Topic: Dating outside your race...?
Dragoness's photo
Mon 09/21/09 04:28 PM
I enjoy the different cultures of this world and dating is one of the greatest ways to learn the other cultures.

tanyaann's photo
Mon 09/21/09 04:28 PM
Honesty, respect and communication.... what more does a relationship need.

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Mon 09/21/09 04:29 PM

I enjoy the different cultures of this world and dating is one of the greatest ways to learn the other cultures.


I learned about them in my cultural anthropology class in graduate school. Great fun!:banana:

southern_bee's photo
Mon 09/21/09 04:38 PM
well basically race shouldn't matter,if you care for someone and they dont treat you badly then whats the problem?


Riding_Dubz's photo
Mon 09/21/09 05:01 PM
no matter what color she is white black latino they all spend my money the same laugh laugh laugh

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Mon 09/21/09 05:03 PM

no matter what color she is white black latino they all spend my money the same laugh laugh laugh



... Hmmmm ...

Why can't I find the blazin' machine gun emoticon??? ... :tongue:

heavenlyboy34's photo
Mon 09/21/09 05:05 PM

no matter what color she is white black latino they all spend my money the same laugh laugh laugh
rofl rofl rofl rofl ain't that the truth!

southern_bee's photo
Mon 09/21/09 05:06 PM


no matter what color she is white black latino they all spend my money the same laugh laugh laugh



... Hmmmm ...

Why can't I find the blazin' machine gun emoticon??? ... :tongue:



Inlikeflynn78's photo
Mon 09/21/09 05:07 PM
Race don't mean a damn thing.

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Mon 09/21/09 05:38 PM



no matter what color she is white black latino they all spend my money the same laugh laugh laugh



... Hmmmm ...

Why can't I find the blazin' machine gun emoticon??? ... :tongue:





Ah, you've got it, phew ... Ta, love ... :wink: ... flowerforyou

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 09/21/09 06:49 PM

Ok so I have never done this before but I am interested in other people's opinion. I am biracial Black/White/Colombian and I am interested in all races, just wondering how willing people are to date outside their own race? And are you worried what others think when and if you do?

NOTE: Who ever I date I'm always dataing outside my race unless someone is mixed like me! :)


I don't care, if I can make enemies at it I will look at it as a plus.smokin

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Mon 09/21/09 07:16 PM

Calleigh, just an innocent fair question for you. Regarding a white man with a black woman, what do you do if one or both sets of parents have a racial bias? And the couple is very much in love and comfortable with each other. I had a relationship with a black woman several years ago, but it only lasted 3 months because her father didn't approve of my skin pigment deficiency. Tried to tell him it was vitiligo, but he wasn't buyin' it. Oh well. Didn't really have vitiligo that was a joke.


Also, I'm not sure why you singled me out to ask this question, but I guess it's irrelevant. Here is my opinion, all relationships have a tendency to really suck, it's the nature of the beast, people are selfish, everyone wants their own way, very few people are willing to compromise. When you add other factors like large gaps in age, difference in race and gender, economic status, anything like that, you are adding to the complications. Hopefully you read my other posts where I state that I don't care about who other people date as long as they're not trying to date me, and how it takes a very dedicated person to have a successful interracial relationship (or any other relationship for that matter) especially depending on where you live.

I hope this helps answer your question, and I hope you find someone one day that will make you happy, no matter what race (skin color) she happens to be. Good luck to you in your search.flowerforyou

CatsLoveMe's photo
Wed 09/23/09 01:13 AM
I think what you're getting at is that you go against all odds, if you're happy with the one you're with, accept no outside influence, and be strong in who you are as a couple, no matter what"they" think. I always knew this, but I just wish people would get over it and hate a little less. Happiness comes first.:wink: :wink: :wink:

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Wed 09/23/09 01:41 AM
Eh, money comes first, I'd rather have money than a man, I don't care if he's black as midnight.rofl rofl rofl rofl

Katzenschnauzer's photo
Wed 09/23/09 01:47 AM

Eh, money comes first, I'd rather have money than a man, I don't care if he's black as midnight.rofl rofl rofl rofl



Yes, if that wallet is hefty he can be purple, off-feusia, lime green...

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Wed 09/23/09 01:48 AM


Eh, money comes first, I'd rather have money than a man, I don't care if he's black as midnight.rofl rofl rofl rofl



Yes, if that wallet is hefty he can be purple, off-feusia, lime green...


Yep yep!!drinker

Katzenschnauzer's photo
Wed 09/23/09 01:57 AM
Martin Luther King, Jr had his dream and God bless him for it. I have my dream and it has everything to do with the color GREEN!:laughing: :angel:

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Wed 09/23/09 02:05 AM

Martin Luther King, Jr had his dream and God bless him for it. I have my dream and it has everything to do with the color GREEN!:laughing: :angel:


laugh I like that!

Paddyreus's photo
Wed 09/23/09 02:07 AM
I always thought white-skinned people were vulnerablelaugh laugh laugh they will have their skin torn after a hell of nights pounding...but boy oooo boy was I wrong!


then this Hungarian lady also thought me that my country's cultre was similar to hers in so many ways

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Wed 09/23/09 02:08 AM
Edited by Calleigh12 on Wed 09/23/09 02:09 AM

I always thought white-skinned people were vulnerablelaugh laugh laugh they will have their skin torn after a hell of nights pounding...but boy oooo boy was I wrong!


then this Hungarian lady also thought me that my country's cultre was similar to hers in so many ways


huh