Topic: i have no idea why ist so hard to find a good guy
MiyaL's photo
Wed 08/19/09 03:58 PM
Edited by MiyaL on Wed 08/19/09 03:58 PM
so i just joined this site today and i have no idea what im doing. im young and ive heard people ask me before why do i try this method. and honestly i have no idea why its so difficult to come across a good guy. ive got so much going on in my life i work im in school to be a nurse ive got alot going for me. i can honestly say im a nice girl just trying to find that nice guy. i have friends that have either thrown their life away had kids or either just given i have goals i know what i want out of life i just want a good guy who has goals and will respect me maybe im trying all the wrong idk we.ll see how this works. i dont attract the nicest guys at all so i hope i get a good one :)

FindMe1113's photo
Wed 08/19/09 04:00 PM
Hello Miya and Welcome to Mingle2...Good Luck in your searchflowerforyou waving

Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 08/19/09 04:02 PM
Welcome


Tammy:heart:

Ladylid2012's photo
Wed 08/19/09 04:02 PM
Hello and welcome :smile:

no photo
Wed 08/19/09 04:04 PM
Hello and welcomedrinker Good luck

bgeorge's photo
Wed 08/19/09 04:05 PM
hey and welcome...bflowerforyou

the_ONE_FOR_YOU_2's photo
Wed 08/19/09 04:07 PM

so i just joined this site today and i have no idea what im doing. im young and ive heard people ask me before why do i try this method. and honestly i have no idea why its so difficult to come across a good guy. ive got so much going on in my life i work im in school to be a nurse ive got alot going for me. i can honestly say im a nice girl just trying to find that nice guy. i have friends that have either thrown their life away had kids or either just given i have goals i know what i want out of life i just want a good guy who has goals and will respect me maybe im trying all the wrong idk we.ll see how this works. i dont attract the nicest guys at all so i hope i get a good one :)


I think its obvious...

AndyBgood's photo
Wed 08/19/09 04:09 PM
Watch out for dogs and scammers. They are everywhere. Be patient and always meet at a neutral location that is public first. Take your time and feel people out.

PATIENCE PATIENCE PATIENCE!


Otherwise good luck and welcome to our confusion! Well, I was just kidding about the confusion part. Yes good guys are out there, ya just gotta find them!


Also don't be afraid to be the first to speak up. I still do not see why us guys have to make the first move all the time! Everywhere else women do but LA County for some reason...

Go figure!

Have fun!!!:banana:

Ladylid2012's photo
Wed 08/19/09 04:12 PM


so i just joined this site today and i have no idea what im doing. im young and ive heard people ask me before why do i try this method. and honestly i have no idea why its so difficult to come across a good guy. ive got so much going on in my life i work im in school to be a nurse ive got alot going for me. i can honestly say im a nice girl just trying to find that nice guy. i have friends that have either thrown their life away had kids or either just given i have goals i know what i want out of life i just want a good guy who has goals and will respect me maybe im trying all the wrong idk we.ll see how this works. i dont attract the nicest guys at all so i hope i get a good one :)


I think its obvious...


maybe remove that last line...or at least the first half flowers

Jtevans's photo
Wed 08/19/09 04:14 PM
Howdy and Welcome flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

chickayoshi's photo
Wed 08/19/09 04:18 PM
Welcome to the wonderful world wide web of dating/finding friends. Hope you find what you are looking for.

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Wed 08/19/09 04:19 PM
hi and good luck

IchBinGebrochen's photo
Wed 08/19/09 04:21 PM
Welcome to mingle and good luck with your search.



Most peoples problem when it comes to looking for a signifigant other is they tend to put physical attraction at the top of the list, making everything else maybe not irrelivant, but you tell yourself "I can live with this quality in someone and change him/her. He/She's soo cute" People dont change. some people would like to change, some may even need to change, but the only reason people change at all is to keep things the same. Time ultimately determines.

bumboclaatjones's photo
Wed 08/19/09 05:22 PM
You probably can't find nice guys because there are no such things. Lol, although that's according to my ex, so take it with a grain of salt (hell, take it with a whole shaker of salt)

Irish23468's photo
Wed 08/19/09 06:15 PM
Oh, I see what your problem is. You still believe in that myth that nice guys exist.

There aren't any nice guys, there's bad guys and nicer bad guys.

If you want a nice guy take the nicer bad guy and bring him around the bad guys. He'll seem like a saint then.

Good luck.

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 08/19/09 06:27 PM
smokin Only you can prevent forest firessmokin

designtan's photo
Wed 08/19/09 08:06 PM
Well...to start things off. I don't believe that having children is throwing your life away. I have three myself and I am quite content in my life. and i personaly have met and am dating an absolutely wonderful man. So yes there are nice guys out there. But most of the nice ones want a woman with respect and integrity and a little class. If you want some advice. I would say...start looking at how you may be precieved by men and then do something to change if need be. most people think that the problems are often the other persons fault. but only YOU are in charge of you....thats my advice.

lnghntr's photo
Wed 08/19/09 08:07 PM
pretty dang cute...doubt if you have any problems