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Topic: Should there be lust in a relationship?
catseyes1 Joined Fri 06/19/09 Posts: 1459	Wed 10/14/09 02:55 PM
Of course there should be lust.

papersmile Joined Fri 10/12/07 Posts: 5148	Wed 10/14/09 02:57 PM
Should there be lust in a relationship? as long as it's directed towards your partner, and not some other guy/gal, yes.

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Wed 10/14/09 03:39 PM
I'd rather just have attraction, lust sounds fleeting to me.

darinlee Joined Sat 08/08/09 Posts: 659	Wed 10/14/09 05:41 PM
without lust the quality of the relationship[especially in the intimacy dep,t]will be lacking and that isnt fair to the other spouse.it can ruin a relationship if there is not a physical attraction,one to the other.if this isnt there someone is going to feel kinda left out.equality in every aspect of a relationship is a must.especially in that aspect,so yes there must be lust on both parts.

metalwing Joined Fri 11/14/08 Posts: 26218	Wed 10/14/09 05:44 PM
Duh!

Dragoness Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 23320	Wed 10/14/09 05:48 PM
The Seven Deadly Sins, also known as the Capital Vices or Cardinal Sins, is a classification of the most objectionable vices which has been used since early Christian times to educate and instruct followers concerning (immoral) fallen man's tendency to sin. It consists of "Lust", "Gluttony", "Greed", "Sloth", "Wrath", "Envy", and "Pride". I dont' know, lust may be dangerous to your soul....lol

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Wed 10/14/09 05:50 PM
Along with mutual love Yes Lust is a good thing!!

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Wed 10/14/09 05:52 PM
The Seven Deadly Sins, also known as the Capital Vices or Cardinal Sins, is a classification of the most objectionable vices which has been used since early Christian times to educate and instruct followers concerning (immoral) fallen man's tendency to sin. It consists of "Lust", "Gluttony", "Greed", "Sloth", "Wrath", "Envy", and "Pride". I dont' know, lust may be dangerous to your soul....lol that's what i'm sayin'

darinlee Joined Sat 08/08/09 Posts: 659	Wed 10/14/09 05:55 PM
The Seven Deadly Sins, also known as the Capital Vices or Cardinal Sins, is a classification of the most objectionable vices which has been used since early Christian times to educate and instruct followers concerning (immoral) fallen man's tendency to sin. It consists of "Lust", "Gluttony", "Greed", "Sloth", "Wrath", "Envy", and "Pride". I dont' know, lust may be dangerous to your soul....lol yeah,but define the bibles definition of lust .is it the same as mans?probably not!there should definately be an undeniable attraction in the physical sense to your spouse.it is also said in the bible that "a man should be intoxicated by his wifes breasts",which for some who like to twist the bible to their own understanding could easily misconstrue.so the lust or religions definition could also be just as easily misconstrued.

heavenlyboy34 Joined Fri 07/04/08 Posts: 17348	Wed 10/14/09 05:57 PM
Should there be lust in a relationship? I hope so! Lust is one of my favorite emotions!

Dragoness Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 23320	Wed 10/14/09 05:59 PM
The Seven Deadly Sins, also known as the Capital Vices or Cardinal Sins, is a classification of the most objectionable vices which has been used since early Christian times to educate and instruct followers concerning (immoral) fallen man's tendency to sin. It consists of "Lust", "Gluttony", "Greed", "Sloth", "Wrath", "Envy", and "Pride". I dont' know, lust may be dangerous to your soul....lol yeah,but define the bibles definition of lust .is it the same as mans?probably not!there should definately be an undeniable attraction in the physical sense to your spouse.it is also said in the bible that "a man should be intoxicated by his wifes breasts",which for some who like to twist the bible to their own understanding could easily misconstrue.so the lust or religions definition could also be just as easily misconstrued. I am not religious so it matters not to me. I just remember being taught by religion that lust is a sin is all. Someone needs to define the difference between what is lust and what is attraction for their own well being if they are religious, I would think.

darinlee Joined Sat 08/08/09 Posts: 659	Wed 10/14/09 06:02 PM
The Seven Deadly Sins, also known as the Capital Vices or Cardinal Sins, is a classification of the most objectionable vices which has been used since early Christian times to educate and instruct followers concerning (immoral) fallen man's tendency to sin. It consists of "Lust", "Gluttony", "Greed", "Sloth", "Wrath", "Envy", and "Pride". I dont' know, lust may be dangerous to your soul....lol yeah,but define the bibles definition of lust .is it the same as mans?probably not!there should definately be an undeniable attraction in the physical sense to your spouse.it is also said in the bible that "a man should be intoxicated by his wifes breasts",which for some who like to twist the bible to their own understanding could easily misconstrue.so the lust or religions definition could also be just as easily misconstrued. I am not religious so it matters not to me. I just remember being taught by religion that lust is a sin is all. Someone needs to define the difference between what is lust and what is attraction for their own well being if they are religious, I would think. im not religious! have no desire for it.LOL

darinlee Joined Sat 08/08/09 Posts: 659	Wed 10/14/09 06:08 PM
Is not being intoxicated by your wifes breasts considered lust? hey, i didnt say it.the bible did!so whats your point!

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 10/14/09 06:29 PM
Of course there should be lust.

Dragoness Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 23320	Wed 10/14/09 06:32 PM
Is not being intoxicated by your wifes breasts considered lust? hey, i didnt say it.the bible did!so whats your point! I know. I was just messin' with Mirror's thread. Putting a twist in it....lol

heartSoul Joined Sun 08/26/07 Posts: 6038	Wed 10/14/09 06:35 PM
I'd rather just have attraction, lust sounds fleeting to me.

darinlee Joined Sat 08/08/09 Posts: 659	Wed 10/14/09 06:40 PM
Is not being intoxicated by your wifes breasts considered lust? hey, i didnt say it.the bible did!so whats your point! I know. I was just messin' with Mirror's thread. Putting a twist in it....lol got ya,and i know that..i just cant resist a meaty debate thats full of substance...mmmm! i love it....lol

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 10/14/09 06:50 PM
Should there be lust in a relationship? as long as it's directed towards your partner, and not some other guy/gal, yes.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 10/14/09 07:08 PM
I'd rather just have attraction, lust sounds fleeting to me.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 10/14/09 07:13 PM
without lust the quality of the relationship[especially in the intimacy dep,t]will be lacking and that isnt fair to the other spouse.it can ruin a relationship if there is not a physical attraction,one to the other.if this isnt there someone is going to feel kinda left out.equality in every aspect of a relationship is a must.especially in that aspect,so yes there must be lust on both parts.