Topic: why do i get no responses
agbbieannie's photo
Sat 09/19/09 02:41 AM
to= two


Unless i want to go 4 wheeling and camping all the time i would pass you bye. But keep trying. Someone will bite. Most girls 22 want some romance like dinner dancing and movies. All I see is camping and atv on your page.

JimothyBear's photo
Sat 09/19/09 05:01 AM


no matter how many messages i send i never get return mail can the ladies actually look at my profile and tell me why not


You are an attractive guy, your blurb is cool, seems like you are pretty fun to be around.
It may be the inital e-mail that you send out.
You have to make it clever.
"Hows it going?" or " Wow, you are hot" is not gonna cut it.
I'm sure most of the ladies on here know exactly what I am talking about.
Not to toot my own horn here, but I get around 50 new intial e-mails a day.
The ones that just have a simple oneliner are prolly going to get ignored. (unless I am very very bored..i may respond with a onliner..but thats the end of it)
So say something to spark the girls interest. I mean I have responded to guys with NO PICS cuz of the originality of their first e-mail, and ignored sexy guys that had tons of pics, but just a oneliner.

Just put some effort into the first e-mail...(no poems and biograpies tho....cuz those e-mails are just creeeepy..lol)



Id totally send you an email. But you live in Dallas. I was born in Texas... but sooooo no there anymore :P

Anywho... lots of good advice. I cant give any myself, as Ive just joined and havent gotten any responses either :\

longhairbiker's photo
Sat 09/19/09 06:43 AM
Sheeeeeeeeiiiitttt, its only saturday morning and I've only got 45 emails I had to reply to. Hmmmmmmmmmm. Could have something to do with courtesy, respect, and being able to hold up conversation. "Hi, you're Hawt" doesn't hold up well.

TheCaptain's photo
Sat 09/19/09 09:01 AM

i like how all these ladies are saying "wait for the right one" and giving advice, saying your handsome

shame more that respond to this aren't like the ones that msg me.
truth and brutal honesty ;)

(sry ur fugly) (sry .... i'd rather jump off a bridge)

til i finally said f~~~ it and decided to just comment nice things to random ppl.

since.. i only want friendships anyways
but it seems to even get a friend on this site costs an arm, leg and left testie


Look at this site like it was a bar. The more people you talk to, the better your odds are. Posting in the forums is like talking to people, while e-mails are like passing someone a note.

prisoner's photo
Sat 09/19/09 09:35 AM
I've had dates with 2 different women from this site. Granted,the women were train wrecks,but the site does work. be seeing you

no photo
Sat 09/19/09 10:15 AM
you need more pictures up on your profile.

you need to be more thorough in your about me section say some crap about what you're looking for and how romantic or awesome you are,

change to dogs to two dogs.


say you like to cuddle

and yes join the forums more or try a dating website specifically in your area. plus, the people whom you are sending messages to have they been on or are they inactive..

Diligent's photo
Tue 09/22/09 10:43 PM
Hey buddy, do not sweat it. I have had many women contact me first. Then, when I respond to their messages, some of them "seem to lose interest" after a short time, or do not respond at all. You have got to take these things with a "pinch of salt". Meaning, women are the greatest thing since the invention of the wheel, but they are VERY flighty, emotional, and unpredictable. Many times, they do not seem to know what they want. That said, there is no way that any man could figure them out. The lack of response may have everything to do with them. There is an old saying that goes, "it is a woman's perogative to change her mind".

bluefancypants's photo
Fri 09/25/09 02:22 PM
I am not sure, but maybe you look like you drink more than occasionally because both of your photos show you holding at least one beer. Hope it helps. You seem fun and attractive.

earthytaurus76's photo
Fri 09/25/09 02:46 PM
It could be that you have a beer in your hand in every picture.

MikeCarbellano's photo
Fri 09/25/09 03:17 PM
I have probably emailed around 50 women..and roughly 3 replies. This other dating site I am on tells you if they read, deleted, or did not read the message you send. I get a lot of women reading the message, view my profile, then delete the message.

Harsh, but I keep trying. The forums is a good way to meet people...to an extent. I have seen nobody on the forums even remotely close to me. Its good to have online friends, though.

Doppleron's photo
Fri 09/25/09 06:27 PM
I'm no expert but I've been successful at making new friends on these sites for the past couple years. I've had a lot of dates too.

Your profile and pictures are a presentation of yourself. Take a look at some of the guys profiles that are posting in the threads. Make sure yours is an honest, and good, presentation of yourself.

my 2 1/2 cents...

robert1652's photo
Fri 09/25/09 06:35 PM

no matter how many messages i send i never get return mail can the ladies actually look at my profile and tell me why not
sounds familiar and naught to do with profiles
Women here are untouchable

Kay10's photo
Tue 09/29/09 08:52 AM
Within these tipe of sites some would say it's a living advertisement so sell yourself so to speak hehehe ,Alright not meant in any naughty kind of way LOL.
I believe just in being yourself write what you feel put up few pics that maybe be nice .
Place yourself In forums talk to others maybe get yourself a little more known .

Ah there's many suggestions to give it's the decisions you decide to take ,Anyway your hear now wish you well in what your looking .

Try keep optimistic there's someone out there for you maybe they've just not came across you as yet pay kind to patience love doesn't happen over night .

Tbc friend when you seek try keep it all in mind .

Best wishes
Kay ;-)

Englishrose2's photo
Tue 09/29/09 09:20 AM
Dont get down keep posting i already have met some new friends and they are very sweet. Anna x

WillPM's photo
Fri 10/02/09 11:34 PM
Put "Internet Dating SuperStud" as your headline. It works 60% of the time everytime.

southern_bee's photo
Fri 10/02/09 11:36 PM
so when can i just shoot him?

no photo
Fri 10/02/09 11:38 PM

so when can i just shoot him?
laugh laugh laugh laugh

southern_bee's photo
Fri 10/02/09 11:40 PM


so when can i just shoot him?
laugh laugh laugh laugh


well hes got like 12 post lol wheres the effort?

no photo
Fri 10/02/09 11:48 PM
Oh yeah?rofl rofl rofl rofl

southern_bee's photo
Fri 10/02/09 11:50 PM

Oh yeah?rofl rofl rofl rofl


yes..this person who started this topic haz 12 post hell i was gone for 5 or so months and making up for lost time lol