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Topic: I dont understand.
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Mon 09/28/09 02:57 AM
So I send random guys email trying to start up a conversation and I can clearly see that they have checked the email but they dont even respond. Guys could just be honest and say hi your not my type or no thanks, instead of being a jerk and not saying anything and just checking out my profile. I am looking for something real, not a one night stand and thats honestly all who has emailed me. Maybe their is someone on this site but I just havnt found that person. Check out my profile and hopefully you like what you see.

Bunny

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Mon 09/28/09 03:20 AM
Edited by PK2 on Mon 09/28/09 03:21 AM
Not to offend you, but maybe if you smiled for a picture it would help?


You seem like you'd be cute, with a better facial expression than that of what you're currently advertising.

And also, for a girl who's as tall as you, that can scare some of us shorter guys away.


Just some thoughts. :)


-Pete


oh, by the way. I'm not god's gift to women myself, and I've been in your situation before AND i try to smile.. lol.. it's just the way people are sometimes, don't let it hurt you! keep your chin up!

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Mon 09/28/09 03:28 AM
You maybe narrowing your choices, skin head punk chick?? Let people get to know you , do not put yourself in such a narrow category. I think if you change that wording you will do fine.


Hello and Welocme to Mingleflowerforyou

Have fun here, I think you will like it flowerforyou

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Mon 09/28/09 03:40 AM
it happens to all of us...and you're right, it is rude not to reply to an e-mail...try posting in the forums...most of the good guys run amuck there...good luck...brendaflowerforyou

Gossipmpm's photo
Mon 09/28/09 03:45 AM
Welcome!!

We all get those "one nighters" or "your hot" or " no responses"

Don't let it get ya down

There are really great men here on mingle!


Tammy:heart:

PATSFAN's photo
Mon 09/28/09 03:46 AM
Welcome to the internet

Lilypetal's photo
Mon 09/28/09 03:48 AM
It could be worse, you could get a nasty response. Silence is golden!!

Welcome to Mingle and good luck in your search.

livelife68's photo
Mon 09/28/09 03:50 AM
welcome and good luck. Don't let it bother you.

metalwing's photo
Mon 09/28/09 03:53 AM
Welcome to Mingle.

earthytaurus76's photo
Mon 09/28/09 03:56 AM
Yeah, welcome, but smile.. you look like you had a rough night on 6th street or something.


xo

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Mon 09/28/09 04:25 AM
Don't take it personally, it's not an attack on you, it just means they're not interested. As for replying back saying "I'm not interested" yeah I don't really agree with that. When you do that, it opens up a line of communication and the other person thinks you really are interested, when you're not. And then they get mad and insulting when they feel rejected. So it's best to say nothing. They're avoiding a lot of bs, and I completely understand because I do the same thing. Good luck finding what you want.

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Mon 09/28/09 05:51 AM

Not to offend you, but maybe if you smiled for a picture it would help?


You seem like you'd be cute, with a better facial expression than that of what you're currently advertising.

And also, for a girl who's as tall as you, that can scare some of us shorter guys away.


Just some thoughts. :)


-Pete


oh, by the way. I'm not god's gift to women myself, and I've been in your situation before AND i try to smile.. lol.. it's just the way people are sometimes, don't let it hurt you! keep your chin up!



Says the man who is not smiling in his pictures.. laugh.

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Mon 09/28/09 06:38 AM


Not to offend you, but maybe if you smiled for a picture it would help?


You seem like you'd be cute, with a better facial expression than that of what you're currently advertising.

And also, for a girl who's as tall as you, that can scare some of us shorter guys away.


Just some thoughts. :)


-Pete


oh, by the way. I'm not god's gift to women myself, and I've been in your situation before AND i try to smile.. lol.. it's just the way people are sometimes, don't let it hurt you! keep your chin up!



Says the man who is not smiling in his pictures.. laugh.


I like the more sincere approach.

I dunno what the OP's approach, if any, was supposed to be though.

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Mon 09/28/09 06:40 AM



Not to offend you, but maybe if you smiled for a picture it would help?


You seem like you'd be cute, with a better facial expression than that of what you're currently advertising.

And also, for a girl who's as tall as you, that can scare some of us shorter guys away.


Just some thoughts. :)


-Pete


oh, by the way. I'm not god's gift to women myself, and I've been in your situation before AND i try to smile.. lol.. it's just the way people are sometimes, don't let it hurt you! keep your chin up!



Says the man who is not smiling in his pictures.. laugh.


I like the more sincere approach.

I dunno what the OP's approach, if any, was supposed to be though.



I just thought it was funny that you're giving her advice on smiling, yet you don't smile in your pictures. That's all.

franshade's photo
Mon 09/28/09 07:18 AM

So I send random guys email trying to start up a conversation and I can clearly see that they have checked the email but they dont even respond. Guys could just be honest and say hi your not my type or no thanks, instead of being a jerk and not saying anything and just checking out my profile. I am looking for something real, not a one night stand and thats honestly all who has emailed me. Maybe their is someone on this site but I just havnt found that person. Check out my profile and hopefully you like what you see.

Bunny


hello and welcome Bunny

Join the forums, meet more people, interact and get to know the masses.

good luck flowerforyou

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Mon 09/28/09 07:53 AM


..speaking for myself and not meaning to be rude,but perhaps i can explain a little from my stand point as a guy..sometimes i don't want to be bothered with the whole idea of trying to think of something to converse about
..too caught up in all the things i think about already,and then there's the fact that i have a problem telling someone no,or that i'm not interested because i don't want to hurt their feelings ,so i say nothing at all..because that way i don't go around feeling bad that i hurt someone's feelings...
..maybe it doesn't make sense to you...but it makes perfect sense to me..what can i say i'm a guy...:laughing:
..some may think that not answering e-mails is rude..i look at it as if you didn't get a message..you should've gotten the message..:laughing:

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Mon 09/28/09 08:05 AM
Don't sweat the small stuff!
I is all small stuff!biggrin

Riding_Dubz's photo
Mon 09/28/09 08:07 AM
i'll take internet dating for 50 billion dollars alex bigsmile

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Mon 09/28/09 08:49 AM
Hi Bunny no point getting annoyed about it look at it this way none of us can please everyone and if they dont respond then just move on to the next person. Anna x

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Mon 09/28/09 02:06 PM




Not to offend you, but maybe if you smiled for a picture it would help?


You seem like you'd be cute, with a better facial expression than that of what you're currently advertising.

And also, for a girl who's as tall as you, that can scare some of us shorter guys away.


Just some thoughts. :)


-Pete


oh, by the way. I'm not god's gift to women myself, and I've been in your situation before AND i try to smile.. lol.. it's just the way people are sometimes, don't let it hurt you! keep your chin up!



Says the man who is not smiling in his pictures.. laugh.


I like the more sincere approach.

I dunno what the OP's approach, if any, was supposed to be though.



I just thought it was funny that you're giving her advice on smiling, yet you don't smile in your pictures. That's all.


I know.. and I'm just being a pain in the *** about it.. lol that's all. hehe :)

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