Heres a question.. why do you want to marry?

Do ya wanna marry to marry? Or do ya wanna marry cos its someone you love?

Cos right now.. your single, and dont have a partner.. am I right?

So.. you dont even HAVE someone to marry.


A nice relationship is nice to put on the wish list.. i think alot of people would want to be with the right person.. someone they could live with in their day to day life they get along with.


But, you dont have an idea yet of what said girl is going to be like.

Slow down, and wait for the one who MAY be marriage material, and then look at the road ahead together.

Thats a big step when YOUR IN the situation.. this is quite a projection here this post.

how about just having fun and learning about each other then going for a committed relationship first?

this right here is the answer to said ops question..but the words you're seeing above are not the answer...

mull that over, and if u need anything else, ill be here til i pass out

thank you.

lol...I do have an idea of what I would like and what I should have..I had it once and it was wonderfull...I could have died an d been a happy man but since I am here and she is not I have to press forward and maybe I could find it again..I have loved since her and I have had good thigs bt nothing like what me and her had...She was open to the good life idea though and most women are only open to the freedom and find love at the absolute laest time possible life..I can use up all of them and they can do the same to me but that is not what I want...Sorry if my hope is a downer to you

Yes, and hallmark cards are cool too.


Your assumptions, and quick judgement once again show your not even ready to approach this.

And some could ask you.. so.. why arent YOU married now???


I never said I have a problem with marriage.. I said its not for me.

Very clear.. very plain and simple.

Ive KNOWN people who were married 1000 years, and are old, and still are married.

Im just not into it. Jeebus! Wheres the fire? Wanting to rush this a red flag.

get a picture where we cant see her face

listen, you affect me in no way.

You dont know if she would have still been around if that would have worked out, and even life has told you it wasnt meant to be.

Im sorry to tell you, youll never have that again, but you may just find something different worthwhile. Marrying the person, not , whatever.

I detect a lack of hope. The OP is asking does anyone want this?


Anyway.. good luck with all of that. Ill be enjoying what is.

k sorry et

does noone pursue love and long lasting marriage?: we pursue love and long lasting marriage is what happens when we find love.

kids? that usually happens somewhere between love and a marriage.

stable relationship? if you're lucky somewhere between love and marriage and kids.


and I am alive for earthyt

bwahahhahaaha! you so siwwy!

I am aware of the fact thats what you persue, I dont have a problem with that, im not here to convert the masses, but hey dont knock me cos I dont want it, or anyone else for that matter.

everyone wants to be loved et....just some people get hurt so much that they get scared

i went thru a period in my life, bout 3 years...when i thought my heart was empty...and i could look inside and i really meant it

that was the billysuvol you guys knew

im sure they do.

all of us have longed for something.. allthough.. not the healthiest thing. I find doing me, and living my life until I meet someone thats cool is what works.

I love love, and that can go without saying.

I just prefer to have it without marriage. Thats all.

The buddhists believe that wanting brings suffering.

That I know is true.

So I try my best to just do. put plans into affect. Using less of my time to long, or expect.

We need to experience the wonderful lessons that come along the way.

And.. the right things happen in time. I think we also attract what is on the same vibe as we put out. But we can want, and be attracting two different things.

When the student is ready, the teacher appears.

Life is the teacher often, and when we are ready, it will happen. But not a moment sooner.

i usually have something witty to say to everything et. i am the verbose guy.

but, wow.

that was good. and i will not say "i agree with you" bc that would only be insulting. however my views, are not much different. I just like to cover them up by generalizing because I dont have the courage to do what you just did

"wanting brings suffering"...wow...

"when the student is ready...the teacher appears"...wow

"I love love..and that can go without saying..." You are above the whole concept and ideal of what we are talking about...wow

I am speechless

To bother people like you.

haha.. well your ok in my book, everyone most certainly does not have to adopt my views.

I know what works for me, but I hate to see anyone have a hard time with something.

I wish there were more people who were sensitive, and willing to teach me when I needed it growing up. BUT in going through time, and trying to learn as much as possible about people, by talking to them, and hearing their experiences, really made it easier.


It gives me hope to know there are others that go through the same crap, and know everyone is not perfect.

ANYway, most of what I have learned has been from experiencing it, so Im not as presumptious as to talk about things I know nothing about.

Talk about longing. I watched my husband be killed in a car accident when I was 20 right in front of me.

Lonnnngeddddddd for 10 years about that. I have grown my way out of misery. I hope I can help the next person to as well. Im talking about stuff it took ME 10 years to fully recover from without anyones help. LOL.

ah! your awesome! Im getting diabetes your so sweet. LOL.

Hey, I havent met a guy I want to settle down with even without marriage, but ive learned a thing or two along the way.

I see......

Gotcha...

Well, you're cool in my book too

and so are you Billy, thanks for stopping by

Yodas not available.

hes probably married.