Topic: guys that cry
Jtevans's photo
Tue 09/01/09 07:00 PM
i just don't let anything bother me.i look at every bad situation as "it could've been worse"

miko1960's photo
Tue 09/01/09 07:03 PM
My dad was one of those macho types and I was taught men don't cry, I was almost 30 yrs old and found it was ok to cry when something really hurts,

I had lost both my mother and my grandmother in that same year, plus the woman I was to marry broke up with me, then I lost an uncle to cancer I had been very close too, my girlfriend and I had been together for 7 yrs.

Needless to say when I was younger I became angry a lot had been in to many fights to count, because I was always holding in my emotions, being Irish didn't help with my temper.

It's ok to cry when something really hurts you, if you keep thing bottled in it can be like a pressure cooker and explode in anger, now when something really hurts me I am able to le i out, but it took a lot of years to learn this lesson, I think a lot of us men cry but won' admit o it in fear of being labeled weak.

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 09/01/09 07:04 PM

i just don't let anything bother me.i look at every bad situation as "it could've been worse"


I laugh at them most of the time.smokin

miko1960's photo
Tue 09/01/09 07:05 PM
My dad was one of those macho types and I was taught men don't cry, I was almost 30 yrs old and found it was ok to cry when something really hurts,

I had lost both my mother and my grandmother in that same year, plus the woman I was to marry broke up with me, then I lost an uncle to cancer I had been very close too, my girlfriend and I had been together for 7 yrs.

Needless to say when I was younger I became angry a lot had been in to many fights to count, because I was always holding in my emotions, being Irish didn't help with my temper.

It's ok to cry when something really hurts you, if you keep things bottled in it can be like a pressure cooker and explode in anger, now when something really hurts me I am able to let it out, but it took a lot of years to learn this lesson, I think a lot of us men cry but won't admit to it in fear of being labeled weak.

Jtevans's photo
Tue 09/01/09 07:07 PM


i just don't let anything bother me.i look at every bad situation as "it could've been worse"


I laugh at them most of the time.smokin



i do that if someone does really p1ss me off.i laugh to keep my anger under control.my brother does it too,so i guess it's a trait we have

no photo
Tue 09/01/09 07:10 PM
I hate seeing men cry makes me want to hug them or hold them

s1owhand's photo
Tue 09/01/09 07:21 PM

I hate seeing men cry makes me want to hug them or hold them


sad

no photo
Tue 09/01/09 07:23 PM
SMILE!

Ladylid2012's photo
Tue 09/01/09 07:29 PM
I raised three boys and they are all grown up now and know it's ok if they cry. Their not p*ssy's and whine azz's ...if they hurt they know they can cry, although I rarely see them do it.

Katzenschnauzer's photo
Tue 09/01/09 07:30 PM
Now, guys, don't go overboard on this crying thing. If you're at war and the enemy has a gun in your face...don't cry, okay? If you don't get to see the movie you want, don't cry.
But, like miko's experiences called for crying for sure.

Quietman_2009's photo
Tue 09/01/09 07:32 PM
there is a difference between a guy crying under extreme duress and these SNAPs that wanna show their sensitivity by crying at everything

SNAPs = Sensitive New Age P*ssies

TexasScoundrel's photo
Tue 09/01/09 07:36 PM
Nothing wrong with crying. But, there is a time limit. If you are still crying about a broken heart after six months someone should kick your azz and tell you to get back in the game. No woman is worth that much suffering.

DrBogenbroom's photo
Tue 09/01/09 07:38 PM
Interesting. I've had a few things happen recently that should have made me cry. I get close, but I don't actually make it to tears. That's without trying to hold back or anything. I, too, was brought up in a family where men didn't cry. Then again, there are a few songs that do that to me when I sing them. Just too much emotion. It kinda feels wrong to not be able to cry. Oh well. Maybe someday.

moonlight_wolf's photo
Tue 09/01/09 07:41 PM
Edited by moonlight_wolf on Tue 09/01/09 07:43 PM
There's nothing wrong with crying. I don't know about it being a "pre-requisite"...it's actually really hard for me to cry. Getting kicked in the nuts and any physical pain I've experienced over the past few years have yet to make me tear up. I think at most I've had damp eyes over it.

Emotional pain is much more severe. My ex-girlfriend (of a 1.5 year relationship) and I just split up, she's made me cry twice. Once was I found out she'd cheated on me. We got past that. Then when we finally broke up this past weekend, I cried again. Girls truly are evil haha


I hate seeing men cry makes me want to hug them or hold them


I hate seeing women cry. Makes me actually hug them or something, and sometimes that has netted me trouble with the...er...reason they're crying.

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Tue 09/01/09 07:42 PM
devil women are evil or atleast i am devil laugh

LewisW123's photo
Tue 09/01/09 07:52 PM
Dick Vermeil cries.

Jtevans's photo
Tue 09/01/09 07:55 PM

Dick Vermeil cries.



look at his record and you'll see why....

LewisW123's photo
Tue 09/01/09 07:57 PM


Dick Vermeil cries.



look at his record and you'll see why....


Uhh.. I think he has two superbowl rings.

Jtevans's photo
Tue 09/01/09 08:01 PM



Dick Vermeil cries.



look at his record and you'll see why....


Uhh.. I think he has two superbowl rings.




i know,he bought them from John Elway smokin

s1owhand's photo
Tue 09/01/09 08:19 PM
bigsmile