Topic: are some really that fake...really??
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Sun 09/13/09 04:38 AM
recently broke up with a guy...i don't get how in a few weeks the guy can go from i'm inlove with you i want to marry you one day to i don't think it's going to work i want to be friends with you..what's the go with men like this????

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Sun 09/13/09 04:43 AM

recently broke up with a guy...i don't get how in a few weeks the guy can go from i'm inlove with you i want to marry you one day to i don't think it's going to work i want to be friends with you..what's the go with men like this????


We're evil, didn't you get the memo?

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Sun 09/13/09 04:43 AM

recently broke up with a guy...i don't get how in a few weeks the guy can go from i'm inlove with you i want to marry you one day to i don't think it's going to work i want to be friends with you..what's the go with men like this????


Sincerity can be a hard thing to find. Listen to your gut instincts and move forward with an open heart and lots of patience. I'm sorry this happened to you. flowerforyou

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Sun 09/13/09 04:46 AM
if it's within the course of a few weeks of dating, then he probably either found someone he liked better or he didn't get laid.

however, people do change, and what they want changes, but i believe that's something that happens over an extended period of time.

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Sun 09/13/09 02:24 PM
same thing just happened 2 me was dating a girl who said she loved me spent all our time together wanted 2 get married was not afraid 2 get pregnant and 1 day she just quit talking or communicating in anty way found out her x came back from iraq whom she said it was over with and she proceeded 2 get married 2 him on his 2 week visit and she never said anything 2 me ever and havent heard from her since thats messed up

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Sun 09/13/09 02:42 PM
well i have dealt with that since february.... and i just decieded that i am no longer going to deal with it anymore... who the h*ll wants to be strung along with the i want you, i love you and then a few weeks later just decided your not the person they want anymore. then a few weeks later come back like they cant live without you....

i will not put my heart on the line like that again.... ever.

cosmeticxeyes's photo
Mon 09/14/09 10:20 AM
mind > heart.

think with the right one, dollface. i know it's hard, but it'll get easier.

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Mon 09/14/09 10:25 AM
If things move too fast... that usually means it's lust. Once in a great while love can sweep you off your feet, but that is the exception to the rule.

It's the Mack Truck theory. And it will run you over....

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Mon 09/14/09 11:33 AM
I'd never trust a guy who claimed to be in love with me after only a few weeks. Starts fast = ends fast. Sad but true, good luck in the future.flowerforyou