What kind of love is it that makes you want happiness for someone else even though you dont believe you can have it together. What do you do if you dont believe u will be happy together and the other person keeps trying desperately to prove you wrong? How is the best way to take an intimate relationship back to a friendship,, if there wasnt a true (and mutual)friendship to start with? What if you are tired of trying, hoping, waiting,,,,,,,How do you chose to hurt someone you love or continue being unhappy,,,,,

I think all you can do is whats best for your own happiness, it may hurt for awhile to hurt someone you love, but i think temporary pain is better than long term

There is no intent to hurt in truth....lies and half truths are an intent to hurt.

Be honest....be gentle...but clearly and concisely truthful.