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Topic: girlfriend with kids....HELP!
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Fri 10/02/09 09:41 PM
i started datin a girl a few months ago with 3 daughters from 3 different dads. i get along with the girls great but my g/f takes all of her insecurities out on me. she is afraid to open up to me and it makes me think she is just gonna cheat. she txts on her phone all the time too even when it is just me and her on a date. pisses me off but i love her. what now?

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Fri 10/02/09 09:42 PM
Edited by Ladylid2012 on Fri 10/02/09 09:43 PM
stay with her and work it through or walk away..pretty simple

Winx's photo
Fri 10/02/09 09:44 PM

i started datin a girl a few months ago with 3 daughters from 3 different dads. i get along with the girls great but my g/f takes all of her insecurities out on me. she is afraid to open up to me and it makes me think she is just gonna cheat. she txts on her phone all the time too even when it is just me and her on a date. pisses me off but i love her. what now?


Are you saying that you love her but you don't like her?

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Fri 10/02/09 09:44 PM
stab her blackberry!!!noway :wink: laugh

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Fri 10/02/09 09:45 PM
Edited by Modela on Fri 10/02/09 09:46 PM
That is another sign of sumthing... Dunno if I trust her...
Hey, my phone would be turn off if I am with someone I love... period... I will put "Do not disturb" outside my room in If have to...laugh

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Fri 10/02/09 09:45 PM
Lady's right... I'm thinking someone that insecure isn't going to change any time soon... I'm sure there's a lot more going on there as well.. Only you can decide what works for you... Personally, I'd be heading for the hills....

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Fri 10/02/09 09:45 PM

stay with her and work it through or walk away..pretty simple


Yep, no idea why people make everything so complicated.

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Fri 10/02/09 09:45 PM
wow...seems to me she shld have "all" of her attention on you. silly girl....hmmm guess if you love her stick it out, but don't loose yourself in the process

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Fri 10/02/09 09:46 PM
wear a condom!!!drinker scared

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Fri 10/02/09 09:48 PM

wear a condom!!!drinker scared


Or two....

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Fri 10/02/09 09:48 PM
Sounds like she has very little respect for men. And uses them as long as they put up with it. While I feel sorry for the kids I would walk away before the feelings get so strong you can't. Or worse; react badly when you catch her cheating; which sounds like a plausable threat.

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Fri 10/02/09 09:48 PM
Edited by Modela on Fri 10/02/09 09:49 PM

wear a condom!!!drinker scared

laugh laugh laugh laugh Yeah, or you will be the father #4 so raincoat is a must.... it's raining sperms....laugh laugh

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Fri 10/02/09 09:49 PM

stay with her and work it through or walk away..pretty simple
I that what u do ?frustrated offtopic

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Fri 10/02/09 09:49 PM


wear a condom!!!drinker scared

laugh laugh laugh laugh Yeah, or you might be the father #4!laugh laugh


It's been a few months, maybe he already is?scared

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Fri 10/02/09 09:49 PM
triple wrap with saran wrap and you can be the next bologna sandwich!!!noway drinker :banana:

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Fri 10/02/09 09:50 PM
it is her insecurities...She has to work through those. But i don't understand if she has you why does she text other people...That is just rude.

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Fri 10/02/09 09:51 PM

it is her insecurities...She has to work through those. But i don't understand if she has you why does she text other people...That is just rude.


Maybe she's greedy? Or maybe she's texting the other baby daddies?

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Fri 10/02/09 09:51 PM
when it is just the two of us everything is great but when we go somewhere public with all of her friends she puts me on the back burner and expects me to follow her around like a puppy dog. i just get sick of her games but i'm afraid to let her go. everytime we break up my life turns into a living hell.

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Fri 10/02/09 09:52 PM
Talk to her about it.

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Fri 10/02/09 09:52 PM

when it is just the two of us everything is great but when we go somewhere public with all of her friends she puts me on the back burner and expects me to follow her around like a puppy dog. i just get sick of her games but i'm afraid to let her go. everytime we break up my life turns into a living hell.


You just answered your own question, if life without her bs is worse than life with her bs, it doesn't matter what we think. You obviously don't mind her games enough to leave her.

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