stood a better chance if he let the women come to him. i never liked when a man came on too strong and much prefer when i can make the first advance on him.

do you think maybe you're coming on too intense and/or quick?

Put hot pics up & talk about all the extra money you have that's just laying around

Doesn't seem like anything is wrong with you...

Well

Your not ugly!!!!

Don't know you well so havnt figured out your personality

Don't whine
That's very very unattractive in a man

Just relax
Take a breathe
Go slow

And stop worrying so much!!!!


Oh yea

And welcome



Tammy

hi and welcome--nothing wrong with you

What do you say to them?

Hmm, maybe you should try more often some book stores, library, grocery stores .Online dating become to dangerous and maybe somehow boring .Many woman's out there prefer the old style dating .Maybe when you stop by gas station offer some help to the lady who's near you ? How about McDonald play grounds ? You can find some hot single mamas or maybe a cute 911 nanny?

I would date you... But you live far away!! :(

Probably the fact that you think you need to be fixed...confidence FTW!

That might work.

Well I dont know who you are as a person but I know you do not need plastic surgery you look fine sweetie.

Just find YOUR girl.It's simple.You can't be good fo everybody.Take it easy

In order to find happiness, you have to be happy with who you are and whining will not help in finding you a date, be patient your time will come.

I am SO with you on this one cotton....

why the hell dont you just focus on 'what do i need to do to be the kind of person i want to be'....if you do it and are happy....the rest of the world will cotton on to the fact that you have got your shite together and will want to be around you

negative, depressing, miserable whiny people are very unattractive...

the good news is this can be changed...it's all in your attitude...

girls are picky, now food, will always love you

This doesn't work either, all I got was lots of sex with sexy young women.

I am not sure that I would call that a mean rejection. You were just deleted no biggie move on. Did you really like this girl and thats why it felt like such a rejection? I get rejected atlest twice a week maybe three times. Step it up, you should be getting shot down all the time or you are not putting enough effort into it.