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Jasmine, I can hear the confusion... All I can do is share my story...7 years ago, I met a guy...and yes it was instant...for both of us. We spent almost 4 years together, we fought, we loved, we challenged each other on EVERYTHING. He moved away, I chose to stay... Did I love him? yes. Did he love me? yes. For almost 3 years we were apart...the one thing I had said prior to his leaving was..."When you are ready, come Home." About 5 months ago...he rang me, yes, we were still the best of mates....that's what love is.... anyways, he rang...and said..." I'm coming Home." We take time out within our relationship... I require some space from the dynamics of 'us'... so does he. Is a death knoll for the relationship? No, it's the opposite. Love doesn't have a limitation, love is the accepting of the individual needs of each person. Hope this helps a little... wow, that was beautifully said. and yes, it does help. alot. 
aww i like nice ppl. why can't i be nice like that? 
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Edited by
Jess642
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Wed 07/29/09 05:47 PM
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I suppose I wonder a bit about how other people view love...
Is it the mindset, of 'I love you, therefore you have to behave in a manner that fits my criteria of love'. Or is it respecting the individual needs? For me, it's respecting the individuality... and finding the same, reciprocated. I don't own him.... I love him...there's a difference. |
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aww i like nice ppl. why can't i be nice like that?
because you're loveable just as you are dammit 
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aww i like nice ppl. why can't i be nice like that?
because you're loveable just as you are dammit
kewl, so i don't need to be nice then? 
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aww i like nice ppl. why can't i be nice like that?
because you're loveable just as you are dammit
kewl, so i don't need to be nice then?
you better not be 
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Very well said Jess
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I suppose I wonder a bit about how other people view love... Is it the mindset, of 'I love you, therefore you have to behave in a manner that fits my criteria of love'. Or is it respecting the individual needs? For me, it's respecting the individuality... and finding the same, reciprocated. I don't own him.... I love him...there's a difference. i guess i saw it that way too 
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