Topic: What the hell are we doing here?
Gossipmpm's photo
Tue 10/06/09 07:02 AM
I know how ya feel

It was a long time before I jumped into the scene too!!

Relax

Have fun!!

Ya might not find love but you'll find on line friends like I have!

I've made such good, nice, wonderful friends here. We talk on the phone

And I'm gonna start traveling to visit some and they will visit me!!

So hang in there

We never know what will happen

Or when!!!:heart:

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Tue 10/06/09 07:22 AM

noway



The lamest part about it for me is that there isn't a single woman in my area who's on this site that interests me at all...................... yet I'm still here!


Yea, I'm scratching my head about that too



It seems to be a common complaint here ,myself included,that we can not seem to find someone in our immediate area's that interests. Can anyone explain this? Seems odd. smokin


It's simple, all the local people suck...


Yeap, but what if the local people of all area's suck noway
Maybe there is an illusion that they are somehow "better choices" than in our own vicinity what


When you chat with someone farther away, you get to know them before anything happens. The local guys tend not to want to chat much and get to know you much before meeting, since they're close by. That's why, at least for me, someone farther away may seem more appealing.

Bigheaded's photo
Tue 10/06/09 09:15 AM
I'm a really nice person and I'm trying to learn how to make friends I don't think I'm really looking for a relatioship like if a lady really wanted to spend time with me I wouuld be like stuck like chuck I met a really nice nice girl from another country and were friends (wow)which I love I love love love she is so easy going and she I think can offer me a lot of experance in dealing with like having a child. To make a long story short I like goofing around and IGet lot Lot lotta comfort from her just knowing that I can talk to someone who won't give me
advice (inless I ask) without trying to judge me as well her being so far away takes me trying to "hit it" out of the equasion she is helping me learn how to love right... Ya know

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Tue 10/06/09 09:18 AM


The lamest part about it for me is that there isn't a single woman in my area who's on this site that interests me at all...................... yet I'm still here!


Yea, I'm scratching my head about that too



It seems to be a common complaint here ,myself included,that we can not seem to find someone in our immediate area's that interests us. Can anyone explain this? Seems odd. smokin


I can't explain it, but I have the same problem.

The locals are slightly less interesting than the UPC Code on the Ritz Crackers box.


kyriverman's photo
Tue 10/06/09 09:54 AM

Iam trying to find a date, after being married for 25 years.
How did I get on dating sites?? lol


I agree. I was married for 21 years and now find myself surfing on the big WWW

mendy2's photo
Tue 10/06/09 11:37 AM
Lots OF People tell me the same thing. No man or women
wants to date them that live in there area.
It the long distance ones who want you....So I keep
hoping someone closer will say. Hey would you like to
go to the movies?? lol

CatsLoveMe's photo
Tue 10/06/09 11:43 AM
Want to go skiing?

Atlantis75's photo
Tue 10/06/09 11:47 AM
It's just a part of a big plan. Don't panic everyone, you'll see soon!

:smile:

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Tue 10/06/09 12:44 PM


noway



The lamest part about it for me is that there isn't a single woman in my area who's on this site that interests me at all...................... yet I'm still here!


Yea, I'm scratching my head about that too



It seems to be a common complaint here ,myself included,that we can not seem to find someone in our immediate area's that interests. Can anyone explain this? Seems odd. smokin


It's simple, all the local people suck...


Yeap, but what if the local people of all area's suck noway
Maybe there is an illusion that they are somehow "better choices" than in our own vicinity what


When you chat with someone farther away, you get to know them before anything happens. The local guys tend not to want to chat much and get to know you much before meeting, since they're close by. That's why, at least for me, someone farther away may seem more appealing.


The only local guys I see are country black men who only date white women, and rednecks who have a penchant for the rebel flag, so um yeah, I'd rather talk to out of state guys.

mendy2's photo
Tue 10/06/09 08:09 PM
I think Iam here just to chat so what do you
all think of thatexplode

burgundybry's photo
Tue 10/06/09 08:23 PM



The lamest part about it for me is that there isn't a single woman in my area who's on this site that interests me at all...................... yet I'm still here!


Yea, I'm scratching my head about that too



It seems to be a common complaint here ,myself included,that we can not seem to find someone in our immediate area's that interests us. Can anyone explain this? Seems odd. smokin


I can't explain it, but I have the same problem.

The locals are slightly less interesting than the UPC Code on the Ritz Crackers box.






rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

mendy2's photo
Tue 10/06/09 08:36 PM
its like---HELLO THERE!frustrated
Iam your neighbor
want to see my ID and go out??

Riding_Dubz's photo
Tue 10/06/09 10:43 PM
Where the hell is the food laugh laugh laugh laugh

eileena9's photo
Tue 10/06/09 11:16 PM

i'm just here scoping out all the fine honeys smokin


No, JT....you're just checking out the boobies......you and Dubz are trading screen names of the show offs.

laugh

mendy2's photo
Thu 10/08/09 07:18 PM
checking out the butts. lol

mcgilvrey21's photo
Thu 10/08/09 07:21 PM

The lamest part about it for me is that there isn't a single woman in my area who's on this site that interests me at all...................... yet I'm still here!


Yea, I'm scratching my head about that too


same here!!! well...no single guys in my area that are biting that is. I mean I know Im from a small town but COME ON there must be someone out there who would date me.

chevylover1965's photo
Thu 10/08/09 07:32 PM


i'm just here scoping out all the fine honeys smokin


No, JT....you're just checking out the boobies......you and Dubz are trading screen names of the show offs.

laugh
hey jt, thats my job damn it !laugh

Bigheaded's photo
Thu 10/08/09 07:47 PM
Man wemen in Minnesota are mean like I've lived all over the country and the girls here at least the ones I'm interested in are stuck up and rude like I had one just laugh at me when I told her she was pretty and asked her out to eat like it's depressing so I think I'm done rejection hurts too bad they make me feel like a creep for sayin hi and make me feel like a loser for asking them out and I think I'm a nice looking guy man their like stright shi!!y here like real bad like the worst like worse than vagas wow that's hard

Bigheaded's photo
Thu 10/08/09 07:55 PM
I think it's nice just to chat with Someone like I have had a couple running conversations and it's comforting like nothing is going to happen and were thousands of miles away I think that takes a lot of the tense stigma out of putting myself out there like I'm not expecting or trying to get any bangin done it's just not goin happen ps I just had to add this cuz I was sounding negative and I don't like that so peace yall have a good night, one love

mendy2's photo
Thu 10/08/09 08:22 PM
Iv found the men in WVA are really friendly. Thanks guys