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I'm new to all of this, but what I find weird is people say don't be offensive when you message me, or I'm looking for a good man or woman who doesn't play games and they have pictures of themselves half naked. I think it's wrong to send offensive messages of course, but you only set yourself up this way by advertising yourself with half naked pictures.
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also remember on an given day a women will likely get more emails than a mail. The more attractive she is the more she will receive. Amazing how many guys think they are all that. How many women out there see an email from some guy and laugh at the fact that he thinks he has a shot? LOL< that's true, that's why I just smile and sigh and move on to the next one... Theres are tons of guys with abs and no body fat, that will jump on them in a minute, so why would they give us the time of day. I will tell you why they should, cause the guys that can have any woman they want will do just that, take any woman they want, then take another one, then another one. Until the woman gets sick of the players game, we don't stand a cold chance in hell. Oh well, just keep on keeping on and smile and dance 
Ah, ah ah... I laugh at EVERY guy who's pic is JUST his naked chest, no matter HOW "nice" that chest is. Because obviously he's got issues. The guy who messages me with some semblance of IQ? Even if he has NO pic? I'll reply to that. Weather we end up dating or not is irrelevant to your question, which asked about getting messages back. Yea, I laugh at every woman that posts a pic of just her naked chest.. No matter how good that chest looks, its obvious she has issues. LOL yea that's a good point too. Where I am trying to go with this is the fact that women complain about being mistreated and played and yet they still run after that same type and don't give the real guys, whom they are begging for, a little fraction of a chance. I am not complaining, cause I don't want a woman like that, I am just making an observation. I don't mean to single women out, cause guys are the same way, they beg for these really good women but wont give them the time of day cause they are average or less in the looks department. It is sad really, but I understand that there also has to be an attraction to make love work. So it is kind of a catch 22 I guess. I don't know. Yes, there has to be attraction, but not all women are attracted to the same kind of man. Gimme a pic of a "traditional" hottie, and I can almost guarantee I won't be drooling over him. I just want guys to know that, while attraction is ESSENTIAL, it's not at ALL universal. |
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also remember on an given day a women will likely get more emails than a mail. The more attractive she is the more she will receive. Amazing how many guys think they are all that. How many women out there see an email from some guy and laugh at the fact that he thinks he has a shot? LOL< that's true, that's why I just smile and sigh and move on to the next one... Theres are tons of guys with abs and no body fat, that will jump on them in a minute, so why would they give us the time of day. I will tell you why they should, cause the guys that can have any woman they want will do just that, take any woman they want, then take another one, then another one. Until the woman gets sick of the players game, we don't stand a cold chance in hell. Oh well, just keep on keeping on and smile and dance
Ah, ah ah... I laugh at EVERY guy who's pic is JUST his naked chest, no matter HOW "nice" that chest is. Because obviously he's got issues. The guy who messages me with some semblance of IQ? Even if he has NO pic? I'll reply to that. Weather we end up dating or not is irrelevant to your question, which asked about getting messages back. Yea, I laugh at every woman that posts a pic of just her naked chest.. No matter how good that chest looks, its obvious she has issues. LOL yea that's a good point too. Where I am trying to go with this is the fact that women complain about being mistreated and played and yet they still run after that same type and don't give the real guys, whom they are begging for, a little fraction of a chance. I am not complaining, cause I don't want a woman like that, I am just making an observation. I don't mean to single women out, cause guys are the same way, they beg for these really good women but wont give them the time of day cause they are average or less in the looks department. It is sad really, but I understand that there also has to be an attraction to make love work. So it is kind of a catch 22 I guess. I don't know. Yes, there has to be attraction, but not all women are attracted to the same kind of man. Gimme a pic of a "traditional" hottie, and I can almost guarantee I won't be drooling over him. I just want guys to know that, while attraction is ESSENTIAL, it's not at ALL universal. Now that is so very true too. one may think a guy is a dog, while another may thing he is the bomb. I thought my wife was hot, and so did her boss and her ex husband. Just depends on the person, lol |
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It seems like lately any messages I send (and no not those types) to people are not responded back to. If one isn't interested fine, but at least tell me so. Still looking for my message from you.........  
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Ah, ah ah... I laugh at EVERY guy who's pic is JUST his naked chest, no matter HOW "nice" that chest is. Because obviously he's got issues. The guy who messages me with some semblance of IQ? Even if he has NO pic? I'll reply to that. Weather we end up dating or not is irrelevant to your question, which asked about getting messages back. This is a true statement. I have a pic of just my naked chest,and as you can tell by the pic, theres a good chance that I have some serious issues. One issue being that for some reason the room is dark. |
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Ah, ah ah... I laugh at EVERY guy who's pic is JUST his naked chest, no matter HOW "nice" that chest is. Because obviously he's got issues. The guy who messages me with some semblance of IQ? Even if he has NO pic? I'll reply to that. Weather we end up dating or not is irrelevant to your question, which asked about getting messages back. This is a true statement. I have a pic of just my naked chest,and as you can tell by the pic, theres a good chance that I have some serious issues. One issue being that for some reason the room is dark. It's also obvious you're being silly in your pic. The ones I'm talking about are the "look at my chest, aren't I hot?" ones. I was hoping that went without saying.
