well, my girlfriend of 2 and a half years decided to cheat on me with
her cousin!..lol...seriously, she did!!!...everything was goin alright
with the last girl i dated, but, we split because of religious
differences, but we're still friends...i've been single for almost 2
years now, and im ready for someone new!!

Josehon, keep ur head up bro...there are both ups and downs to being
single...just try to enjoy life and when the time is right, the perfect
woman will come along...trust me..

My last relationship sucked..he thought he owned me because he was older
than me and thought i was supposed to disown my family for
him..um..bull!

My last relationship was wonderful until I got sick. My hormones went
out of wack and I lost it. Not sure why but I kicked him out. We had
some problems but what relationship doesn't? He wants me back but
honestly I need to get better before I can make my decision on that.

Yes darlin...Always think of your health first...If he loves you he will
wait!!!!!!

i know but he's stressing me out on top of this.

AWWWWWWWWEEEEEEE Well the only thing he should be doing is supporting
you through your health crisis and not adding to it..You can tell him I
said that too!!!!!!!!

he doesn't realize he's doing this...it's all I'm being so unfair to him
stuff.

Yes well...Your health is more important darlin...

I know it is..he doesn't understand that though and on top of this my
allergies are kicking my butt right now

OMG!!!!!!!!!!

When it rains it pours.....((((((((Katers))))))))))))

((((((((((((Native)))))))))))))) I know it does and it usually hits only
me....lol

My last relationship was horrible. my ex cheated on me with her
ex boy friend and 2 of our friends. its crazy because she wants me
back and i dont want her and she dont understand that.

mistyc.. maybe she found out who you really are and her mistake
but they say that once a cheater always a cheater
and I don't think your feelings will be the same for her

****ty

My last relationship ended last summer cause he wasnt over his ex wife and he was trying to find himself still. Hes a good man he will it just takes time. Also im super introverted and quiet i dont drink dont smoke and i dont do drugs which i personally view as mental health issues.

Thru being self destructive we can definately find ourselves. This is the Fallen World we do learn thru pain and suffering here. However, theres a fine line between breaking yourself down to grow spiritually and just being negligent with no end result.

We are Spirit so this person said he was BORED all the time and chainsmoked ,drank and got high a lot than so obviously he wasnt solid. Being Bored all the time thats not my problem at all. I did the work i came up ill only date someone whose done the work and is standing solid and strong and is al about themselves and self empowerment.However i wanted to add he was married for almost 30 years 3 kids and she left him becasue she said she was lost and didnt know who she is. So hes going thru a crisis wilderness experience trying to survive from losing her . Been there done that i know all about loss and pain i knew he wasnt ready for a new relationship hes drowning for real. Again life is hard i had to take a loss on this and let him go and it hurt a lot a lot but thru letting him go Spirit moves me up higher becasue i learned thru the pain and hes out there out here in the Fallen world finding himslef. It was a successful breakup !!!!!!

People who dont have a ridiculously hi self esteem you have to leash and collar and declare a monogamous RULES type of American Drama style relationship and call it love. No thats not love thats slavery .

If you have dine the inner work and are standing solid in the Fallen World i wont need to monitor you. I know you will be a man and handle life. If you need to sleep with another because it will empower you than i expect you to handle that like a man and screen her and use birth control. A Man randomly finding a female hed like to experience sex with isnt a deal breaker for me. I expect him to have sex with her , feel empowered and just deal. This is not a dealbreaker at all for me if i care about a Man i want him to be strong and free. I dont need to babysit you like a child which is what most relationships in the west are. 2 people who break each other down into a sniveleing weak mess so the other doesnt leave them than they leash and collar each other ugh no thanx

lol

It was good right up to the last month of the relationship then she emotionally checked out without really leaving the relationship... sometimes I think she was seeing someone else.... who knows you never know... until it's too late...
But I cannot blame her I do have commitment issues.. and I was going through a lot of personal growth then...
It's fair to say I'm not the same man I was 3 years ago or maybe 4.... and yes some days I miss her... and some days I hate her....


But now I'm in a new relationship...
At least I think I am it's turned into a long-distance thing... which is what I never wanted.....m.hmmmmm....

It was the shortest of all my relatinships, but iy was the wildest and the most fun. The ending is not so good but he got to go. He chose to go. He says he will come back but i won't wait.

My last relationship ended when he passed away four years ago. I am now ready to move on.

Worst thing imaginable but it helped shape up my vibration to be ready for the great guy I'm with now.
Everything has its value, even hell on earth, and where I am now as an individual, and the man I'm with now, are so worth it!
I'm happy with me, with him, he makes me happy, I him to bits. That's all that counts.