so my ex boyfriend who is like my older brother got married again.well he wants to mess around with another married girl when he gets home from over seas.

and like i told him it sad that your not ever gonna grow up and stop being a whore.and he talking about keeping his pimp status.hes 27 years old.

ive always warned him about girls and hes warned me about guys.but honestly dont vows means anything to anybody any more?

like it was funny when we were younger when he he was a player and i laughed at the girls he told me about but now,it just sad to me that hes married and he wants to go **** another married person,granted he said the married girl brought it up but still!

he said "well i think of it as being young still cause i dont want to be old man yet its fun wen i do it to my wife she knows i pick on women still for ***** n giggles"

hes not on this site.ive known him though for like 15 years or so.i dont know if i need to cut him outta my life or just ignore his immature ways still.

help

I would ask him if that is his attitude, then of course he would have no qualms with his wife having other lovers, would he?

he says he loves his wife and calls him self a pimp and if his wife did it i know we would be happy.it just kinda disgust me he calls him self a pimp and hes married

warn your brother that there ARE consequences for such actions - if he continues then part ways

You are right to be disgusted...because the way he is acting is disgusting...I personally think you should cut him off if he thinks what he is doing is okay and acceptable...

he says i was being cranky im like its not even cool to say your a pimp or even joke around with other woman like that!i think it really immature.

It is really immature of him...Tell him he's not a kid anymore, grow some balls and suck it up...He's got responsibilities now
He is almost 30 for Heaven's Sake

i have 2 agree 100+ percent.it's just not rt

hes like well im still a pimp i called him a sad person.im like your married almost 30 and you call yourself a pimp.its just sad..i thought maybe i was over reacting but you dont joke around bout fooking somebody else if you really love you other half

Funny, I've always looked at marriage as something people just do for ***** and giggles. Marriage used to mean something, doesn't so much anymore...now it is almost a sport or another competitive gig, who can get married first, who can stay married the longest, etc.

Honestly, cut him out now and save yourself the trouble later.

If he's like that, I'd be afraid to touch him without gloves, but that's just me...

STDs are very real and they can lie dormant for years. If you wanna keep contact with someone like this OK but consider what else you might be putting yourself at risk for if you ever let it go any further again.

Then again I don't even see the point of anything platonic either. If I were a woman I'd have serious issues introducing him to any of my girlfriends probably even guy friends too.

Affairs are a dangerous game. You should warn him of the dangers of fu@king around with another mans wife.......

That's absolute crap. What is with men and their NONDESIRE to grow OLD.....27 is about the time to grow up -it's not high school anymore! What pimp status is he going to talk about and who's going to gossip about it? no one. They're all just going to say he's stupid and his wife will realize that one day.