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Ah, ah ah... I laugh at EVERY guy who's pic is JUST his naked chest, no matter HOW "nice" that chest is. Because obviously he's got issues. The guy who messages me with some semblance of IQ? Even if he has NO pic? I'll reply to that. Weather we end up dating or not is irrelevant to your question, which asked about getting messages back. This is a true statement. I have a pic of just my naked chest,and as you can tell by the pic, theres a good chance that I have some serious issues. One issue being that for some reason the room is dark. It's also obvious you're being silly in your pic. The ones I'm talking about are the "look at my chest, aren't I hot?" ones. I was hoping that went without saying.
Soooo...you dont think my pic is hot? LOL!!!
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Edited by
northshore11
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Wed 07/29/09 09:28 AM
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It doesn't matter to me if I get a "no thanks" response or no response to an initial email. However if I had some email / phone conversations or went out on a few dates, then I think it would be polite for the other person to tell me that he is no longer interested. Since there was initial interest.
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It doesn't matter to me if I get a "no thanks" response or no response to an initial email. However if I had some email / phone conversations or went out on a few dates, then I think it would be polite for the other person to tell me that he is no longer interested. Since there was initial interest. You do raise a point here, as do some others. Better to find out no interest right off as opposed to later I suppose. Still kinda stings though a bit when one effectively turns you down. And yes I'm aware about people being busy too and all, but as I said before I generally know when a comment has been read and when it hasn't. |
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Edited by
JustAGuy2112
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Wed 07/29/09 11:12 AM
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Hey ladies....
One thing that I have seen around here that I haven't seen mentioned in this thread... Who among you HAVE emailed back a " Sorry, not interested " or a " Sorry, you aren't my type " and then immediately receive another email from that person that is full of insults, bad language, or something along those lines? I have seen a few women here say that if they are not interested, they won't respond because of the times they have gotten things like that. Can't say I blame them. * edited because I have fat fingers and can't type. Sheesh LOL |
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Edited by
northshore11
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Wed 07/29/09 10:41 AM
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Hey ladies.... One thing that I have seen around here that I haven't seen mentioned in this thread... Who among you NAVE emailed back a " Sorry, not interested " or a " Sorry, you aren't my type " and then immediately receive another email from that person that is full of insults, bad language, or something along those lines? I have seen a few women here say that if they are not interested, they won't respond because of the times they have gotten things like that. Can't say I blame them. That happened to me sometimes when I had used a different dating site. After a while I would politely say "I'm not interested". Then block them to prevent any potential "why not" messages or rude insults. |
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Hey ladies.... One thing that I have seen around here that I haven't seen mentioned in this thread... Who among you NAVE emailed back a " Sorry, not interested " or a " Sorry, you aren't my type " and then immediately receive another email from that person that is full of insults, bad language, or something along those lines? I have seen a few women here say that if they are not interested, they won't respond because of the times they have gotten things like that. Can't say I blame them.  
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Hey ladies.... One thing that I have seen around here that I haven't seen mentioned in this thread... Who among you HAVE emailed back a " Sorry, not interested " or a " Sorry, you aren't my type " and then immediately receive another email from that person that is full of insults, bad language, or something along those lines? I have seen a few women here say that if they are not interested, they won't respond because of the times they have gotten things like that. Can't say I blame them. * edited because I have fat fingers and can't type. Sheesh LOL Yup, that has happened to me a lot. |
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yes most people agree with you but guess what?? in the real internet world.. they don't have to.
the fact that they don't respond is a big fat flag that says "i'm not interested" so you move on. :) |
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yes most people agree with you but guess what?? in the real internet world.. they don't have to. the fact that they don't respond is a big fat flag that says "i'm not interested" so you move on. :) You never responded to my email!!! 
Oh! Ummm....I never sent one to you. Ummmm.....  
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Hey if you see unread deleted don't be disappointed, some users (.01%) get 100 new emails a day if they have a great picture up. People like that don't have time to read your message even if they wanted to.
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It seems like lately any messages I send (and no not those types) to people are not responded back to. If one isn't interested fine, but at least tell me so.  I get responses from all the forum people when I email them.
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Hey ladies.... One thing that I have seen around here that I haven't seen mentioned in this thread... Who among you HAVE emailed back a " Sorry, not interested " or a " Sorry, you aren't my type " and then immediately receive another email from that person that is full of insults, bad language, or something along those lines? I have seen a few women here say that if they are not interested, they won't respond because of the times they have gotten things like that. Can't say I blame them. * edited because I have fat fingers and can't type. Sheesh LOL uh duh.. remember that post i did about the dude who complimented me and i said thanks and then let him know that the age gap was too much for me? and then he offered to give me a Dr. Tran? (so to speak for those nerds who know what thats all about) ... yeah. that happens often man. people are jerks when things don't go their way. |
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Are these forum people that you folks are emailing or non-posting members? I hardly ever gotten many responses back from the non-posters but I always hear back from forum people
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This is true! Excellent observation Mirror ol' chap
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