It depends on what your looking for. The great thing about meeting online is how much control "you do have" with other people. The down side is the honesty factor on both sides. All you can do is be honest, be yourself and be patient. Everyone out there has things about themself they are not happy with. Just take the time to get to know people and keep an open mind. And when swimming in the ocean, always beware of sharks. <wink wink> There might be a reason someone wants to rush. Don't be bait. I hope it works great for you.