I said great....but.....not necessarily "completely" versed in the local Godesses

Maybe you're just a loser. It sounds mean but somethings just are. Go buy some nice clothes, get a hair cut, get out and talk to a girl and stop being a bi+ch. You gotta get yourself a "you are gonna notice me" attitude. Good Luck.

You're right. Poor on my part. Just poor. I am new. Give me some time to notice and take in the scenery.

Hahahaha Don't mind me I'm just tooting my own horn

This from a man that only shows his stomach?

No worries darlin, you're doing GREAT for a newbie

"MANY" Goddesses here!

So computer_lover692001......join in....don't just sit there

care to toot mine

*toot toot* ya frigg'n hottie, Myka!

No, you're not the guy that tries really hard and doesn't seem to get noticed. That's me, the job has been filled here. If you want to stick around you'll have to be noticed or we'll have to let you go.

Hummmmmmmmmmm ya want to be noticed then ya got to get out there no one wants or cares to sit back and listen to someone whine ohhh me ohhhh my. JMO

In your profile:

you may want to tell people a little more than that, for it may leave the wrong impression that you might be lazy in a relationship, and don't want to write very much. take the time to do it anyway, for it is a reflection back on you, and don't you want to attract like minds? you are constantly learning on this site, and finding out more what you want from a person, don't you want them to realize it? i think so, for you are trying to find out.... but you already know you can do it.....don't you.... you like reading more, rather than less about the people that you see on here, for it entices you....well, entice them, and give something for them to think about.

check out some of the people with higher posting numbers and check out their profiles, and see what they're doing, then use your own creativity to make one that is truly uniquely you. you want what's best for you, so show them that you are the best in return. learn from everyone here, and wisdom will come in great gulps, instead of little sips......good luck on here

How to get ladies interested:

everything matters, what he says, what he does, if he's respectful, how he carries himself, how confident he is, how his hygiene is, and smells good. what effort he makes to look the best he can. mystery does play a role into it, but not games. always tell the truth, and don't suck up, but be a friend, be strong, be romantic, but not sappy, and keep things interesting always, but appropriate for the occasion, not too many suprizes, and relax, be easy-going, and be the best of who you can be without ego problems, and always work on being comfortable with who you are.... not advice by any means, but a fraction of humbling life experience, if one may.......good luck! it takes a lifetime to perfect, and by the time you're ready, you're too old!!! have fun!!!

I'm all yours...have your way with me!!!!

You were spot on right up until you said "be a friend." I warn you now, and you don't get to my age without finding this out the hard way, if they start thinking of you as "a good friend" that is all you will ever be. You can empathize, you can relate, you can care, show compassion, but you cannot be a womans friend and still hope to have a romantic relationship at a later time.

I don't care what barrage of "not true" follows this post, I know from experience and that never lies. To a woman friendship is a sign of weakness in a man, and as D.O. said above you need to appear strong.

well, i can't do that, for i'm taken, but i'd gladly and humbly accept your friendship with high honor! (bows respectively)

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww words of wisdom will get you every where

I know that, I read your profile I just liked what you wrote.

Ok, so tell me, what do you do for a woman?


What do you have to offer?


And..


How are you putting yourself out there?


Are you approaching women online?


Are you approaching women in real life?

You were spot on right up until you said "be a friend." I warn you now, and you don't get to my age without finding this out the hard way, if they start thinking of you as "a good friend" that is all you will ever be. You can empathize, you can relate, you can care, show compassion, but you cannot be a womans friend and still hope to have a romantic relationship at a later time.
I don't care what barrage of "not true" follows this post, I know from experience and that never lies. To a woman friendship is a sign of weakness in a man, and as D.O. said above you need to appear strong.


answer:


i'm not looked at as weak at all....i'm friends to all first, and it has to be equal with no male or female trump cards from either parties...i know of what you are speaking of....but if you have enough mystery, and aren't a SAP, you'll always continue to keep people of both sexes interested and intrigued, with respect and strength from your inner self(harder than it looks when you're in love for sure!) you'll have that extra..."IT" and be a best friend to boot....

this was a post i did awhile back......

i think if you are just yourself......one, the "nice guy" image doesn't apply, because you are behaving in regular terms, how people are behaving to you, and if they behave badly to you, you have to decide how to act. you can change this, by putting their very behavior back in their court, and not lose face with anyone, by diverting the scenario back to their diotribe or rant, such as" wow, you're really having a time of it! if i can help you to get your day to be more positive, well, let me help", and they will respect you, and that includes handsome or pretty parties of both sexes, whether they are bottom-wipes or not, for you weren't nice or mean...just truthful. it will get you respect, and maybe a friend....
these guys you speak of......
being a tough guy to "get chicks" gets you no-where, and usually the wrong "chick" anyway. to get the attention of the right one, back-up your talk, listen, and be a man of action to back up your talk with quiet positive methods to get your respect that you so much seem to desire.

"tough guys" i've seen a dime a dozen, and they'll leave the woman hanging everytime when the road gets rough...a STRONG GUY, how-ever, will be there to see whatever it is to the end, and respect will follow, and never does he have to act like a jerk. He's a man's man, and a gentle ladie's man as well.

"tough guys" run from STRONG GUYS. unless they have a way to shoot them in the back......but if they do that,,, STRONG GUYS have friends......

so..........................be a strong guy