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Topic: Deal Breakers - no compromise
lonetar25's photo
Fri 08/28/09 08:13 PM
oh, and she also needs to be able to snort a gram of coke drink 10 shots of vodka and still be okay to drive me home, after smashing up the door staff

SitkaRains's photo
Fri 08/28/09 09:02 PM

What are the "set" Deal Breakers for you in a relationship?

The way the act, maybe intelligence is brought into the fold, even physical characteristics that when noticed, ITS OVA! ITS OVA! IT'S OVA!
I can't figure out if I have any - why I'm asking.


Well these 3 if I find out about them it is over due to career.
Substance abuse.
D.V. charge
Felony record..

I think after the relationship is there, if there is a serious lack of integrity then well it probably isn't going to last.

Someone that is lazy and can't get out of a chair to do anything

Quietman_2009's photo
Fri 08/28/09 09:04 PM
no penises

there is only one dork in our relationship and it's me

ematwo71's photo
Fri 08/28/09 10:43 PM
when someone cant forgive you when you say sorry. and im mean for example as simple as a little misunderstanding

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Fri 08/28/09 11:22 PM


Lying
Cheating
Mean
Rude

danedw9113's photo
Fri 08/28/09 11:23 PM
mind games and jealousy..I dealt with it for 6 years, and it almost got me killed. I will never...NEVER, deal with that again for an instant.

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Sat 08/29/09 12:01 AM

mind games and jealousy..I dealt with it for 6 years, and it almost got me killed. I will never...NEVER, deal with that again for an instant.





agreed - jealousy is the biggest deal breaker for me. I think thats it.



LewisW123's photo
Sat 08/29/09 03:20 AM
Edited by LewisW123 on Sat 08/29/09 03:22 AM
Before you get into a relationship with them, like on the first few dates:
1. Are they rude, disrespectful to others, like wait-staff, cab drivers. etc?
2. Are they uncomfortable with or even scared to be around people of different ages, children, elderly?
3. Are they self-centered, talk about themselves incessantly, reveal WAY too much on the first date, blame all their problems on other people (parents, siblings, exs)?
4. Do they have a plan? For next week, next year, 10years, life?
5. Do they like their career, and if not, what are they going to do about it?
6. Do they listen, give well thought, sound advice (even if you don't agree with it)?
7. Do they have a sense of humor?
8. Inflexible. They kinda freak out if things don't go as planned. It's o.k. to be neat and organized, but even that type of person should be able to roll with things once around.


Jess642's photo
Sat 08/29/09 03:24 AM
Hmmmm....

Lying...ALL the truth ALL of the time no matter how painful or brutal it may appear to be.

Disrespect.....to any living thing including self, in ANY form.



that's about it....they encompass every aspect of relating to any one.




s1owhand's photo
Sat 08/29/09 03:31 AM
no poor hygiene, no smoking, no drugs, no alcoholism, no mean girls, no helpless, no vain, no rude, no invisible, no in your face, no kidding

no, no, no, NO

laugh noway laugh

Jess642's photo
Sat 08/29/09 03:36 AM

no poor hygiene, no smoking, no drugs, no alcoholism, no mean girls, no helpless, no vain, no rude, no invisible, no in your face, no kidding

no, no, no, NO

laugh noway laugh


I'm smoking......hot.

I am addictive....a drug.

I am cured of alcoholism.....after last night.

I am mean.......in all the nice ways.

I am vain.....just ask me.

I am rude in 17 different languages....in all the nice ways.

I am invisible....just ask my galfriends who forgot me.

I am in everyone's face about everything.

I am kidding.....when I say your bum doesn't look big in that.


YES YES YES YES>>>pitchfork

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