"good guys" from "bad guys"?

I can't. Obviously.

Always trust you instincts. Listen to that inner voice. Bad guys have usually mastered the gift of gab. In other words, they know what to say and how to say it. They tell you what you want to hear. Never put your trust in a guy who does not back up his words with actions. Actions are what defines a person, not words. Don't be afraid to say no or cut off a relationship. Background checks are good. Don't be afraid to ask questions. Listen to what they are and are not saying as well as how they say it. Consider where you met the person. If you hang out in bars and dumps, you will most likely find only garbage. Garbage attracts flies.

I can generally spot a bullsh1tter from a mile off. When someone is a good person and trustworthy, it normally shines through.

It might be about being honest with yourself. i.e Dont let anyone get away with anything just because they are good looking or wealthy, for example.

Bad guys/dishonest people say stuff they dont mean. You can spot a lie through someones eyes and their body language.

Good Guys-White Hat

Bad Guys-Black Hat


Don't you ever watch the old westerns??????

one has pick me on his forehead (the evil one)

so of course i do

A person who is generous of spirit shines....

a person who is self focussed also shows themselves...

One speaks of themselves in relation to EVERYTHING.... the other speaks of everything and everyone, but themselves.

Humbleness, and gratitude are not difficult to spot.


it isn't rocket science.

good guys will feel guilt and cry, the mean ones will feel nothing, you can look at there eyes and tell. If u see pain and guilt then there good they have a sould, other wise dithc em.

Not allways I relate myself in conversation to alot of things, its not being self centered just I know from first hand experiance what ever the topic may be at times. My x said I was self centered because of that, I looked at her and asked her if she had experianced any thing I had spoken of or related to, her answer was no...so I said then how am I self centered im simply sharing advice and a point of view.

Some are so good at misrepresenting themselves that you sometimes have to find out the hard way.

How silly of me!

If I see pain and guilt in some guy's eyes, I think he has issues, and I walk away. Sorry, I don't date the walking wounded....