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Topic: Why did you decided to email me?
MeChrissy2's photo
Fri 07/17/09 02:28 PM

They even keep a history file of your mingle criminal record. For instance, "You've been warned 8 times, this is your last warning"


I hope I look cute in my "Wanted" poster.:wink:

T, I normally respond based on the email even if their intent isn't clear. Example:

Them: You're hot
Me: Thank you

No effort into it? None in my response. The more an email says (and for Lex, no not how long it is)laugh the more I tend to respond with. But I never ask why they email me, I assume that they will lose interest or I will figure out their intent.

no photo
Fri 07/17/09 02:32 PM

I hope I look cute in my "Wanted" poster.:wink:

T, I normally respond based on the email even if their intent isn't clear. Example:

Them: You're hot
Me: Thank you

No effort into it? None in my response. The more an email says (and for Lex, no not how long it is)laugh the more I tend to respond with. But I never ask why they email me, I assume that they will lose interest or I will figure out their intent.


It's true, though -- there's no discernible connection between length and content-worthiness....!

Me, I only write the good, long, in-depth e-mails to a select few, heh....but you've seen a number of those already.....!






motowndowntown's photo
Fri 07/17/09 02:33 PM

I generally ask this question when I get an inital email from a guy.

Do you ever ask this? What kind of responses do you get?


What do you say when asked the question?

I generally say... You seem cool and I 'liked' or 'found interesting' this <something specific about their profile>.


That sounds a lot like asking somebody in an elevator who just says hi, "why are you talking to me?"

tngxl65's photo
Fri 07/17/09 03:10 PM

I hope I look cute in my "Wanted" poster.:wink:


Hmmm.... I wonder if I have a copy of that poster.....

MeChrissy2's photo
Fri 07/17/09 03:23 PM


I hope I look cute in my "Wanted" poster.:wink:


Hmmm.... I wonder if I have a copy of that poster.....


M, you are the devil.devil A girl makes a teeny weeny mistake and no one forgets.laugh ohwell

mcgilvrey21's photo
Fri 07/17/09 03:25 PM

usually when i get that i don't hit em back


almost as bad as why u b single?


Hate that question. Its like asking why does your face look like that?
haha
rude..

TxsSun's photo
Fri 07/17/09 03:34 PM
I can't answer this because I don't get emails either.

Wait, I did get one yesterday from a man who just wanted to tell me to have a great day. Don't know who he is. I told him to do the same.

Haven't heard from him since. I think it was just a good deed for the day laugh

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Fri 07/17/09 03:38 PM
I would feel put on the defensive and would likely respond with a sarcastic comment ending the conversation.

Why do you think I e-mailed you? Because I'm interested!!!!!!! Or I would actually say at that point, I "was" interested.

snarkytwain's photo
Fri 07/17/09 03:53 PM
Correct me if I'm wrong, but I'm pretty sure the OP was talking about those e-mails that say something along the lines of, "Hey Sweetie I liked ur pic hit me up".

Seriously, I've begun to ask what ELSE they liked about my profile. I've gotten IMs, too, from guys calling me Baby or Beautiful or whatever... it'd be nice to be asked for my name at least. And then they don't even know I have kids, let alone anything else about me.

Anyway, I'm thinking that's the kinda thing the OP meant?

tngxl65's photo
Fri 07/17/09 03:54 PM

Correct me if I'm wrong, but I'm pretty sure the OP was talking about those e-mails that say something along the lines of, "Hey Sweetie I liked ur pic hit me up".

Seriously, I've begun to ask what ELSE they liked about my profile. I've gotten IMs, too, from guys calling me Baby or Beautiful or whatever... it'd be nice to be asked for my name at least. And then they don't even know I have kids, let alone anything else about me.

Anyway, I'm thinking that's the kinda thing the OP meant?


There you go ruining a good stoning again.

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Fri 07/17/09 03:55 PM
She said "she generally asks the question." I took this to mean it is a standard response to most e-mails.

tngxl65's photo
Fri 07/17/09 04:18 PM



I hope I look cute in my "Wanted" poster.:wink:


Hmmm.... I wonder if I have a copy of that poster.....


M, you are the devil.devil A girl makes a teeny weeny mistake and no one forgets.laugh ohwell


If it makes you feel any better, I only look at it on quiet, lonely nights after a glass of pinot noir. shades

snarkytwain's photo
Fri 07/17/09 04:20 PM

She said "she generally asks the question." I took this to mean it is a standard response to most e-mails.


Maybe that's most the e-mails she gets? :wink:

Yeah, I know tng... what can I say? I'm a diplomat! laugh

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Fri 07/17/09 04:56 PM


She said "she generally asks the question." I took this to mean it is a standard response to most e-mails.


Maybe that's most the e-mails she gets? :wink:

Yeah, I know tng... what can I say? I'm a diplomat! laugh



Hey, I was just answering the second part of the question. That IS how I would respond if someone asked me why I sent them an e-mail. :tongue:

snarkytwain's photo
Fri 07/17/09 05:14 PM



She said "she generally asks the question." I took this to mean it is a standard response to most e-mails.


Maybe that's most the e-mails she gets? :wink:

Yeah, I know tng... what can I say? I'm a diplomat! laugh



Hey, I was just answering the second part of the question. That IS how I would respond if someone asked me why I sent them an e-mail. :tongue:


Granted. My assumption is she wouldn't have to ask if you sent it. :wink:

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Fri 07/17/09 05:15 PM




She said "she generally asks the question." I took this to mean it is a standard response to most e-mails.


Maybe that's most the e-mails she gets? :wink:

Yeah, I know tng... what can I say? I'm a diplomat! laugh



Hey, I was just answering the second part of the question. That IS how I would respond if someone asked me why I sent them an e-mail. :tongue:


Granted. My assumption is she wouldn't have to ask if you sent it. :wink:


True. bigsmile

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