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Topic: Having A Baby
MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 09/20/09 12:23 PM
:heart:Can having a baby with someone make you fall in love with that person if there were no feelings to begin with?:heart:

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Sun 09/20/09 12:25 PM

:heart:Can having a baby with someone make you fall in love with that person if there were no feelings to begin with?:heart:


no if you weren't in love with them from the beginning, it was just sex

IMO

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Sun 09/20/09 12:25 PM

:heart:Can having a baby with someone make you fall in love with that person if there were no feelings to begin with?:heart:


Big mistake for both and specially for the baby.

earthytaurus76's photo
Sun 09/20/09 12:25 PM
no, no it cant. but it can make you fall in love with the baby.

Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 09/20/09 12:26 PM

no, no it cant. but it can make you fall in love with the baby.


flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 09/20/09 12:26 PM


:heart:Can having a baby with someone make you fall in love with that person if there were no feelings to begin with?:heart:


no if you weren't in love with them from the beginning, it was just sex

IMO
flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 09/20/09 12:26 PM


:heart:Can having a baby with someone make you fall in love with that person if there were no feelings to begin with?:heart:


Big mistake for both and specially for the baby.
:thumbsup:

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 09/20/09 12:28 PM

no, no it cant. but it can make you fall in love with the baby.
flowerforyou

HasidicEnforcer's photo
Sun 09/20/09 12:28 PM
No.

1st baby was born of my ex-fiance from 1998. He left. I didn't care.

2nd baby was born to my ex-husband in 2004. He left. I stopped caring.

3rd baby was born to a sweet loving couple from China in 2006. Um, who was it I was supposed to fall in love with then? LOL


The next baby born to me with be with someone I love. If I do not have someone I love in my life, I will fall in love with a sperm tank at the sperm bank and have a baby I guess.


Idk...


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Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 09/20/09 12:28 PM


:heart:Can having a baby with someone make you fall in love with that person if there were no feelings to begin with?:heart:


Big mistake for both and specially for the baby.


not necessarily...no child is ever a mistake

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 09/20/09 12:29 PM


no, no it cant. but it can make you fall in love with the baby.


flowerforyou
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HasidicEnforcer's photo
Sun 09/20/09 12:30 PM



:heart:Can having a baby with someone make you fall in love with that person if there were no feelings to begin with?:heart:


Big mistake for both and specially for the baby.


not necessarily...no child is ever a mistake


no, I don't think he was implying that the baby was a mistake. I think he was implying that the parents sticking together because of baby when there was no love in the relationship was a mistake.


I could be wrong, but that's what I am assuming.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 09/20/09 12:30 PM

No.

1st baby was born of my ex-fiance from 1998. He left. I didn't care.

2nd baby was born to my ex-husband in 2004. He left. I stopped caring.

3rd baby was born to a sweet loving couple from China in 2006. Um, who was it I was supposed to fall in love with then? LOL


The next baby born to me with be with someone I love. If I do not have someone I love in my life, I will fall in love with a sperm tank at the sperm bank and have a baby I guess.


Idk...


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flowers

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 09/20/09 12:31 PM



:heart:Can having a baby with someone make you fall in love with that person if there were no feelings to begin with?:heart:


Big mistake for both and specially for the baby.


not necessarily...no child is ever a mistake
:thumbsup:

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 09/20/09 12:31 PM




:heart:Can having a baby with someone make you fall in love with that person if there were no feelings to begin with?:heart:


Big mistake for both and specially for the baby.


not necessarily...no child is ever a mistake


no, I don't think he was implying that the baby was a mistake. I think he was implying that the parents sticking together because of baby when there was no love in the relationship was a mistake.


I could be wrong, but that's what I am assuming.
flowers

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 09/20/09 12:32 PM
If the love is not there you can not force it........no matter what may happen you either fall in love naturally or it does not happen..

HasidicEnforcer's photo
Sun 09/20/09 12:32 PM
I think Mirror should give me a baby. I am sure I will "find room" to love him eventually.

Or he could just give me his monkey.... winking

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Sun 09/20/09 12:34 PM



:heart:Can having a baby with someone make you fall in love with that person if there were no feelings to begin with?:heart:


Big mistake for both and specially for the baby.


not necessarily...no child is ever a mistake


Didn't say the baby was a mistake or that both parent could not love the baby but to start it's life out of a lie is never the best start.


MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 09/20/09 12:35 PM

If the love is not there you can not force it........no matter what may happen you either fall in love naturally or it does not happen..
:thumbsup:

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 09/20/09 12:35 PM

I think Mirror should give me a baby. I am sure I will "find room" to love him eventually.

Or he could just give me his monkey.... winking
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