Topic: Who changed the rules? | |
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I am a 30 something divorced female that is looking to get back into the dating scene.. The rules have changed and I need help..
At what point to you lay your cards out on the table about what you are looking for (casual or long term.. kids or no kids).. I know you dont on the 1st few dates but I dont want to play games and waste anyones time.. |
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Dating is not a waste of time.....I find it a very fulfilling use of it...
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I guess time would tell.
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I did not mean to imply that dating is a waste of time .. What I am refering to is do you want to spend 2 yrs with someone only to find out that you are not on the same page as far as anything longterm
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Would think those things would happen natural during normal conversation. Don't think you have to schedule or pencil them in anywhere.
As you get to know a person you know when the time is right good luck |
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I was dating someone for two months. We got along great, had everything in common, never argued and everything was perfect. So we had a discussion, it was mutual. And it just didn't work out and it didn't go the way everyone, including me thought it would.
There is no right or wrong time, unless of course you start asking after the first date. |
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You know, as much as I would like to be dating, I don't get to very often. I would like to know what it takes to be just asked out by someone who isn't a drunk or a stoner, and whose IQ is higher than his shoe size.
I would suppose that the answer to your question is going to depend based on personality and how serious you intend to be with him. Is the chemistry there? Has he mentioned any plans or goals? Etc. |
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..ya got to know when to hold'em know when to fold'em know when to walk away ..know when to run....... |
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There's rules! Why the heck didn't somebody tell me this before! Dagnabit! No wonder I'm single! I never could follow rules!!
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Every generation the rules change.... those of us nearing 50 are really confused
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Every generation the rules change.... those of us nearing 50 are really confused yes i find the smacking of the forehead very adorable and sexy if done by the proper lady |
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I haven't dated since I was 17 and I am 43. I guess a 6 pack in the back seat of a car doesn't work anymore. Who knew?
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That still works, now ya gotta be watching the sunset, instead of just making out.
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That still works, now ya gotta be watching the sunset, instead of just making out. I was thinking the drive-in but that is good advice. |
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I haven't dated since I was 17 and I am 43. I guess a 6 pack in the back seat of a car doesn't work anymore. Who knew? Works for me. Wouldn't it be fun to be that carefree again? |
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I haven't dated since I was 17 and I am 43. I guess a 6 pack in the back seat of a car doesn't work anymore. Who knew? Works for me. Wouldn't it be fun to be that carefree again? An Ohio girl. Yes it would |
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man, now I feel like going and getting a six pack...
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I haven't dated since I was 17 and I am 43. I guess a 6 pack in the back seat of a car doesn't work anymore. Who knew? Works for me. Wouldn't it be fun to be that carefree again? An Ohio girl. Yes it would You wear your buckeye shirt and meet me in the middle. I'll bring 3 beers and you do the same!...... |
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man, now I feel like going and getting a six pack... Sunset should be shortly. |
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I haven't dated since I was 17 and I am 43. I guess a 6 pack in the back seat of a car doesn't work anymore. Who knew? Works for me. Wouldn't it be fun to be that carefree again? An Ohio girl. Yes it would You wear your buckeye shirt and meet me in the middle. I'll bring 3 beers and you do the same!...... Would an Archie Griffen jersy do. |
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