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Topic: ok, guys, what am i doing wrong?
Ruth34611's photo
Sun 08/23/09 08:28 PM

yeah, i thought it might be the kid thing, but i'm not really interested in guys without kids (just the HUGE difference in lifestyles), so I'd think guys with kids wouldn't mind that I have kids....

any opinions on that?


Having young children is a major drawback in attracting men. However, look at it this way....it weeds out a lot of the guys you wouldn't want to date anyway. bigsmile

BryanYChong's photo
Sun 08/23/09 08:33 PM
Yeah... definately post more pictures. You are very attractive, and seeing more of you in environments you enjoy most will spark interest for sure. I almost didnt want to talk to some one just because she said "dont worry, I bathe and shave my armpits." (scary), but after seeing more pictures of her in the environment she enjoyed being in, I was compelled to read what else she had to say, and she seems perfect for me. I had to say "Hi".

bizeecat79's photo
Mon 08/24/09 03:58 PM
Ruth, i like the way you think....i'm sort of on the same page as you.

and as far as the pics go....i'm a bit curvy and 'stacked' and i try not to show any pics that show all of me because inevitably only guys looking for a hook-up contact me and get pissy that i'm not a horny slut. grrrr....i hate that!

guitarplayer007's photo
Mon 08/24/09 04:05 PM
Edited by guitarplayer007 on Mon 08/24/09 04:09 PM
I think you should just say you have kids, but don't mention 3 yet.
Good luck
Ken

swingtyme's photo
Mon 08/24/09 04:53 PM
Edited by swingtyme on Mon 08/24/09 04:54 PM
sorry wrong spot

BryanYChong's photo
Mon 08/24/09 06:22 PM

Ruth, i like the way you think....i'm sort of on the same page as you.

and as far as the pics go....i'm a bit curvy and 'stacked' and i try not to show any pics that show all of me because inevitably only guys looking for a hook-up contact me and get pissy that i'm not a horny slut. grrrr....i hate that!


How about a pic that shows you are curvy and chesty with all of your children in it. Whats important that you create a spark in your best interest. Tell the community this is what I got, a rockin hot bod and children, cant have one or the other. Your in control.

no photo
Mon 08/24/09 08:40 PM
You are smiling in all your pics, thats a good point, but you don't say much what you would like in a partner.
Tell us about the things you would like to do with a friend or on a date.

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