Does noone pursue love and long lasting marriage? Kids and a stable relationship and family life? What are you alive for?

Ummm...to make dudes like you wonder what is wrong with people?? lol

some people do and some don't, none of that appeals to me, but keep waiting soon there will be tons of people in here who agree with you.

I can't speak for the rest of them, but that's what I'm looking for and once thought I had.

This type of family you describe is becoming more myth than reality this day & age

I havent pursued love in a long time. I have a child, a stable relationsh*t would be good. What is family life??? I can only remember it.....from the early 70's.

I am alive.........to be. To see. To experience all that I can. If I find love, then great. If not......then I will still be me, no matter what.

They will put me away in a home for the hopelessly bewildered but I'm going to say it. The world hardly has any morality anymore. There is very little protocal. People live together and have babies and marriage is at the bottom of the list. There is no cohesiveness for a family to grow together through thick & thin. Someone acts up...they're out. Then the kids try to get used to a new adult/lover moving in and calling themself Mom or Dad. The kids have 2 homes but neither one of the homes are really home because there are now strange children in their homes that have been bred by the parents with their new Honey. Then the kids act screwy and they're taken for counseling or put on medication!

Your lives must be so shallower without the depth of love and family...I have fought my whole life for family and love...I do not try to force it but it is what I would love to one day have like my grandparents...! married for 62 years and the other 66 years...It brings a huge smile to my face o see them all happy and smiley and still so deep in love

Well not me.. been marrieddd... HAVE the child.

Stable relationship, suree. Thatll happen if it happens.

Im alive to be there for my child, and make a difference in peoples lives in my community.

Im alive to nutrure myself, and learn. Im here to teach others, and pass on the message of what keeps me inspired, and what skills and tools I have learned that have made me a better person.

Sometimes im here to save lives.


And sometimes Im just alive.. to enjoy a big glass of chocolate milk.

I agree but should people stay together if there is fighting? abuse? for the sake of the children???

idk but im still waiting

...and a peanut butter & jelly sandwich cut diagonally with potato chips tossed onto it.

you need to grow up.......first!!!! Go out and get married!!! See how long it lasts you......and then come to us with your IDEALS!!! Ive been married.....is that all there is to life???? I would rather find a life partner that I respect and who respects me than all that family/marriage crappola you just tried to ram down our throats!!! what a load of BS!

OOH gotta try that..

Thats funny you say peanut butter.. my brother brought me this odd peanut butter that was also chocolate, and banana.. interesting.

It was good for a one time thing. Id prefer to add that stuff myself if Im interested seperately, and REAL bananas.

My son and I eat burgers with the fries ON the sandwich. mmmm chips.. hmmm

I think if people would concentrate or train themselves not to be so self-centered there wouldn't be the fighting there is today. In my opinion, if a couple is not married there is little reason to put forth effort in the relationship. If I'm driving a rental car everyday I'm not going to wash it and wax if as if it was mine. Weird analogy but it's 2:20 A.M.

Yes well I was married and I wouldnt expose my child to that kind of abuse,,,,,,,for the sake of MARRIAGE!!! '''

mY Mistake......I know.....but not his!!!

LOL, I deleted the reply I had to this thread. It's not even worth a response. I'm going back to my "shallow life" now, everyone pity me....

It's like Goober Jelly? Where they put peanut butter and jelly together in a jar. It's just wrong. Not the way God intended. One time during Easter I saw in the store hard boiled eggs that were already decorated/colored. Aren't they missing the point? Night night.

ah, never want to endure that again.

Ya shell out the money for the rediculous wedding. Ya play the "virgin star" (actually I just went to the court myself)

But. then ya go through with the long awaited thing.. to find..


You are the to same people.. with the same choices,, in the exact same situation. Oh.. with a neat certificate with an imprint.

No magic.

But NOW your magicly binded financially, and legally.. weeeeeee!

You are anything but shallow! No fair deleting. Put it out there.

AH Goober grape is the ony kind ill eat.. my son likes jiffy though.

yes, takes all the fun of coloring eggs,.. unless your using them to lob at estranged family.