Topic: ???What Do Men Really Want????
Katzenschnauzer's photo
Sun 09/27/09 08:08 AM


Case in point: Twenty minutes ago I got an email from a man not even 100 miles from me. I responded and told him I was getting snacks ready for the Charger game today in 5 hours and that my DOG and I were going to watch it. He wrote back and said it sounded like I had everything under control. Now, what the heck did that mean? noway


That you have everything under control?


But, c'mon. He took up my time. Did his meds wear off or what?!

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 09/27/09 08:08 AM
Another generalization........what a surprise

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Sun 09/27/09 08:08 AM

Case in point: Twenty minutes ago I got an email from a man not even 100 miles from me. I responded and told him I was getting snacks ready for the Charger game today in 5 hours and that my DOG and I were going to watch it. He wrote back and said it sounded like I had everything under control. Now, what the heck did that mean? noway


Exactly what he said. Women are always looking for nuance in men...it just doesn't exist. You gave your plan for the day and he complimented you, because he liked your plan. When you talk to men, imagine you are talking to a child. Children don't have nuance, they say what they mean. Men are the same way.

Quietman_2009's photo
Sun 09/27/09 08:09 AM
what men want?

it changes

right now I want bacon

and pancakes

Englishrose2's photo
Sun 09/27/09 08:10 AM


Guys think with only one part of there body


That's so untrue. We don't think with it, it just tells us what to do.


laugh laugh laugh Well said made me laugh laugh laugh

Englishrose2's photo
Sun 09/27/09 08:12 AM



Case in point: Twenty minutes ago I got an email from a man not even 100 miles from me. I responded and told him I was getting snacks ready for the Charger game today in 5 hours and that my DOG and I were going to watch it. He wrote back and said it sounded like I had everything under control. Now, what the heck did that mean? noway


That you have everything under control?


But, c'mon. He took up my time. Did his meds wear off or what?!


He ment he couldnt multitask!!laugh laugh

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Sun 09/27/09 08:16 AM



Case in point: Twenty minutes ago I got an email from a man not even 100 miles from me. I responded and told him I was getting snacks ready for the Charger game today in 5 hours and that my DOG and I were going to watch it. He wrote back and said it sounded like I had everything under control. Now, what the heck did that mean? noway


That you have everything under control?


But, c'mon. He took up my time. Did his meds wear off or what?!


I think I get it...were you hinting that he should come watch the game with you? If you had asked him, he probably would have. But guys have no nuance, we don't take hints. You have to clearly say it. We aren't stupid, women just think differently from men.

Katzenschnauzer's photo
Sun 09/27/09 08:18 AM
I guess I should have said, "Want to see game on big t.v. ?"

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Sun 09/27/09 08:20 AM

I guess I should have said, "Want to see game on big t.v. ?"


Call him up and ask! You guys might really hit it off. Just remember...you can't be subtle with men. Let us know how it goes.

Katzenschnauzer's photo
Sun 09/27/09 08:21 AM
He just wrote again and told me to have a good day and maybe we could compare notes on the games later. Now that doesn't sound like a simple creature to me. That sounds so complicated and involved.

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Sun 09/27/09 08:41 AM

He just wrote again and told me to have a good day and maybe we could compare notes on the games later. Now that doesn't sound like a simple creature to me. That sounds so complicated and involved.


You are wrong. Men are simple. He is simple. Don't read anything into his message other than what he said exactly. He's saying he is going to watch the game and wants to talk to you about it later.

Katzenschnauzer's photo
Sun 09/27/09 08:44 AM


He just wrote again and told me to have a good day and maybe we could compare notes on the games later. Now that doesn't sound like a simple creature to me. That sounds so complicated and involved.


You are wrong. Men are simple. He is simple. Don't read anything into his message other than what he said exactly. He's saying he is going to watch the game and wants to talk to you about it later.



Wrong? The Queen is wrong?

Quietman_2009's photo
Sun 09/27/09 08:45 AM
off with his head

Mayhem_J's photo
Sun 09/27/09 08:51 AM
I could def go for some bacon right now as well. Then...I'll probably want o see something naked.

FearandLoathing's photo
Sun 09/27/09 10:23 AM

Guys think with only one part of there bodylaugh and due to this fact are easily manipulated by us females, even though i am gay i can flutter my eyes and be a lady in distress and guys are always willing to help....bless you alllaugh laugh Anna x


I'm really good at ignoring stuff like that, of course I think with my brain and not much else...everything else is just white noise, block it out and keep moving.

Katzenschnauzer's photo
Sun 09/27/09 12:02 PM
I'm so glad that the concrete-thinking emailer isn't coming to my house. My vacuum cleaner blew up and dust balls went everywhere and the game is in an hour.sad

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Sun 09/27/09 12:06 PM
Edited by msharmony on Sun 09/27/09 12:07 PM


???What Do Men Really Want????
Okay I don't get it.Men say they want a women to be loyal,funny,smart,down to earth,like sports,that can cook,have her own money an everything but then you do find her,you try an test her to see if she is real!......Why?
Please explain to me what im doing wrong! I go to school,work an get really good pay,I workout. Love football & basketball but guys say "Im to good to be true"

Im lost please somebody tell me am I wrong for giving up on men? Or should I just wait it out?


If a guy tells you "you are too good to be true", he is not interested and is trying to be nice. And/or he is playing a game on you to see how far you will go or how desperate you are.

Any of those sayings "you are too good.....", "it's not you.....", "timing is not good...." etc.... Blow him off. He is just playing around with you.

My experience and opinion here of course.



Dangit, I told a guy that he was 'too good to be true' and I MEANT it,, it was like someone read my diary of what I wish I could find and created him( I didnt tell him that though),,u figure thats what scared him off....?

It was a compliment,,,(im so bad at this stuff,,lol)

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Sun 09/27/09 12:07 PM

???What Do Men Really Want????




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Sun 09/27/09 12:11 PM

???What Do Men Really Want????
Okay I don't get it.Men say they want a women to be loyal,funny,smart,down to earth,like sports,that can cook,have her own money an everything but then you do find her,you try an test her to see if she is real!......Why?
Please explain to me what im doing wrong! I go to school,work an get really good pay,I workout. Love football & basketball but guys say "Im to good to be true"

Im lost please somebody tell me am I wrong for giving up on men? Or should I just wait it out?


This is a hard thing to answer, since it seems different men want different things.

I do know that the kind of woman I want doesn't exist anymore.

And, in my experience, what women say they want is never what they actually do want. They wait a few months before they spring the reality on me!


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Sun 09/27/09 02:05 PM
Thanks to some of you who "ACTUALLY" answered my Question....I guess I will just put all my focus into Finshing college an just go with the flow an not worry about dating