cos there's this girl i've liked for a good while now and she came over tonite after she left work. and so yeah i can't say enough good things about her. she's nice to me and considerate, she doesn't expect anything from me, she doesn't judge me. she's quiet, she doesn't talk much but when she does she has my full attention.

thing is, for the longest time i thought she just really wasn't into me. i figured the only reason she even talked to me was because she was doing me a favor or she felt sorry for me. but not tonite. tonite she was different. she talked a little more for starters, and what we talked about was how much i like her, to which she answered me similarly that she also likes me. previously when we had a conversation along those lines she had stated very plainly that she wasn't interested in a relationship.

so ennywei, i'm hopeful that after we have dinner later tonite that she'll talk with me some more so i can tell her what i'm thinking and feeling and find out what she's thinking and feeling.

i really like this girl, i'm excited to see her again. sm:)e

congrats

Aww...That's Great ^.^

Awesome bro. Maybe you found your friend!



Maybe you should slow your roll on the revealing of your feelings and everything so serious. Let things play out a little. Hang out, enjoy a nice dinner, make her laugh, let her see what a great fella you are.


Your approach with having thoughts of trying to figure out if she is talking to you out of pity- icky- just stop all that. It's juvenile. Your approach is immature in those regards. Middle schoolers should worry about those things. Middle schoolers should be worried about sending a note and telling a girl "I like you." Stop all that.



Take the lead and show her your great qualities before making her run from your serious talks about feelings and relationships.



You are the man! Hope it works out!

you go man!... enjoy the ride! (the emotional ride, I was not trying to be crude)...

p.s. don't kill this new plant by watering it to death!! A little water now, the plant grows some... a little more water... the plant grows a little more...

too much water the plant will just drown!

Is this the same guy who was making fun of the e-tards & the cuddle puddles? Nice to see you have a sensitive side, too...

There's a light in the other side of the tunnel for you after all.... See I told you, you will do fine.

Congratulations, I am so happy for you!
I hope you have a wonderful dinner and more chat and more getting to know your feelings and hers tonight... Love is in the air....

Good luck!
Modela

I agree with this. Don't be in a rush to 'define' your feelings, just go with the flow and enjoy one another.

Best of luck to you!

Goodluck i hope it work out for you Anna x

here's the report :

no dinner at the cheesecake factory. she came by after she hung out with her friend and had some of the chikn n sossij gumbo i made. she said she liked it. we had some drinks, got intoxicated together, lay in bed for a while, eventually we moved from laying in bed to movin around in bed, meantime we did a little talkin here n there. i jes told her how much i enjoy her company and how much i like being with her. she told me she feels simliarly towards me. texted her after she left. she restated liking to keep company with me.

am i juvenile for liking this girl? am i immature for telling her how i feel when i'm with her?

ok then, guilty.

cos i do like this girl and i did tell her how i feel when i'm with her. did i blurt out somethin scary like "i love you"? no. i'm not stupid... at least not that stupid. and besides i don't know that i really "love" her. i mean, i'm in love with her, which is to say, i'm crazy about her. i get excited when i see her or talk to her, i want to spend time with her and i want to know what she's thinking, feeling and if there's some way i can make her feel as good as she makes me feel. i don't call her every single day and check up on her, text her constantly or show up at her work to spend more time with her. i'm not obsessed with her. it's only just now that she's become a little more communicative with me and that by itself is exciting.


so ennywei, tha's what happened. the girl is secksi, she's nice to me and doesn't expect anything from me. i like her and i let her know that and why. jes takin it slow. not rushing, not pressuring. but i won't deny what i feel or pretend it doesn't exist.

i can't contest or argue with those who have diagnosed my behaviour and personality, i don't have a degree in psychology. i'm just grateful for the awareness of what my character defects are. now if only i knew what to do about them... how to fix them.

I so read the title as saying boob...