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I always wonder why I have to come on these sites hoping to find someone who will treat me right and appreciate me. I work and go to school. I'm not controlling. I do anything possible. I massage a guys back buy them stuff when they dont even ask. Call n say good night and good morning. And yet i havent found anyone good for me. I always get cheated on or treated like **** and im tired of it i just want someone whos going to be there when i need them. and wont be n a relationship for the sex. idk maybe im crazy.
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you're not crazy. most people want what you want, it's hard for many people to find it. i wish you luck though.
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Doormat syndrome.........
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You're trying too hard. |
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Your pretty and 18, you shouldnt be on a dateing site :O
Move to MN :D |
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Hello and welcome to Mingle
You are not crazy!! If you read the posts and threads here you will find many people with the same complaints. I think it is a very long searching process to find someone that is the one for you. |
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Hello and welcome to Mingle You are not crazy!! If you read the posts and threads here you will find many people with the same complaints. I think it is a very long searching process to find someone that is the one for you. I think it was just last week I was whining about the same thing.. lol it just sucks to be single, and i love how all my friends that are with someone are like "Dude, its better to be single!" then why are you with your gf/bf? gtfo |
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could be the type of guy you go for maybe?
your working and going to school trying to better yourself which is awesome! i think if you relax and not try so worry so much about "why" or if anything is wrong with you.cuz there is not anything wrong wit you. dating isn't easily if it was so marry people would have someone and dating sites would be pointless.just be strong and dont settle. |
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Doormat syndrome......... Gypsy's right....some young guys tend to look at girls like you as a doormat and they will treat you like crap. Enjoy life but don't give them everything....let them treat you to special things, not the other way around. But welcome to Mingle. We have some good guys here (they hate being called NICE guys lol) |
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I always wonder why I have to come on these sites hoping to find someone who will treat me right and appreciate me. I work and go to school. I'm not controlling. I do anything possible. I massage a guys back buy them stuff when they dont even ask. Call n say good night and good morning. And yet i havent found anyone good for me. I always get cheated on or treated like **** and im tired of it i just want someone whos going to be there when i need them. and wont be n a relationship for the sex. idk maybe im crazy. hell you've still got 11 years before you're in my position |
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take some you time. find out who you are. I know at 18 i thought i had it all figured out. i see now i was way off. Don't run and jump into a relationship just to be in one. hold off for 6 months on sex. amazing how much of the things that you will see if you haven't slept with them. once you sleep with someone you overlook a lot of red flags.
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I always wonder why I have to come on these sites hoping to find someone who will treat me right and appreciate me. I work and go to school. I'm not controlling. I do anything possible. I massage a guys back buy them stuff when they dont even ask. Call n say good night and good morning. And yet i havent found anyone good for me. I always get cheated on or treated like **** and im tired of it i just want someone whos going to be there when i need them. and wont be n a relationship for the sex. idk maybe im crazy. hell you've still got 11 years before you're in my position you told me you liked it when i put you in that position... |
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lol girlfriend you need some ATTITUDE!!!
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is this a nice guy thread?.....i hate bizarro world....im out
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lol girlfriend you need some ATTITUDE!!! Gypsys attitude clas 101 ow taking new students! |
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is this a nice guy thread?.....i hate bizarro world....im out it's a nice girl thread |
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lol girlfriend you need some ATTITUDE!!! Gypsys attitude clas 101 ow taking new students! |
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lol thanx everyone. i just dont know what to do really. i hate seeing friends with their b/fs n then me being single and alone. basically the 3rd wheel
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lol girlfriend you need some ATTITUDE!!! Gypsys attitude clas 101 ow taking new students! "sence i started taking gypsys class of attitude i realize i want to be single, then be with someone and spineless..i graduate next week..with honors" |
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lol girlfriend you need some ATTITUDE!!! Gypsys attitude clas 101 ow taking new students! "sence i started taking gypsys class of attitude i realize i want to be single, then be with someone and spineless..i graduate next week..with honors" |
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