Topic: So I finally agree to a first meeting..
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Wed 08/12/09 12:49 PM
Thats a shameflowerforyou maybe he lost his bottle.Hope you have better luck next:smile: dont give up Lorriflowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 08/12/09 12:49 PM
flowerforyou Maybe this is a good thing.flowerforyou This guy don't sound very brightflowerforyou

writer_gurl's photo
Wed 08/12/09 12:50 PM
He sounds like he really wasn't into it and made the first excuse that entered his mind...He is a loser and you should forget him

oldsage's photo
Wed 08/12/09 12:52 PM
Def. NOT a gentleman.
You deserve MUCH better.

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 08/12/09 12:52 PM

He sounds like he really wasn't into it and made the first excuse that entered his mind...He is a loser and you should forget him
:smile: Yeah, thats what I think.:smile: This guy is just making stuff up:smile:

John1932's photo
Wed 08/12/09 12:52 PM
Maybe he saw you and said, "Oh my, she is like a beautiful angel, and I'm a worthless slug, she has kids and I am married, I can't hurt this perfection of life, she is better off without me."

You never know...

Ladylid2012's photo
Wed 08/12/09 12:54 PM

He sounds like he really wasn't into it and made the first excuse that entered his mind...He is a loser and you should forget him


He bought it up..I really wasn't into meeting so fast...

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 08/12/09 12:56 PM


He sounds like he really wasn't into it and made the first excuse that entered his mind...He is a loser and you should forget him


He bought it up..I really wasn't into meeting so fast...
flowerforyou He probably got scared because you are so prettyflowerforyou

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Wed 08/12/09 12:57 PM
for me i think the guy is never serious bcos if he is even if you came along with your husband or who ever he would have keep the appointment but i suggest keep your head up and move ahead with life cos every disappointment is a blessing

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Wed 08/12/09 12:58 PM
for me i think the guy is never serious bcos if he is even if you came along with your husband or who ever he would have keep the appointment but i suggest keep your head up and move ahead with life cos every disappointment is a blessing

Ladylid2012's photo
Wed 08/12/09 01:00 PM
Thank you all.. I guess I just need to know that it was very strange and not just all in my mind.... your right, I'm a keeper! flowers

I have had much bigger disappointments in my life than this.. that is for sure.

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 08/12/09 01:01 PM
huh So this guy was able to see you but you couldnt see him?huhThats kind of freakyscared

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Wed 08/12/09 01:03 PM



He sounds like he really wasn't into it and made the first excuse that entered his mind...He is a loser and you should forget him


He bought it up..I really wasn't into meeting so fast...
flowerforyou He probably got scared because you are so prettyflowerforyou



Awwww thanks mirror flowerforyou

John1932's photo
Wed 08/12/09 01:04 PM

huh So this guy was able to see you but you couldnt see him?huhThats kind of freakyscared


Yea, that is just too weird

Ladylid2012's photo
Wed 08/12/09 01:05 PM

huh So this guy was able to see you but you couldnt see him?huhThats kind of freakyscared


I don't think he did see me, I think if he saw anything it was someone else.. I never saw his truck, or he told me a different vehicle than he actually drove up there...

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 08/12/09 01:08 PM


huh So this guy was able to see you but you couldnt see him?huhThats kind of freakyscared


Yea, that is just too weird


scared Yeah,like this guy was hiding somewhere with binoculars or a night vision scope.scared

tngxl65's photo
Wed 08/12/09 01:08 PM
Not that I would suggest violating the terms of service agreement with mingle, but you could create a new ID and email him from that. However he has already shown himself to be flakey. I think you're better off letting it go.

I am curious if you told him you'd be bringing company. I'd have been ok with that, but I wouldn't have wanted to be surprised by it.

The fact that he wasn't there waiting for you... more like 'watching from afar' is unsettling. In any any initial meeting I would go out of my way to make sure that they felt safe, that it was out in the open, and, if possible, around people. This guy sounds like he wanted to size you up first. I think it's a good thing you weren't alone. 'Creepy'.


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Wed 08/12/09 01:08 PM

And it is total wash... didn't go well!
There are very few men in my area, most bore me and I have had some email communication with someone here that actually peaked my interest a bit. We decide to meet at his request at a park up the canyon to watch the meteor shower. I have my 18 year old son and one of his friends with me, so I figure this is a safe fun thing to do. We agree to meet around midnight-ish. So I'm running behind and get up there about 12:15, I look for his truck, don't see it.. go up the road to 2 more parks thinking maybe some confusion on which park. Never saw the described truck so I find a spot and the kids and I throw down blankets and watch the sky. I come home about 2:45 and have an email that says.. "I saw the white chevy, saw the kids, saw you, married, blocked"

I'm a bit confused on what he thinks he saw..
I am the most single person I know, haven't even been on a date in over a year, divorced ten years ago. Was he a no show? Could he have seen a family that he thought was me and mine? Strange.. Is he just a flake?
Any input here??


That is so rude. You agree to meet him at night and he drives right past you.

I wonder what would have happened if you didn't bring your son and his friend - midnight/at a park.

I'm sorry.flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 08/12/09 01:09 PM


huh So this guy was able to see you but you couldnt see him?huhThats kind of freakyscared


I don't think he did see me, I think if he saw anything it was someone else.. I never saw his truck, or he told me a different vehicle than he actually drove up there...


:smile: Did you already tell him what vehicle you were going to be in?:smile: Maybe he didnt go at all but just lied and said he did.:smile:

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Wed 08/12/09 01:11 PM
Sorry honey. Definately his loss...flowers