LOVE maybe but I think cheating is the ultimate betrayal And the one who cheats does not love

well the person who cheated was obviously not in love so I am not sure...Maybe they might fall in love after they cheat on there mate..Who knows...But probably not

If youre stupid.

It would be hard for him to love again when I've rearranged his face and his unit has been re-attached with the wrong end up.

Yes...but the reason has to be found why the cheating mate cheated and from there it must be found if they would choose to not cheat after the issue could be resolved.

it takes a lot for me to completely close a door on someone that i love, and cheating would probably be no exception (especially if we shared children and my partner and i were still in love).

a 'serial' cheater is another matter entirely, but i'd need to be in the situation before i could say what i'd actually do in reality.

Once a cheat, always a cheat?

not for me...

Well said, Quietman...
My writing skills are not that succinct.
So I obviously have to use alot more words to get my point across !

Will love endure? It depends on alot of factors.
The trust will be shaken, both people will be changed, and the relationship will be forever altered.
If there was cheating, there was never real love there in the first place, at least on the part of the cheater.
The relationship had its problems, any of millions of possibilities there...
The wronged partner will respond based on the depth of love he/she has.
Because love endures.
The resulting decisions to be made will depend on the personalities and degree of love both persons have, the quality of the relationship, about a million other factors, and communication, communication, communication.
Every person/every couple will have a different outcome.


But, yeah...
Love is not destroyed by the stupid mistakes we all make.
But some mistakes forever destroy relationships.

No scrabble

I think it's possible. But rare. It takes a LOT to rebuild trust.

been there tried that...no it doesn't work..without trust you have nothing

Totally agree, you may still love the person even though you've been cheated on. But you can't 100% trust ever again, so the relationship is dead.

Cheat on me once & you're gone, no exceptions, no excuses.

Someone who includes cheating in their choices of acceptable behavior doesn't have the same definition of love that I have so no.

That is real simple; they are more self centered than couple centered and you can not change basic character so there is no resolution unless you want to make the rest of your life subserviant to the cheating partners. I don't do second class person well but whatever turns you on.

nope

My ex cheated and used the most asinine excuse: "I was drunk, and I don't remember anything."

Ok, so I have always been a firm believer in the "once a cheater, always a cheater" saying. So, I have never put up with it in the past.

Note the "in the past..." I thought this time I'd try to work it out.

It didn't work. I found myself wondering and worrying every time alcohol was involved and I wasn't around. I made myself sick with worry.

The best thing I can say is: "You can always forgive, but you'll never forget."

So many people are worth one's time. Don't waste it on someone who can't see that.

I think it depends where your at in your relationship. for instance, if your just dating someone... dating mean there seeing other people right? Then there is a possibIlity either are going to cheat... Now one may be more in love faster then the other while dating and thinking there is no way that person would cheat on me.... Thats when one gets caught, and fur flys! Then comes commitment, what a challange.... But how bad do you want it? IF you want that person to be only yours...

Cheating After commitment,i would never go back to that person, would you?

love after cheating,,,,yes

Noone is perfect and if people are truly REMORSEFUL about their mistakes (meaning taking the effort to not repeat them ) than love can absolutely perservere.

love after cheating? you will not trust him/her the way before it happens.. and you dont have peace of mind..a cheater will be a cheater forever!