I hope I don't suck? Most guys just don't know what they really want. They miss out on all the great ones.

I know someone on here who traveled from the USA all the way to Canada (drove) just to meet the person he had been chatting to online only to have her get up and walk away after only speaking to him for 30 minutes. He was well ticked off that he did not get to finish his coffee!

I have noticed that alot of people think that anything over 150 to 200 miles is...."far away"......Jeez, 400 miles is only 7 to 8 hours of driving. People go to work for an 8 hour day at a job they hate, but won't drive a stinking 7 or 8 hours to meet a person that could be a possible life changing moment....I don't get it. In todays world, we are so into the distance thing, because we seldom leave the confines of the chair that we sit in to do this cyber thing......Sowwey, the distance thing just bugs the Bajesus out of me. If you meet someone that you think may be the one.....Get on yer mean motorscooter,..."and ride"

Wow that's just wrong.. But I liked the coffee part.

that's hilarious. i guess next time he should lay off the photoshop when showing his pics.

i like your viewpoint...and it is a great point....

I can't imagine anyone ever being that important, but to each their own.

Very well put good sir.

That's what the lady in question said when I spoke to her after the event!!! She claimed he looked NOTHING like his profile pics.

Pffffft! P2 drove from Rhode Island, Michigan & Colorado to see me for 3 separate visits...*flutters eyelashes*

pfffft! ha ha ha ha that poor guy! lol.. dumbass.

me either,besides who wants to do all that driving every time u may want to see them

lemme tell ya, thats a wonderful attitude. My sexy guy just dissed me cos he had to drive an hour and a half.. From Arlington, to 50 miles south of Dallas.

I married someone that lived in England, big fat pig of a man, very abusive... didnt have a SIGN at ALL that he was that way.. we were ld for a year before marriage.

So I feel, people reallly need to get to know someone ALOT in person.. i mean a long stay or vacation, and plenty of them, and then some if its going to be quite a distance. So, couple sides there. If its a really long distance, i thikn people should see eachother as much as possible.

I said I can't imagine anyone ever being that important to ME, not to anyone else. I don't criticize other people for being willing to be in LDR's, or for being willing to relocate or whatever it takes to get with the person they're interested in, but I'M not interested in doing that, that's the beauty of choice. Not everyone thinks the same, thank god....

yeah i tried that a long time ago, it doesn't work. he met someone else, it was just pathetic, never again.

I think some don't make the trip BECAUSE they might like them. Then they're driving 8 hours every couple of weeks.

I would have to buy a plane ticket to see my man. That won't happen until next year though. I'm on the East coast...he's on the West coast. No way in the world would I drive from South Carolina to California. But, I am considering relocating, and I have lived in California before. Don't mind going back.

people want everything their heart desires
but
it must be on their street
if i find a connection or a possible life partner, i would meet her wherever she may be, if its on, its on. cross the bridges as you get to them. but as calleigh stated, thats just me

Moved around the USA and it seems like this is a common problem. For and open culture men and women are still very segregated.

really? *bats eyelashes*