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Topic: I need feedback
FeelMyHeart's photo
Thu 07/30/09 08:28 PM
It depends on what your looking for. The great thing about meeting online is how much control "you do have" with other people. The down side is the honesty factor on both sides. All you can do is be honest, be yourself and be patient. Everyone out there has things about themself they are not happy with. Just take the time to get to know people and keep an open mind. And when swimming in the ocean, always beware of sharks. <wink wink> There might be a reason someone wants to rush. Don't be bait. I hope it works great for you.

JasmineInglewood's photo
Thu 07/30/09 08:28 PM

Wow great feedback thank you, this is my first day of experimenting with the forums, and I kinda dig it. Especially the ostrich =)


she's an EMU!! grumble

















tongue2


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Thu 07/30/09 08:30 PM


MINGLE = 13 girls and like 98475095 guys


i :heart: gay men bigsmile


me too!!!love

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Thu 07/30/09 08:31 PM

and 90 percent of the dudes are in S&D right now posting how they wouldnt grab the a$s of the person above them

laugh

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Thu 07/30/09 08:31 PM


Hello and welcome.flowerforyou I think if you post alot in the forums you will develop a better sense about how mingle works. You can read some of the old forums which deal with the same question you are asking.

Atlantis75's photo
Thu 07/30/09 08:31 PM


Wow great feedback thank you, this is my first day of experimenting with the forums, and I kinda dig it. Especially the ostrich =)


she's an EMU!! grumble
tongue2




Oops sorry, I didn't notice your reply first..sorry..I couldn't tell whether or not that EMU is a female, and i skipped over the name. :smile: flowerforyou

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Thu 07/30/09 08:32 PM
Exactly, thats where im trying to come from here, because i've met girls before outside of the mingle world, and its seemed to go alot slower, sometimes in a good fashion but other times too slow. But here online, you actually get the chance to get to know someone a little, mainly just their thoughts though you dont get much personality out of their typing, although sarcasm is a sure show with a simple lol, but does that really tell you who a person is? Would it be better to see the actual laugh over dinner? I dunno I guess im just lost in the whole dating scene, maybe I just need to let things come to me instead of trying so hard.

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Thu 07/30/09 08:32 PM


Wow great feedback thank you, this is my first day of experimenting with the forums, and I kinda dig it. Especially the ostrich =)


she's an EMU!! grumble

















tongue2




awww she's a lovely emuflowerforyou

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Thu 07/30/09 08:33 PM

Exactly, thats where im trying to come from here, because i've met girls before outside of the mingle world, and its seemed to go alot slower, sometimes in a good fashion but other times too slow. But here online, you actually get the chance to get to know someone a little, mainly just their thoughts though you dont get much personality out of their typing, although sarcasm is a sure show with a simple lol, but does that really tell you who a person is? Would it be better to see the actual laugh over dinner? I dunno I guess im just lost in the whole dating scene, maybe I just need to let things come to me instead of trying so hard.


You can tell someone's personality from their typing.

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Thu 07/30/09 08:34 PM
Dude, I totally understand that, too. If you don't see their expression and their emotion, then you can't see if it's even genuine. In person is the best when talking with women.

JasmineInglewood's photo
Thu 07/30/09 08:34 PM



Wow great feedback thank you, this is my first day of experimenting with the forums, and I kinda dig it. Especially the ostrich =)


she's an EMU!! grumble
tongue2




Oops sorry, I didn't notice your reply first..sorry..I couldn't tell whether or not that EMU is a female, and i skipped over the name. :smile: flowerforyou


it's quite alright hon' smooched flowerforyou

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Thu 07/30/09 08:41 PM
Lol well excuse me, Emu. How do you go about gettin one of those bad boys? That would be so awesome. Just reminds me of dude wheres my car hah.

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Thu 07/30/09 08:43 PM

Lol well excuse me, Emu. How do you go about gettin one of those bad boys? That would be so awesome. Just reminds me of dude wheres my car hah.


huh

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Thu 07/30/09 08:45 PM


Exactly, thats where im trying to come from here, because i've met girls before outside of the mingle world, and its seemed to go alot slower, sometimes in a good fashion but other times too slow. But here online, you actually get the chance to get to know someone a little, mainly just their thoughts though you dont get much personality out of their typing, although sarcasm is a sure show with a simple lol, but does that really tell you who a person is? Would it be better to see the actual laugh over dinner? I dunno I guess im just lost in the whole dating scene, maybe I just need to let things come to me instead of trying so hard.


You can tell someone's personality from their typing.


Yeah I guess you can somewhat, but then sometimes getting to know someone online you might have a view in your mind on how the person will be when you meet them, and come to find out its not the person you thought it was even though it still might be a good thing ya know?

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Thu 07/30/09 08:46 PM



Exactly, thats where im trying to come from here, because i've met girls before outside of the mingle world, and its seemed to go alot slower, sometimes in a good fashion but other times too slow. But here online, you actually get the chance to get to know someone a little, mainly just their thoughts though you dont get much personality out of their typing, although sarcasm is a sure show with a simple lol, but does that really tell you who a person is? Would it be better to see the actual laugh over dinner? I dunno I guess im just lost in the whole dating scene, maybe I just need to let things come to me instead of trying so hard.


You can tell someone's personality from their typing.


Yeah I guess you can somewhat, but then sometimes getting to know someone online you might have a view in your mind on how the person will be when you meet them, and come to find out its not the person you thought it was even though it still might be a good thing ya know?


yeah i know, it's happened to me a few times.

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