Wink, its NOT that YOU attract bad people, its that YOU ARE ATTRACTED to the kind of people who have used you!
So there's your FLAG,,if ANYONE you meet reminds you of one who has used you in the past,,,,,,,RUN,,,move on,and don't think twice about it..Form a habit of being careful as to who YOU allow in your circle. Always be your giving self,wink,have a limit to what you give...
Lets say I loan someone some money,,well a year has passed and they never paid that back,,then I run into them again, and they hit me up for some money,,,NOPE,,ain't gonna happen,and I will remind them of a short loan I gave them a year earlier,wink,,THAT does not make ME feel bad at all,,
I WILL HELP ANYBODY, even a STRANGER, if I can,,BUT I WILL NOT LET someone USE ME, if I can help from it...
Many relationships START with sharing a place with their other, then in a short time period the OTHER, falls short on whatever was agreed to for them to DO,PAY,HELP,ect.. at that place they are sharing..
Talked to MORE than I can count on here who have DONE THIS...
THEN, they split, and HATE each other,,drama,drama,drama,
Life is really SHORT,,,live it to be kind, but not to TRY AND BE TO KIND...Thats ABUSE....and ITS YOU DOING IT TO YOURSELF...wink,
Good luck and keep up on all your smiles,,wink