How can I delete this topic

Dude...she explained to you as clear as day. She needs to focus on her studies right now. Not a relationship. Which really...being at such a young age, is the right path. So your just going to have to suck it up and move on. Its not because of your heritage or anything like that. Shes just being responsible.

honestly i mean a relationship wont pay the bills trying to work and go to school likes shes doing i give her major kudos.shes doing something that will majorly help out her life

even though she has to focus in her life, of course she has time to spend if she would like to

I respect her decision to focus in her life but don't you think guys if she told me before in order to not be thinking about her all the time would be better for two of us

I don't know. I'm just so depressedand and trying to forget about her but that's so hard for me

do you think guys at least she might get back to me or there's no chance :( ??

You should be pleased she's trying to better herself. Trust me, it sucks to get older and feel like you've screwed up your entire life. As for you being middle eastern, that's irrelevant, she wants to make something out of herself, it's not an attack on you.

wow, ur creepy.

hahahah, sorry, I have to have a little fun with you though.

An hour away??? Seriously, one hour? One hour?

I drive that far to get to work!

If you really want her as a girlfriend then the regular "freinds" thing is out the window, so the first thing to do is make up your mind. Could you stand seeing her with another guy and be happy for her? Trust me, it's a tough thing to see but I've done it.

Second, if no, then you have two choices, break it off completely or drive your happy *** over there and help her with her school work. Don't think about you when you do it, just help her with her school work and when y'all finish the assignment then talk.

an hour.

p.s. if that seemed nice don't tell anyone that I told you.

From what I've heard of relationships, they take time and effort to maintain, none of which she seems to have in large supply, since she's focusing on her schooling and work. So I'd say no. Try to find someone else who's not so busy, the world is full of women.

Why the long discussions? The girl does not want to see you....it is as simple as that!!!! Life goes on...you are young...there will be other girls!!!

yea, that's what I thought before I left the love of my life.

From what I read you saw her 2 months ago and that was the last time you saw her and then everything else has been by phone or text message. I do not think you can truly know someone by just one meeting.

I don't understand, "of course she has time if she would like to".

I went to college and worked jobs while doing it. Sometimes there isn't time for relationships. School is the priority and the main focus. There is no, "of course she has time if she would like to".
She told you that there wasn't. Respect her wishes.

she attend the college and has the 2 jobs before I met her
ans said she could be my girlfriend at that time but now she can't

Forget about her. There is nothing you can do to better your situation and the harder you try the worse you'll make it. Do not call her. Do not text her. Do not attempt to contact her in any way. If you see her at a party ignore her. Go out and find another girl ASAP.

Oh Lawdy lawdy lawdy!!!!







Done and dusted......


Next dilemma to fix?


TS...how's the wet shorts? And where's my half a million???

People change their minds all the time. Maybe she realized she needed to focus more time on her priorities. Maybe she just doesn't want a relationship right now. Whatever it is, you have to respect that. I've wanted people I couldn't have for whatever reason, and there was nothing I could do but deal with it.

but if she's making up all that stuff about school b/c she thinks that you aren't interested in her because you won't drive your lazy butt an hour to see her and she finds out different she'll never forgive you for it. One meetup isn't really enough that's true, but IMO you never gave it an honest try to begin with, so all your tears are in vain. I'd give it one last shot and make sure that you do it for her, not for you, and if it doesn't work out then fine, but you need to quit with the creepy text message thingy.

You can't delete a thread on here, only mods can do that. Once you post it, it just has to run it's course until people get bored with it. You don't have to return to it though, if you don't want to.

You can ask a mod to delete it.