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Topic: The ick factor
mendy2's photo
Fri 10/02/09 08:11 PM
What happens when you been emailing a person and talking to them on the phone. Then when you meet them in person you cringe at the thought of them touching you and God for bid if they kissed you. What happens then---tell them nicely---Good bye

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Fri 10/02/09 08:14 PM
Start twitching and yell obscenitys.... That will scare them off.....

catseyes1's photo
Fri 10/02/09 08:15 PM
Be up front and honest.

anthsm22's photo
Fri 10/02/09 08:17 PM

Be up front and honest.

yep, the only way to go in style!!!!!

mcgilvrey21's photo
Fri 10/02/09 08:19 PM
been there...for some reason it has happened to me a few times.
I just let the date go nicely and pull out the friend card after.
It seems the easiest way without seeming like a jerk.

unique1111's photo
Fri 10/02/09 08:22 PM
"I really don't think we are a good match, but good luck with your search"

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 10/02/09 08:24 PM

What happens when you been emailing a person and talking to them on the phone. Then when you meet them in person you cringe at the thought of them touching you and God for bid if they kissed you. What happens then---tell them nicely---Good bye
smile2 It shouldnt have gotten that far.smile2 A person should be known before the meeting.smile2 webcamsmile2

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Fri 10/02/09 08:45 PM

What happens when you been emailing a person and talking to them on the phone. Then when you meet them in person you cringe at the thought of them touching you and God for bid if they kissed you. What happens then---tell them nicely---Good bye


Well hopefully if you are not up for it they would not touch you or kiss you in a populated public place which is always smart for first meetings.

If I am getting a negative vibe on someone that I have met on line I just don't encourage them to think I am going to see them again and excuse myself at the first opportunity.

Then as soon as I get home I email them "Thank you for making the effort to meet but I do not think we are a good match. Good luck in your search." I don't take calls and I don't open future emails if I happen to get any. This is the biggest reason I don't get really friendly in pre-date emails or phone conversations. Once you meet and get a first impression then you can advance the friendship before actual dateing.

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Fri 10/02/09 08:59 PM
You actually stayed long enough for him to get a chance to touch you?huh

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Fri 10/02/09 11:39 PM
Look at your cell phone and say you have an emergency and have to go. I mean this may be an untruth but how can you say "the thought of touching you makes me sick". That would be kinda of mean.

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Fri 10/02/09 11:40 PM

You actually stayed long enough for him to get a chance to touch you?huh
laugh laugh laugh laugh
Run forest run...laugh laugh

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Fri 10/02/09 11:42 PM
No touching for me on first meeting...sorry, not me...and I have to tell him that before I meet him so he can make a decision to meet me or not.. end of the story...

southern_bee's photo
Fri 10/02/09 11:42 PM
kick him in the balls and set him on fire....

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Fri 10/02/09 11:44 PM
Edited by Modela on Fri 10/02/09 11:44 PM
laugh laugh laugh laugh
That would do it!laugh laugh

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Fri 10/02/09 11:46 PM

kick him in the balls and set him on fire....



Damn...laugh

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Fri 10/02/09 11:46 PM

kick him in the balls and set him on fire....


I knew there was a reason I idolized you.flowerforyou

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Fri 10/02/09 11:47 PM


kick him in the balls and set him on fire....


I knew there was a reason I idolized you.flowerforyou



lol cuz were both mean and evil?

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Fri 10/02/09 11:49 PM
count me in laugh laugh laugh

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Fri 10/02/09 11:49 PM



kick him in the balls and set him on fire....


I knew there was a reason I idolized you.flowerforyou



lol cuz were both mean and evil?


hellz yeah!!!drinker

southern_bee's photo
Fri 10/02/09 11:51 PM

count me in laugh laugh laugh


ok yur in the mean and evil club!

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