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Are looks important even if the person has a good heart, and could be your perfect match, would you turn them down if they looked bad?
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for me i don't think so good character matters than beauty
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I do believe inner beauty is THE most important thing, but unfortunatley, most people tend to look on the outside of one another to determine if he/she is compatible with them. Hence u have a hell of alot of doomed relationships from the beginning. It is a good thing to be sexually or physically attracted to who ur with, otherwise what is the point?
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Physical attraction does come into play but ask yourself when your old wrinkled and the looks are gone. Who do you want by yourside? Someone who used to look like a model or someone you could always talk to?
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I do believe inner beauty is THE most important thing, but unfortunatley, most people tend to look on the outside of one another to determine if he/she is compatible with them. Hence u have a hell of alot of doomed relationships from the beginning. It is a good thing to be sexually or physically attracted to who ur with, otherwise what is the point? exactly |
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if appearance wasn,t one of the most important factors why do dating sites advise you to post a photo? and how many profiles do you reply to that don't have one?:
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Truer words have never been spoken
I do believe inner beauty is THE most important thing, but unfortunatley, most people tend to look on the outside of one another to determine if he/she is compatible with them. Hence u have a hell of alot of doomed relationships from the beginning. It is a good thing to be sexually or physically attracted to who ur with, otherwise what is the point? |
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It's not what's on the outside that matters. It's what comes from within that counts.
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while i woudn't ever date someone who i thought was ugly, i do believe - for me anyway - that attraction begins with the emotional and as i fall for him, the physical grows and deepens and once i am in love, he is always the most beautiful man in the world.
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Ya know
I thought my ex was beautiful at one time Now I look at him and I'm like "what did I see in him?" And I always wonder What if I was blind!! I think then I would be able to "sense" true beauty in a person |
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Some attraction is necessary, but I also believe that the more attracted you are to who the person is, the more attracted you become to what they look like. If the container is pretty but empty, where is the satisfaction in that?
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I have tried a relationship based on looks only,. It doesn't take long to figure out it's not going to work. I believe there has to be a attraction to whats inside. I will never date on looks only again. The pretty wrapping is nice but when it's open, if the box is empty it's disappointing. JMO
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yes and yes. just being honest.
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Ya know I thought my ex was beautiful at one time Now I look at him and I'm like "what did I see in him?" And I always wonder What if I was blind!! I think then I would be able to "sense" true beauty in a person haha i feel the same way about ALL of them! |
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if appearance wasn,t one of the most important factors why do dating sites advise you to post a photo? and how many profiles do you reply to that don't have one?: for me there is a rule on these sites if no flash you're in the trash |
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FOr me it is very low on the list. Some studies show a person forms an option of someone within 10 seconds and it is ushall wrong. SOmeone whoo seems like a duch might be a big softie, while on the other sprectrum a person who seems nice could be a big dick. I personall for options only afrt talking with some one for awile.
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For meeting online, yes.
If I were to get to know someone in real life, not so much. |
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Edited by
Ladylid2012
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Mon 08/24/09 08:45 PM
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I'm holding out for both.. what?? I can have both.
edit to add here..looks being what I find attractive, and that could be just about anything. |
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Are looks important even if the person has a good heart, and could be your perfect match, would you turn them down if they looked bad? Everyone is different, some people yes...others no, I really fail to see the point in these threads anymore... |
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I must admit I won't date a woman I find unattractive. I won't even have a ONS with her. It's been my experance that attractive women are MUCH easier to get along with.
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