So there I was, sitting at a bar minding my own buisness on a tuesday night and there was some guy there talking about how there aren't any good women out there up for grabs, how the best ones are already taken and bla bla bla.

Now don't get me wrong, I think I screwed up and sent the "perfect" one for me away a long time ago, and having a hard time trying to fill that hole in my heart, but this guy needed some cheering up.

So I asked him, "You really want to know where the good ones are?" and he said "yes," thinking that I had access to some kind of super knowledge or a quick fix to his little problem.

I told him, "They are probably at home in bed"

I never try to pick up girls at the bar, but I do go quite often just on that off chance that someone who's right for me will just happen to walk in, just happen to be single, and I'll just happen to have my spirits up enough that night to talk to her. Every once in a while I get one out of the three, lol.

Same thing goes for girls I guess, you can't really just expect to find a good guy at a bar. I have seen women who think they did only to have him hitting on the bartender the second they leave :) Kinda makes me wonder why any of us go to bars in the first place (single people).

never EVER try to pick up chicks from a bar

ONly whores and sugar babies are there

well, I wouldn't say ONLY whores and sugar babies, but yea that's pretty much the concensus. There sometimes is that girl that got dragged there by her friends or some kinda baby shower, bachelorette party, birthday party or some other nonsense. Definitely stay away from the chick that shows up at a bar with no money.. What the hell is up with that?

I met my kids' dad in a bar.... and had 18 years together..


I met my current partner, who was an ex, in a bar...known each other for going on 8 years...

come to think of it I have met every partner in a bar...


I have a thing for musos...

There is a big list of places to go to meet people:

Bookstores (try Barnes and Noble)
Parks
Shopping malls
Coffee shops (lots of singles in coffee shops)
Join a club/ organization of your interest that involves men and women
Church
Take a class in your local college
Etc, Etc, Etc, Etc

I think bars are not the best place to try to find someone to date

It's a crock of sh*te!


People are people everywhere.... so realistically....by YOU going to a bar... you are a nobody, a not worthy of a relationship type..


makes me laugh...those that spout all this wisdom... half the time don't realise they have to include themselves.


Bar staff are people too... and most of them hardworking REAL people earning a living... and they would agree that at least 50 % of people in a bar are good folk..

and most of the people who reply to hostility at these threads don't realize that we aren't making all inclusive statements. I hang out in bars with lots of guys and would not recommend 90% of them to a girl I cared about.

i dont go to bars to pick up guys i go to have fun with friends and play pool..very badly

yep i agree , bars isn't the right place to find the right woman

15 years bartending....half of the time i was in a LTR.The other half.....oops! I almost never go to bars now...the old vibe is gone.

Nothing wrong with that. i do go to bars as well, only for fun not to make relationships.

tou che'

Late husband and I met in a bar and never went back. We were married for 25 years.

I met all the whores at church functions, grocery stores, charity events, battered womens shelters, bus stops, red cross blood drives, weight watchers, and the laundromat. Ha ha ha! I'm joking!

god thing u didnt ,thats why it last for 25 years :-)